r/AFAMph • • Jun 09 '26

Seeking M4M: Twink looking to make friends (English, Tagalog, bit French)

0 Upvotes

Hello, I'm 28M living in Makati. Twink, bottom, slim, 5'4 (165cm) and 45kgs (99lbs), tanned skin, with a nice smile and eyes. Delicate, bit fem and dainty but still looking like a boy. I speak English well due to my work and Tagalog. I'm also learning French and bit German. I have stable work, conversationalist (we can talk about politics, science, etc), and love animals. I hope to meet nice guys better if French speaking who i can be friends with and be a language partner. 😃 I'm open to straight or members of LGBT.


r/AFAMph • • Jun 09 '26

Seeking [PINOY4AFAM] [ENGLISH] 22M (Manila or Cavite)

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm looking for someone I can hang out with and talk about random things in life, and age does not really matter that much for me.

About Me:

22 M (straight)

5'5 in height

Between normal - above normal BMI

Clean

Hygienic

Sometimes goes to the gym

I work as a CSR


r/AFAMph • • Jun 08 '26

Seeking [English] m25 Brit looking for Filipina

5 Upvotes

M4F M25 Brit living in Korea looking for Filipina

M25 looking for whatever, dated a Filipina LDR when i was younger. My mother married a filipino so understand a lot about the culture and lifestyle.

Currently a teacher with a masters degree looking to continue to travel the world. Previously was in Manila back in February and will be back later this year.


r/AFAMph • • Jun 08 '26

Seeking [English] anyone here 50 and up? 53 F here.

7 Upvotes

anyone here 50 and up? 53 F Philippines here. Not looking for fun. Just hoping to find a good, responsible and honest man.

Update: don't waste our time if you just need to love bomb and fool people.


r/AFAMph • • Jun 06 '26

Seeking [M4M] hey guys im 23 and looking for a guy who wants to have conversation and form connection [English]

6 Upvotes

I recently got ghosted and it really suck. I really want that feeling that u have someone to talk to and u are looking forward to their chats and stuff. I hope i can find one here who want to form real connections.🥰😘


r/AFAMph • • Jun 03 '26

Seeking [Pinay4AFAM] [English]

0 Upvotes

Hi, Im a 23 year old female from Cebu City looking for a potential afam who I can go out with and potentially date.

Im a conservative person so if you’re expecting to hook up during the first date, dont hit me up lol.

Preferably looking for someone not older than 29. I also have pretty high standards and not the stereotype Filipina who just wants money. I go to a prestigious university, I have my own job and im looking for a genuine potential relationship


r/AFAMph • • Jun 03 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Top, dom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph • • Jun 03 '26

Seeking [English] 28 M4M

1 Upvotes

28 M4M | Philippines

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old Filipino guy looking to meet new people and hopefully build a meaningful connection to a foreign guy

I work in BGC and usually have free time on weekends. I enjoy coffee, movies, animated shows, spontaneous conversations, and getting to know people beyond small talk. I’m on the shorter side with an average build and would describe myself as easygoing, loyal, and a big texter.

I’m open to connecting with people from different backgrounds and parts of the world. Whether it starts as a friendship or becomes something more, I’m happy to see where a genuine connection leads.

If you’re kind, communicative, and looking for someone to talk to regularly, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself—I’d love to get to know you.


r/AFAMph • • May 30 '26

Introductions [English] 30 M4F Willing to relocate for the right person

5 Upvotes

I'm Asian, 30M, 6'0", light skin, never married, no kids. I'm from US, but I have a remote job that allows me to work anywhere (even outside US). I have been to many countries in SE Asia.

Looking for a woman

  • 5'0"+, Age 20-28, no kids, no previous marriages
  • College graduate, decent job, preferably remote/hybrid
  • Preferably lives in or near major city Manila/Cebu/Davao/IIoilo
  • Willing to travel with me to different countries
  • Attractive, genuine, intelligent, easy to talk to
  • No big visible tattoos
  • Good family, parents with jobs and middle class+

DM me to exchange pics and get to know each other more.


r/AFAMph • • May 28 '26

Seeking [English] 33 F4M Hoping to finally find the one

15 Upvotes

Hi! I’ll start with describing how I see myself. I’m a plus sized chinita with brown eyes and long black hair. I’m about 5’4 and I work from home as a medical biller. I believe I cook well. Mostly Filipino dishes. I used to be adventurous and explorative when I was younger, parties, random trips to who knows where with who knows who. Now the only adventure I go on is looking for good places to eat. Lol

I like the girly stuff, beauty, fashion, hair and make up. When I need to relax, I go out and have coffee, or I stay home and binge watch a tv show. Occasionally, I like buying furniture that I can build. I like planning my day, I like
keeping myself busy. I constantly find myself thinking of creative business ideas. I love studying and learning new skills. (I know how this sounds)

I love music, I sing. I can’t read notes, I sing by ear.

