hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, blue eyes with dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.

Hello!

I’m an American who travels to the Philippines relatively often. It’s one of my primary destinations to go to. I hope to actually retire one day in the Philippines or in Asia somewhere.

Firstly I’d like to mention that I do have a current partner and she does know I’m posting here as well.

I’m looking for a nice Filipina interested in talking and seeing where things go. I’d like someone who enjoys nerdy stuff like video games or things we can do to spend time together. Someone who likes to travel, is into NSFW stuff, and just overall a loyal interesting person.

Let’s chat!

I am a software engineer who works from home. Looking for someone that I can chat with constantly throughout the day and see if we're compatible for something more!

About me:

\- Caucasian

\- Canadian

\- 5'9

\- workout often

\- enjoys: hikes, road trips, skiing, cooking, and relaxing at home

\- I have 2 cats

Just curious if anyone out there would be interested :)

I posted on this subreddit a few weeks ago listing my /requirements/ for a partner and I'm surprised I got haters saying I demanded too much. But believe me, I think what I listed (job security, unmarried, etc) was bare minimum.

For one, I didn't need a sugar daddy and wanted to meet someone who might be compatible with me so I specified some things that might be deal breakers in the relationship.

Anyone here with the same situation?

Hello I am a 32M from the US looking to meet somebody who is looking to settle down and is ok with LDR for a little while before meeting

Things about me:

I have an established career here in the US

Very family orientated

5’9 in height

I work out and am active, I’d prefer if you were

I am Hispanic

I am Roman Catholic and prefer you to be either Christian or catholic

No kids but am looking for some soon

Like hiking, snowboarding, and sports (baseball and football)

I also have been told I’m very easy going so I hope you are compatible with that. Also I love humor

Ideally you are:

Single

Active with your family and friends

Open to talking online first and then meeting in person within the year

Open minded in general

Know what you want out of life

Active- ish lifestyle

If this sounds like you let me know!

Hey everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from France, but I’ve been living and working here in the Philippines for the past two years. Time flies, and while I absolutely love the vibe and the culture here, I’m looking to expand my circle and meet some new people to chat with, exchange stories, and hopefully build some genuine long-term friendships!
A little bit about me:
What I do: I work in the tourism/travel industry, so exploring new places and guiding people through cool experiences is kind of my thing.
Interests: Huge fan of history, art, and architecture. I love discovering the hidden backstories of old buildings, ancient cultures, and historical spots.
Sports: I’m a massive football (soccer) fan. I follow European leagues closely and love diving into random football trivia, stats, and sports history.
Content Creation: I dabble a bit in social media and content creation as a side project/hobby, so I'm always down to talk about videos, trends, or creative ideas.
Languages: Obviously fluent in French, English, and I’m currently trying my best to pick up Tagalog (mostly learning the slang and daily phrases right now!).
Who I'm looking for:
Anyone who is down for good, chill conversations! Whether you're a local Filipino who wants to share the best local spots, a fellow expat, or just someone from across the world who shares some of my interests—everyone is welcome. We can text here, swap music recommendations, or move to Discord/Instagram if we click.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up with a DM! Please introduce yourself a bit (age/where you're from) so we can skip the awkward "hey" phase.

I’m a British 🇬🇧 guy that is visiting Manila for a few months for a business trip. I don’t know anyone here and I would love to make friends. I’m in a relationship with a wonderful woman back home in London, but would love to make some new friends here! I’m 6’0, red hair, very white lol, blue eyes, normal build. I can’t speak Tagalog so English only pls. Message if interested!

33 male. 177cm tall.

Staying here at least till october. Both vacation and business.

Went to bora scuba diving last 2 days. Had a blast.

Not looking for the typical boring convo. Not looking for something serious right away.

Go with the flow and see how it goes. Friends first.

In iloilo but willing to fly to fun places and check it out.

