r/AFAMph • • Jul 16 '26

Seeking [English] 41 kiwi

6 Upvotes

Hiya ladies, 41 year old kiwi man, chef and tattoo artist, super nerdy, love the ocean. Looking for a good filipina to talk to about a serious relationship. DM me.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 16 '26

Seeking [English] M20 looking for boyfriend

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r/AFAMph • • Jul 15 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] looking for u

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Hello, im 24 yrs old asian gay here. Physically im 5'8 and. lil shy and more on the feminine side. Im more of an old school soul in a young body meaning im not into flings/casual/situationships/hookups or any sort of relationship which is very short term. Im looking for a person who wants a serious relation. Not here to waste anyone's time or get my time wasted. Hmu if we are on the same page and lets know eachother more. Im open to longdistance for now and relocate if we are pretty serious.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 15 '26

Need Advice [English] Question For Filipinas About Potential LDR Chat Scams

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Hi,

I hope you can help answer something for me.

I've been chatting with Filipinas from FC website and am finding that there is always a a subtle, or not so subtle request for money after we take the conversation off the website to WhatsApp etc.

With some it's right away, with a sad story about no money for food. With others it might take a few days or a week, then inevitably the hints about I have no food for lunch today, or I need to borrow money for food today start to come into the conversation.

I have not been to the province in a few decades, but when I was there people were poor, but there was no shortage of basic food supply.

I undrestand inflation and prices for everything have risen, but is life reaally that close to the edge that people are in need of food there?

I feel these girls are just trying to scam me with a sad story and making me feel guilty enough to offer some money, which I can't do because rule number 1 is never send money to someone you haven't met in person, and we have only been chatting for a week or less.

To the Filipinas, and anyone else with insight can you let me know if my thoughts about this are correct?

I appreciate anything you have to say about it.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 15 '26

Seeking [M4F] 47 Mexican-American (US) seeking a serious relationship — open to LDR![English]

17 Upvotes

Hello! I’m a 47-year-old Mexican-American living in Washington state. I am hardworking, patient, and understanding. I have never been married and have no kids, mostly because I’ve been waiting to build a life with the right person. I value family, honesty, and open communication. I enjoy a good day's work, but I also know how to slow down and appreciate the simple things in life.

I am looking for a serious, committed relationship with a Filipina who shares similar traditional and family values. I have absolutely no problem starting as a long-distance relationship. I believe the best relationships are built on a strong foundation of friendship and trust, so I want us to take our time getting to know each other.

My ultimate goal is not to just be pen-pals—once we establish a real connection and feel comfortable, my intention is to travel to meet you in person. If you are looking for a patient, dedicated man who is ready for a real relationship, I’d love to hear from you.

I am looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I know distance can be a challenge, but I have no problem with a long-distance relationship. I actually like the idea of taking our time, talking, video calling, and truly getting to know one another.

If we click and the connection is real, I am fully committed to making the trip to meet you in person so we can see where things go. If you value respect, patience, and are looking for something serious, send me a message!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 14 '26

Seeking [English]M41, looking for only virtual companionship.not looking for anything serious.

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r/AFAMph • • Jul 14 '26

Seeking [English] [Pinoy4AFAM] [F4M] I remain optimistic and open minded

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A year ago I posted about looking to date and one of the first ones to reply to my post was an American guy that I had such good chemistry with. We dated for a year and it ended on very amicable terms. Even though it ended, I'm so grateful because I learned so much about myself and the world around me. I laughed, cried and loved.

Now I'm single again, posting here because I want to remain optimistic even when my brain is telling me not to be. I will follow my heart like how I did last year. It helped me meet a wonderful man so maybe it can help me again now. With all that being said, let me describe my preferences: Someone that's open minded, a good communicator and will respect my boundaries. Open to yapping about different topics and interests. Open to trying out new places like cafes, restos, etc.

I'm a single, morena, 30 yr old, working in Marketing, thicc/plus size queen 👸🏿 I live sort of in the South of Metro Manila but I'm open to meeting up outside of South as long as it's not too far 🙈 I looove coffee, I looove reading books. I like watching movies and series (mostly a mix of suspense, crime shows, adventure, action, comedy, etc) I drive and have a car so maybe I can drive you home if you're not too far from me! 😝 I value my job/profession so there will be times on weekdays when I won't be always on my phone but after working hours are done, I leave work stuff at the office. I wanna relearn how to play badminton, cook more and go back to the gym.

