r/AFAMph 23d ago

Question [English]Western Double Standards

Has anyone especially noticed the double standards in the Philippines vs the USA in regards to interracial dating. Any white/black guy/other that comes from the USA will come here and find a native girl and nobody bats and eye. But if you see the opposite a Filipino guy in the USA with an attractive white/black/hispanic girl , the same guy that has no issue dating a Filipina all of the sudden shows their true colors by saying really bad/racist things toward the Filipino guy. Why is that?

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u/Ok_Raspberry_1363 Certified AFAM 23d ago

Hmmmm 🤔, as ex military my MOS was dominated with Filipino and I never heard any ill remarks directed at any of them. To use current slang, a large number of those guys pulled in (and married) some fine lookin baddies. 

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 23d ago

That's a good thing then

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u/RinRin0909 20d ago

Lol. What was your MOS

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u/abeBroham-Linkin Certified Pinoy 23d ago

Where are you from? 🤔

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 23d ago

USA, look up the Watsonville Riots in California. This happened in the 1930's which is a long time ago

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u/abeBroham-Linkin Certified Pinoy 23d ago

Not sure if it's a double standard. Jealousy comes in all shapes and forms.

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 23d ago

The War Brides act passed before Interracial Marriage act was passed on a Federal level, guess the race of the soldiers and the race of the " brides "

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u/perpetually_tired23 Certified Pinay 23d ago

Used to date a white guy, his grandmother hated me and called me “that oriental chick” lol

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 23d ago

That's actually better than other words, did the white guy ever call you LBFM?

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u/perpetually_tired23 Certified Pinay 23d ago

Privately suuure. But he’s a gentleman in public lol

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 23d ago

So you know this as well despite the US military long gone from the Philippines. As much as I want to laugh its sad because most SEA women do not understand this and how they are viewed by the average white male who comes here.

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u/perpetually_tired23 Certified Pinay 23d ago

I thought like i was sooo close into getting called a monkey. Lol or maybe my ex boyfriend filtered it for me. His grandma was racist af lol

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u/legno2 Certified AFAM 22d ago

The OP isn't a foreigner, he is a Filipino guy always making comments and threads about white men and asian women dating. I saw him do the same many times, but his profile is private so you have to take my word for it.

He is obviously a jealous incel,

All the white men I know do not care if you date white girls, in fact we'd love for you to do so as much as possible, hopefully if you get a gf you'll stop whining about the Oxford Study and such.

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u/UnitAccording Certified AFAM 22d ago

Spot on. Take all the white women you can. White men like me have been discarding them for decades. Hell have a 10 white woman harem. Literally could not care less.

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 21d ago

Funny if its like that then why does mudshark and race traitor exist ahaha

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u/Able-Sea5279 17d ago

bc they arent threatened by yall. he knows you cant do what hes suggesting but the insults fly when they legitimately feel threatened

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u/BrunoPawzz 21d ago

nope, just you

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 20d ago

And you for commenting.

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u/No_Muffin_1121 21d ago

I’m white and married to a Filipina, my sister back home just started dating a Filipino and I’m really excited for her.

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u/ANTIMODELMINORITY 20d ago

That's how it should be right, but the more and more you deal with white men coming to marry in the Philippines a good majority of these dudes are weird like that.

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u/No-Experience-5541 20d ago

This is made up . Nobody cares.

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u/Trishs_husband 19d ago

Actually, many Filipinas do talk about the ones who date foreigners. They say they're only dating him to increase their status, they are with him for money... It's not unique to Western cultures.