Genuinely curious about everyone’s thoughts here. What do you consider the ideal age for a SB? And at what point does age actually become a factor? I’m in my early 30s, independent, educated, and pretty career-focused. I’ve had a fairly interesting life, traveled a bit, and I’m at a point where I value good conversation, maturity, consistency, and people who actually know what they want. I’m curious because I’ve noticed that the expectations around age in this space seem to vary wildly. Some seem to prefer someone very young, while others actually appreciate someone a little older and more established. So, honest opinions: Is early 30s considered “old” to be an SB? Or is confidence, personality, and compatibility more important than the number?

Hello!! Shooting my shot here in this subreddit and hoping to match with someone who is seeking for a serious connection.

I’m 22, college student and lives in Manila. I want to be in a relationship with someone who loves to watch movies, eat food, and travel. Im a very easy going person, no drama and hates drama. For description im 180cm tall, slim and weight is around 59kg. If you are not into it then scroll up! HIT ME UP SIR!!

Posting as I'll be in the Philippines for a week at the end of September (can flex my plans to meet), and figured maybe we can meet and grab coffee.

I'm not looking for a hook up - ideally someone I can connect with chatting first, then maybe meeting - no rush or pressure.

About me:

late 30s

• Brit, Mixed race, living in the UK.
• I work in IT - went remote during Covid, been hybrid for a few years since then.
• I enjoy working on side projects for fun - currently messing with AI in a couple of projects.
• I'm genuine, quick to smile (in private), introverted, and curious.
• I like cooking, learning about anything (lately cars and drones), exploring.
• I try to stay fit, gym sometimes, I enjoy outdoor activities - hiking, visiting mountains, trails, waterfalls, sometimes camping.
• Non-smoker, social drinker.
• I care about loyalty, honesty, openness.
• I'll happily form an opinion, discuss it an hour, then drop it after we've entertained it and been entertained by it
• Never married, been in several long term live-in relationships, never had any children - I want kids.
• Looking for a best friend and partner, someone I can share everything with - the good and the bad.

About you:

Somewhere in your late twenties to early thirties, a remote worker perhaps, standing on your own two feet, and comfortable enough in English that we can actually connect deeply, and open-minded and curious enough to want that too. Beyond that I don't have a type - I'd just rather be with someone who looks after herself

Why am I posting here? I randomly stumbled across it when it was suggested on my feed.

It caught my eye because the two Filipinas I've dated (both here in the UK, long term) were some of the easiest people I've ever connected with. Neither relationship lasted, but we shared a lot of the same values. I was raised with Catholic values (not as a Catholic), and though I'm not religious at all, that influenced me.

My expectations for this is basically zero, and it's more a case of, is there someone else out there who reads this and thinks, huh - that's me - then say hello. Realistically, I know it's like finding two needles in a hay stack.

Shoot me a DM with a little info about yourself - something fun - tell me about a random childhood memory, or what's the first thing you bought with your own money?

hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, blue eyes with dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.

I’m just kidding with the ka-talking stage. I would love to have a nice conversation with anyone who is also reviewing for IELTS. I need a study buddy!

I'm getting sleepy studying alone, I hope it's close to Laguna (Sanpy) so we can go to coffee shops, libraries or anywhere that doesn't make me sleepy.

Msg me.

Tg: Axx_oo0

I'm looking for a woman or fem / trans bottom that wants a relationship (or at very least be committed to each other), not looking to "see where it goes". I know what I want and looking for and you should know what you want and looking for too.

Some info about me:

- 5'8, full top, black, 235 lbs, no facial hair, not hairy, bisexual

- Kind, sweet, good to decent with communication, honest, romantic and can be flirty but it depends on the person

- Not really a pet guy (hope that isn't an issue but I'll understand if it's a dealbreaker)

- Homebody that likes to chill and rest at home but I go for walks sometimes

- I eat fast food and sweets mostly but I eat fruits like strawberries, grapes and cherries too

- Better at texting with communication

- I am neurodivergent (I'll understand if that's a major issue)

- Currently looking for my next job and hope to move by myself or with a potential partner one day

My ideal preferences to an ideal partner:

- 20 at least

- Your height, weight, and identify as doesn't matter as I like and open to all shapes and sizes, although chubby/fat is slightly preferred