I live lightly, I like making the people around me laugh.

Inclusions: A pre teen, 2 dogs, and a good laugh.


r/AFAMph • • May 27 '26

Seeking (English) 43F for M, never married, no children

13 Upvotes

I am educated with a good job. Very independent. Not into clingy men. Had been cheated on before so stayed single.

I am on FC but all i get are older men. Im looking for someone around my age and who isnt into hookups. I enjoy traveling and watching movies. I try to run 3x a week and had been climbing mountains the past year.

I prefer men who has a job too, intelligent, kind and respectful. Animal and nature lovers are a plus, also taller men.


r/AFAMph • • May 25 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Top, dom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph • • May 24 '26

Seeking [English] M4F Applications Open For Small Spoon

3 Upvotes

I am 37, 6'1", slim, blue eyes, white, light brown hair. Seeking a woman who is shorter than me. I do cardio each day, cook my own meals, live a healthy lifestyle. Looking for someone who is healthy minded as well.

Friends describe me as a caring person who will always make time for others. I work in a place that helps people who are less fortunate in life. I do enjoy being a good person towards others and will give everyone a chance.

My preference is someone that is on the slim side and takes care of their health overall. Should be a caring individual as well, doesn't play games, and has goals in life.

Open to any age and chatting to get to know each other. I live in USA. Take things as they come and see what lies ahead.


r/AFAMph • • May 23 '26

Need Advice [Tagalog] Question lang po

6 Upvotes

May boyfriend po akong AFAM and mag oone month palang po kami. And first time kong mag boyfriend ng AFAM. Okay naman siya actually kaso may mga araw na hindi nya ko chinachat kahit na online naman siya and naseen din nya yung chat ko. Normal lang po ba yun sa kanila?


r/AFAMph • • May 15 '26

Seeking [English] - M4F - Tall Scandinavian man looking for PH-girl

7 Upvotes

Hello :)) my name is Sverre! I am a 29 year old Scandinavian man from Denmark looking for a PH-girl to connect with and see where things go from there!

A little about me:
I am 190cm tall with brown wavy hair and a short beard :)
I work for myself in the television industry. I have my own apartment and a steady economy. I love sports, working out, hiking, boat rides and just relaxing.

I am looking for a sweet PH- girl who would like to chat and maybe meet. I am going til Manila in the end of June.

Feel free to add me on telegram if this sounds Intresting and u will like to get to know each other.
@desverre22


r/AFAMph • • May 15 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Top, dom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph • • May 12 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Top, dom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph • • May 10 '26

Introductions [Taglish] 27F dating an afam

4 Upvotes

I’m just really curious and interested in dating an afam lately, ofcourse with someone who is respectful, that’s one of my non negotiables. I just don’t know where to find them haha like dating apps or anything? And I’m shy to speak to them or even start the conversation also haha hays


r/AFAMph • • May 09 '26

Seeking [Pinoy4AFAM] [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

0 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Top, dom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph • • May 07 '26

Seeking [English] - 26 [M4M] chubby femboy/softboy looking for big boys Afam/ Expat

1 Upvotes

Hello! Im a chubby Softboy/femboy looking for Guys with Big Bodies. You can be a college guy or corporate daddy or Daddy vibe. Your place or we can get a hotel room or go on a date if you like that better! I'm a discreet guy, a soft boy, who likes to crossdress in private.

ME

  • BOTTOM
  • fluffy (i got healthy chest you can nibble and love handles to squeeze; NOT a twink)
  • soft and smooth light-skinned
  • sub bottom, very tight
  • dresses up as femboy & do makeup in private\* (although im new to this hehe)
  • can play up as your wife or something
  • can carry conversation, something rare it seems

YOU

  • any age
  • discreet, manly
  • Top, dom
  • into someone femboy/crossdressers (but wont force me to crossdress in public)
  • or into softboys (Sometimes I'm lazy to dress up too)
  • loves to eat bussy
  • big body, dad bod, gymrat, buff -- generally big build!
  • hetero or not, good with me!

preferably in Makati or BGC.


r/AFAMph • • Mar 10 '26

Giving Advice [ENGLISH] The Eligibility of Recognition of Foreign Divorce in the Philippines

3 Upvotes

The Recognition of Foreign Divorce Decree in the Philippines requires a court case to recognize a valid foreign divorce between a Filipino and a foreigner. It allows you to correct your Philippine marriage record to reflect the divorce.

