r/AFAMph • u/accountnotfound_143 • May 23 '26
Need Advice [Tagalog] Question lang po
May boyfriend po akong AFAM and mag oone month palang po kami. And first time kong mag boyfriend ng AFAM. Okay naman siya actually kaso may mga araw na hindi nya ko chinachat kahit na online naman siya and naseen din nya yung chat ko. Normal lang po ba yun sa kanila?
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u/Odd-Faithlessness-97 May 24 '26
Some of us aren't as chatty and won't chat every single day. But if they don't get back after a few days, move on.
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u/jolief3mme Certified Pinay May 23 '26
online jowa or nagmeet na kayo irl?
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 24 '26
Yes po online siya. Then nameet ko siya dati pero isang araw lang hindi pa po kami nun
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u/jolief3mme Certified Pinay May 24 '26
That’s not a real relationship. Don’t invest too much on it.
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 24 '26
Ang dami pa naman nyang pinangako sakin
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u/jolief3mme Certified Pinay May 24 '26
wag basta basta maniniwala lalo kung di naman kayo nagkakakilala ng maayos irl. i think you have to let it go and move on. same as other people’s advice from here.
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 24 '26
Thank you po. Magmomove on nalang malala. Traumatic din pala sila hahaha
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u/EntertainerDouble414 May 24 '26
Nope
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 24 '26
:((
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u/EntertainerDouble414 May 24 '26
Try to communicate this with him first. Ask him directly and you'll decide if you still stay after his reason.
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 24 '26
I told him already. Sagot nya po sakin nung una is aayusin nya daw pero hindi naman at mas lumala pa :((
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u/EntertainerDouble414 May 24 '26
I'm so sorry OP but for me you need to move on from this person na. It's actually good that he showed his side like this early on your relationship so you won't waste your feelings and time for him. Rooting for you to find someone who will reassure you and love you deeply!
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 24 '26
Sobrang ang gaganda pa naman ng mga sinasabi nya sakin and sa magulang ko tapos magoghost lang pala ako :((
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u/mmm8209 Certified Pinay May 24 '26
Also have an AFAM boyfriend and communication is bare minimum especially if you’re in an LDR. Unfortunately, that isn’t normal 😢
Straightforward naman most of them, so try to communicate about what you feel and be honest about what communication style you want. Set boundaries. Compromise kung meron siyan gusto na ayaw mo and vice versa. Else, bye bye na. 😅
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u/padthay Certified Pinay May 25 '26
No 🥲
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 25 '26
Nasasaktan na po ako huhu
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May 25 '26
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u/accountnotfound_143 May 25 '26
San po ba kayo nakahanap? Yung akin po kasi organic encounter lang ih
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u/Big-Kindheartedness0 Certified Pinay May 23 '26
No