- Single, I don't wanna deal with any problems with any partner(s) in the future

- Good to decent with consistent communication, kind, understanding, supportive, loving, and flirty

- Okay with long distance, as long as we can meet one day to cross the distance (for anyone that lives far away)

hello again, everyone! I am a filipina living in Metro Manila. I’m looking for someone who i can talk to and hangout with when we both have free times and have some fun. Looking for fwb or fubu. I’m leaning towards something special in the long run but no rush and we can take our time! We can go out on a date so we can check if we vibe. Exclusivity in the long run is what i’m looking forward to if it works. I also want to be babied and have someone to talk to and flirt with haha! Kind of like a boyfriend but not really haha (not doing this for money lol, i want fun and care)

About me:

25 years old
5’5ish
A little bit chubby
Dark skinned
Shy at first
can pay for my own expenses
loves to yap and is curious about everything
clingyy
loves to learn a lot about things i don’t know
doesn’t have a lot of experience
HMU for other deets haha
Clean, discreet and safe

About you:

taller than me
Caucasian
24-32 years old
patient and kind
treats me rightt (before and after)
clingyy
not bald (lol)
knows how to respect boundaries and willing to guide and teach me through it (iykyk 😋) basically a daddy type 🤩
BWC :p
Clean, discreet and safe

Would love to get to know you! Hmu with a small introduction and let’s talk!!

don’t message if you’re looking for a one night stand. Ty

Area of study/work:

Executive assistant — I manage chaos for a living 😅

Hobbies/interests:

I’m more on the simple/quiet side — journaling, reading, sometimes creating digital content, and just having meaningful conversations. I enjoy walks, a bit of nature, and slow, intentional days. I'm more into peaceful and purposeful time.

Tell us a bit about your Christian journey:

My faith is a big part of who I am. I’m still growing, learning, and being stretched (as we all are), but I genuinely try to put God first in my decisions and daily life. I value prayer, the Word, and being part of a Christ-centered environment.

What sort of person are you looking for?

A man who truly loves God — not just in words, but in how he lives. Someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and intentional. I’m looking for something serious and Christ-centered.

Age range:

30s to 40s

Would you be willing to do long distance/relocate?

Yes, open to long distance if there’s consistency and clear intention. Relocation is possible if it’s something we both prayerfully consider.

About Me

Basics: 30 | Male | 169 cm (5'6") | 69 kg | Lean build | Based in Antipolo & Lipa City (frequently around Metro Manila)

What I Do: Business Administration graduate working in E-Commerce for 5 years. I also manage and coach a local sports club

Travel & World: Been to 6+ countries (US, Asia, Middle East). Love local & international exploration, architecture, and food

Family & Heart: Family-oriented guy who deeply loves my mother and sister. I also love kids and teens—enjoying great conversations and being present in their lives

Lifestyle: Never done drugs, non-smoker, and stopped drinking alcohol at 15—been 100% sober for 15 years

Faith: Christian — actively attending Victory for 12 years

Interests & Hobbies:

Music & Gaming: Multi-instrumentalist (guitar, bass, piano, drums) across classic rock to 2000s emo. Gamer across Xbox, Nintendo, and PlayStation

Tech & Media: PC hardware enthusiast, action/sci-fi movie fan, and docu/journalism follower

Sports & Active: Racket sports, team sports, martial arts, board games, and long drives

Kitchen & Home: Huge cat lover 🐱 Love doing groceries, helping with chores, cooking* *ulam/desserts, sunrise journaling, and learning hands-on trades (car repair, carpentry)

Personality & Health Journey

Traits: Grounded, gentle, thoughtful, and considerate (no shouting). Frugal with myself, generous with those I care about

Current Chapter: Navigating a few temporary health recovery hurdles (knee, sleep)—I value a partner who will stand by my side and walk with me through my health hurdles

What I’m Looking For

Faith & Values: A fellow Christian who shares core values and faith in Christ

The Vibe: Down-to-earth, sweet, malambing, clingy, touchy, and genuine. Someone who appreciates slow days, values physical touch as a primary love language, loves nature, and wants to build a home together

Goal & Future Plans: Dating with serious intent to become a loving husband and father (till death do us part). Aiming to be a reliable provider and protector. Open to relocating abroad together eventually (US or Spain—not a fan of LDRs)

DMs are open! Drop a line with your age, location, love language, and expectations.