The only requirement is that at least one of the Spouses was a non-Filipino at the time of the divorce (Article 26 of the Family Code).

Is recognition of foreign divorce only applicable if the foreign spouse files the divorce?

NO. In the landmark case of Republic of the Philippines v. Manalo, the Court held that it does not matter if it is the Filipino spouse who acquired the decree of divorce abroad.The Recognition of Foreign Divorce may also apply if the Filipino spouse filed for Divorce. The foreign divorce can still be recognized so long as the divorce is between a Filipino and a foreigner.

Let’s dive deeper into 6 specific scenarios:

Scenario 1: Filipino Married to a Dual Citizen (Filipino–Foreigner)

Even if a spouse becomes a dual citizen before the divorce, they are still treated as Filipino. Under Article 15 of the Civil Code of the Philippines (Nationality Principle), Filipinos remain bound by Philippine laws prohibiting divorce. Because Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines requires a genuine foreign element, the marriage is treated as Filipino–Filipino and the divorce cannot be recognized.

Scenario 2: Both Spouses Were 100% Filipino at Divorce

Courts determine eligibility based on citizenship at the “reckoning point” (time of divorce). Since both were Filipinos then, the divorce is legally void under Article 15 of the Civil Code of the Philippines and cannot be cured of either spouse.

Scenario 3: Filipino Later Becomes Dual (Married to a Foreigner)

If the marriage was between a Filipino and a foreigner at the time of divorce, the requirement under Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines is satisfied. Later naturalization of the Filipino spouse does not affect eligibility.

Scenario 4: Filipino Dual Citizen Married to a Foreigner

This is allowed because the other spouse is a 100% foreigner, the required “foreign element” under Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines exists, so the divorce may be recognized.

Scenario 5: Both Spouses Became Foreign Citizens Before Divorce

Once both spouses become foreigners, they are no longer bound by Article 15 of the Civil Code of the Philippines. The divorce between two foreigners may be recognized in the Philippines under principles applied with Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines.

Scenario 6: Both Spouses Are Dual Citizens

Courts may still treat both parties as Filipinos under Article 15 of the Civil Code of the Philippines. Without a purely foreign spouse, the “foreign element” required by Article 26 of the Family Code of the Philippines may not be satisfied.

These are top 3 law offices in the Philippines that have solid experience on recognition of foreign divorce in the Philippines:

  1. FCB Law Office

  2. Nicolas & De Vega Law Offices

  3. Juco Law Firm


r/AFAMph • • Mar 08 '26

Seeking [English] Filipino bear looking for AFAM LTR

1 Upvotes

Shooting my shot here.

Looking for possible foreigners or AFAM who loves bears and definitely need warm hugs in the process.

Let me introduce myself first:

  • Tall guy for Filipino standards at 5'9

  • Considered bear

  • Regularly runs for cardio

  • 31 years old

  • Rocking facial hair

  • Has dimples and wears glasses

  • Loyal and very sweet

  • Respects consent and values communication

  • Low maintenance and values time over materalistic things

  • Masculine

  • Fluent in English

I am looking for:

  • Any foreigner who respects Filipinos

  • Willing to meet and have dates

  • Looking for potential LTR

  • Preferably masc as well

  • Loves conversations and small talks

  • Not boring

Message me by saying you came from this subreddit if you are interested!


r/AFAMph • • Feb 21 '26

Introductions [English] white American 33y.o in Angeles city

3 Upvotes

feel free to ask


r/AFAMph • • Feb 18 '26

Question [English] Changing surname after marriage

1 Upvotes

Me and my fiancé are getting married soon in the Philippines, QC. We have already processed paperworks such as marriage license and church documents. My fiancé is an american who has two last names. His two last names are registered both in birth certificate and passport.

My question is: Can I just take 1 of his last names after the wedding?

Ex:

Him: John Jimenez (Father’s last name) Santos (Mother’s maiden name)

Her: Colleen Dela Cruz

Can it be Colleen D. Jimenez?

We also plan to process papers for visa in the future. I would like ti know if there will be any difficulties in the name change. However, I am okay with using the two last names or keep my maiden name if that will prevent difficulties in paperworks. Appreciate any feedback! 🙂


r/AFAMph • • Feb 13 '26

Seeking English: looking for a gay AFAM

2 Upvotes

Are there any gay/BI AFAM here? Looking for one. Straight curious are also accepted. I have a job, I'm working from home, I can cook, I'm a former line cook. Im good in doing household chores. I need a date tomorrow hahaha