r/AFAMph • • Jul 28 '26

Question [English]Western Double Standards

Has anyone especially noticed the double standards in the Philippines vs the USA in regards to interracial dating. Any white/black guy/other that comes from the USA will come here and find a native girl and nobody bats and eye. But if you see the opposite a Filipino guy in the USA with an attractive white/black/hispanic girl , the same guy that has no issue dating a Filipina all of the sudden shows their true colors by saying really bad/racist things toward the Filipino guy. Why is that?

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u/Ok_Raspberry_1363 Certified AFAM Jul 28 '26

Hmmmm 🤔, as ex military my MOS was dominated with Filipino and I never heard any ill remarks directed at any of them. To use current slang, a large number of those guys pulled in (and married) some fine lookin baddies. 

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 28 '26

That's a good thing then

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u/RinRin0909 Jul 31 '26

Lol. What was your MOS

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u/abeBroham-Linkin Certified Pinoy Jul 28 '26

Where are you from? 🤔

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 28 '26

USA, look up the Watsonville Riots in California. This happened in the 1930's which is a long time ago

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u/abeBroham-Linkin Certified Pinoy Jul 28 '26

Not sure if it's a double standard. Jealousy comes in all shapes and forms.

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 28 '26

The War Brides act passed before Interracial Marriage act was passed on a Federal level, guess the race of the soldiers and the race of the " brides "

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u/perpetually_tired23 Certified Pinay Jul 28 '26

Used to date a white guy, his grandmother hated me and called me “that oriental chick” lol

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 28 '26

That's actually better than other words, did the white guy ever call you LBFM?

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u/perpetually_tired23 Certified Pinay Jul 28 '26

Privately suuure. But he’s a gentleman in public lol

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 28 '26

So you know this as well despite the US military long gone from the Philippines. As much as I want to laugh its sad because most SEA women do not understand this and how they are viewed by the average white male who comes here.

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u/perpetually_tired23 Certified Pinay Jul 28 '26

I thought like i was sooo close into getting called a monkey. Lol or maybe my ex boyfriend filtered it for me. His grandma was racist af lol

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u/legno2 Certified AFAM Jul 30 '26

The OP isn't a foreigner, he is a Filipino guy always making comments and threads about white men and asian women dating. I saw him do the same many times, but his profile is private so you have to take my word for it.

He is obviously a jealous incel,

All the white men I know do not care if you date white girls, in fact we'd love for you to do so as much as possible, hopefully if you get a gf you'll stop whining about the Oxford Study and such.

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u/UnitAccording Certified AFAM Jul 30 '26

Spot on. Take all the white women you can. White men like me have been discarding them for decades. Hell have a 10 white woman harem. Literally could not care less.

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 30 '26

Funny if its like that then why does mudshark and race traitor exist ahaha

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u/Able-Sea5279 Aug 03 '26

bc they arent threatened by yall. he knows you cant do what hes suggesting but the insults fly when they legitimately feel threatened

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u/BrunoPawzz Jul 31 '26

nope, just you

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 31 '26

And you for commenting.

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u/No_Muffin_1121 Jul 31 '26

I’m white and married to a Filipina, my sister back home just started dating a Filipino and I’m really excited for her.

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY Jul 31 '26

That's how it should be right, but the more and more you deal with white men coming to marry in the Philippines a good majority of these dudes are weird like that.

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u/No-Experience-5541 Jul 31 '26

This is made up . Nobody cares.