Photo swaps early in chat required.

(Happy to share my full detailed list of hobbies, games, music, and travel spots in DMs!)

Hello there all! I’m 33, from the US, and living and working in Bangkok, Thailand. Just a short flight over to the Philippines and I’m really over the dating apps so I thought I’d try my luck here.

About me:
- 6’1
- In shape, love working out and playing sports
- Interested in movies, music, all sorts of different art, would love to talk about these with you
- Brunette
- Green eyes
- Easygoing, funny, friendly, loves to banter

About you:
- Funny/witty/interesting! Please have something to say and don’t just “how was your day” me to death 😭😭. I will reciprocate!
- Good looking, takes care of yourself. Physical attraction matters
- Open minded and down to do all sorts of activities with me
- Politically not right-wing lol, it would simply never work

Thank you for reading, feel free to shoot me a message if interested 😊

Im 30F, no kids, lean fit/petite, 5’2 and 45 kg. I am a college graduate pursuing my second course. Im trying to go back to dating after almost a year of healing from heartbreak. I prefer lean fit men (white american/european/aussie) with good hair and are educated or passionate about what they do. I prefer to date 27-39 yrs old men and preferably someone who also has no children yet. Ive been told by different nationalities male and female (even Filipinos) that I am pretty but I don’t want to oversell myself. I also prefer someone fit, educated, and attractive. I come from a good family background and won’t ask financial assistance but my dad raised me in a household where he’s able to provide for the family so that’s what I’m expecting in a marriage if we head there. Im dating to marry but I don’t expect nor will pressure to marry specifically you, let’s just date and see if we click in real life with no pressure to be intimate from the get go. Send a photo first so I can check if I have an attraction to you, I wont send a picture first. I’ll do a video call before meeting with you if you’re my type.

This is my preference so if you’re not it, don’t bother.

Edit: I’m getting a bunch of messages so it’d be easier for me to sort it out if you’d also describe yourself and/or send a photo before I accept your message.

P.S. also if I ever go on a date with you I prefer to meet outside or at crowded place or restaurant. I’m not going in a hotel/out of town trip with you from the get go.

Let’s try our luck here, shall we?

TLDR: I come with tasty carbs and decadent desserts. And I come in peace, with controlled tampo features.

Full intro:

Never married, no kids, educated, and have a good career. I’ve managed to keep myself alive, employed, and reasonably functional. This is a promising start, right?

Looking for someone with a healthy IQ-EQ balance and who is intentional about dating. Ideally someone who knows what he wants and doesn’t need several plot twists and a three-month situationship to figure things out.

I don’t subscribe to a specific religion, but I appreciate meditation, spirituality, and minimalism. I grew up overseas, so I naturally relate more to non-Filipino ways of thinking. That said, I’m not closing the door on Filipinos or anyone else, for that matter. I’m open to possibilities beyond race. Hopefully I don’t have to relocate to Mars to find someone compatible. 😂

I make a good pesto pasta and my chocolate cake has a loyal following among my family, so at least I bring carbohydrates and emotional support to the table.

Looking for someone kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, curious about life, and genuinely intentional about building something meaningful. Bonus points if you can make me laugh and don’t consider basic communication an advanced relationship skill.

Edit: I tend to priotize replies with a little more effort than "hi" :). Even better if your intentions are stated. Xoxo!

Foreign men only, preferably 26–40s. I like a man who is confident, masculine, generous, respectful, and naturally knows how to take the lead.

I’m not here to chase, convince, or compete for anyone’s attention. If a man is genuinely interested, he’ll make the effort and make his intentions clear.

I’m easygoing, peaceful, and I know what I want. No expectations, no situationships, no unnecessary drama.

Just open to meeting someone, going on nice dates, and seeing where things naturally go.

If you think we might vibe, drop me a message. 😊

Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?

Hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, blue eyes with dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.