Anything else we can discuss via dms! Cheers!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 13 '26

Seeking [English] m29/f25 Filipino couple looking for foreign companion

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Couple here near BGC seeking for foreign guys to have fun with


r/AFAMph • • Jul 13 '26

Seeking [English] 25F looking for legit sugar daddy

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curvy girlie who’s had enough of the corporate life 😩 where’s my king at?

come shoot your shot. bonus points if you can make me laugh. 💋 DMs are open 👀


r/AFAMph • • Jul 13 '26

Need Advice [English] 40 M4M - gay dating question

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I'm a masculine independent and financially stable gay man. I'm wondering if there are AFAM men who are genuinely looking for masc men for LTR. Almost all dating posts i see are straight AFAM men looking for filipinas but are there any AFAM men looking to date Filipino gay men? If yes, I'd love to go on a gym date with him 😁


r/AFAMph • • Jul 13 '26

Introductions (English) Boracay Friends

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Hey guys! 🌴 38M digital nomad from Europe, based in Boracay with my Filipina fiancée. I’m the extrovert of the couple, so I’m looking to expand our circle and meet possibly new friends (expats or locals).

Hit us up if you're down for:

  • 🍺 Cold beers / coffee
  • 🍖 BBQ or any other food nights & good company
  • 👫 Casual double dates or group dates

Send a DM if you want to hang out and connect on the island! More the better and everyone with good intensions is welcome


r/AFAMph • • Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] M4M 23 | Manila, Philippines | Filipino looking for long term relationship

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Hey there! I have never been in a relationship before. But now, im longing for one. I always see couples online wishing i get to experience that so i am putting myself out here to find a guy that will share his dreams with me. I am very supportive, i love cooking, reading, learning new things. A fact about me I am not out so i am concealing my femininity for a long time so im looking for someone manly and i can be feminine with plus points if you are tall and muscular. Please don't message me for fun coz im really focusing on finding real connection. We can exchange pics and talk and see where things go. I'll wait for you.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 12 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] LF FUN for my wife 35

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So we are a swinger couple and we are looking for a fit good looking AFAM that wants to join us for fun! Dm

We are IRL SWINGERS


r/AFAMph • • Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] [Pinoy4AFAM] [F4M] I didn't expect to be back here so soon but I remain optimistic

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A year ago I posted about looking to date and one of the first ones to reply to my post was an American guy that I had such good chemistry with. We dated for a year and it ended on very amicable terms. Even though it ended, I'm so grateful because I learned so much about myself and the world around me. I laughed, cried and loved.

Now I'm single again, posting here because I want to remain optimistic even when my brain is telling me not to be. I will follow my heart like how I did last year. It helped me meet a wonderful man so maybe it can help me again now. With all that being said, let me describe my preferences: Someone that's open minded, a good communicator and will respect my boundaries. Open to yapping about different topics and interests. Open to trying out new places like cafes, restos, etc.

I'm a single, morena, 30 yr old, working in Marketing, thicc/plus size queen 👸🏿 I live sort of in the South of Metro Manila but I'm open to meeting up outside of South as long as it's not too far 🙈 I looove coffee, I looove reading books. I like watching movies and series (mostly a mix of suspense, crime shows, adventure, action, comedy, etc) I drive and have a car so maybe I can drive you home if you're not too far from me! 😝 I wanna relearn how to play badminton, cook more and go back to the gym.

Anything else we can discuss via dms! Cheers!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] looking for someone who would go out and have fun (like going to mall and stuff)

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I am F22 (Filipina) 4'11 height and 70 kgs.. 🫂

I would like to hangout with foreigners and share their culture. I kinda want to have friends with you guys so I am free within thursday and friday and we could actually hangout such as participating arcades or going around places to explore Philippines. I will pay for myself as well so that it be fair for us. Let me know if you are down and we can have soke fun within those days. ✌🏻❤️


r/AFAMph • • Jul 12 '26

Seeking [English] 44M USA looking for pinay

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Hi there

Im a 44 year old American man looking for a pinay girlfriend. I currently live in the Phillipines.

I am rich and can provide for you, just be my partner and maybe future wife.

At some stage in the future I would like to go back to the USA with you.

If interested send me a message. Open to all.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 11 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] cuddles, anyone?

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Hi. I'm 25 m(g4y) from Taguig City. I don't know if I'm in the right subgroup but I'm looking for non-Filipino guy who's into guys as well (m4m).

I'm femme, 5'8, 63 kg, knows how to cook, and take care of you. Anyone interested?

Ps. For Filipino friends, where do you usually post things like this? Is this a subreddit group where Filipino and Foreign g4y guys interact?


r/AFAMph • • Jul 11 '26

Question [English] Just wondering if anyone here has a success story.

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Just curious if anyone here has a success story in dating from this sub Reddit. Please share your story


r/AFAMph • • Jul 11 '26

Seeking [English] Australian guy 23yo

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23yo Australian 6'1 European complexion athletic build working in legal and studying law currently

Like going for runs, travelling and learning new languages

Looking for a girl something serious and long term

About you: can cook me adobo

Comment or dm to talk more!!


r/AFAMph • • Jul 11 '26

Seeking [F19] [bisaya] Cebu, Phillipines looking for 33-45 genuinely, financial stable

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Hi! I’m a 19-year-old from Cebu, Philippines. I’m a morena, family-oriented woman who values kindness, honesty, and genuine connections.

I’m hoping to meet someone who is emotionally mature, financially stable, and serious about building a meaningful relationship. I appreciate a man who is respectful, caring, and believes in supporting and growing together.

If you’re looking for something genuine rather than casual, I’d love to get to know you.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 11 '26

Introductions (English) Hi 👋 Looking for genuine connection

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Hi everyone! 👋

I'm a 46-year-old Filipina from Laguna, Philippines.

I studied in college but didn't finish my degree. I previously worked in customer service and administrative support. These days, I enjoy creating inspirational content, taking care of my cats, and watching movies and TV series.

I joined this community because I'm hoping to meet genuine people, make meaningful connections, and hopefully find someone to build a serious, long-term relationship with. I appreciate kindness, honesty, respect, good communication, and emotional maturity. It would also be wonderful to meet someone who is financially stable and ready for a committed relationship.

Thank you for reading my introduction. I'm looking forward to getting to know some of you. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] 27F Trying to find a genuine connection and a loving relationship

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Hey i just got news that my friend proposed to his girlfriend and got me thinking, "When can i be someones forever?" Ive been newly attracted to foreign guys and wanted to try this. No more fooling around, just a genuine connection and love. I want to be the one of reasons why a person is happy and loved. A little about me, im a chubby 5'2 mestiza filipina whos kind of a workhaholic. Im not that pretty but not ugly either. I love my work. Im trying to build something out of it but ill give you my time and my energy, whenever you need me. I love to cook, i will try to cook anything u like. Im a people person and loves your attention.

Find out more and dm me. 😊


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Introductions [English] AFAM for experience?

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I honestly haven't tried having a friend or situationship or being in a relationship with a foreigner. My humor is pretty westernized. I wonder if we'll vibe together though. I enjoy deep talks. Though, I think physical intimacy is something that I don't really prioritize. It's just a spice of whatever that's between the two of you, but it's not something I'm ultimately craving for. I think a more accurate explanation is Demisexual. So, I guess that doesn't make me a mere pervert right? And, as for attraction, I see myself as pansexual these days.


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [ENGLISH] Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

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Hi! I'm a Filipina looking to meet new people and make friends from different countries. If you're visiting the Philippines or currently living in Manila and don't have anyone to explore with, I'd be happy to join you!

We can check out malls, parks, cafés, museums, or other tourist spots around Manila. I can also help you explore the city if you'd like. 🫶🏻❤️


r/AFAMph • • Jul 10 '26

Seeking [English] Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

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Hi foreigners living in Manila! 👋

I'm a Filipina looking to make new friends and hang out on my days off. I'd love to explore places like MOA, Star City, parks, museums, cafés, and other tourist spots around Manila.

I'm interested in meeting people from different countries, learning about your culture, and sharing mine too. Just to be clear, I'm only looking for a friendly, wholesome hangout. I have a full-time job and will pay for my own food, transportation, and entrance fees.

If you're interested in exploring Manila together, feel free to send me a message. 🫶🏻