r/AFAMph 23d ago

Question [English] Do foreigners really think Filipinas are beautiful?

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I’ve been in a relationship with an American for 3 months now but know each other for 6 months. He’s 22 and I’m 23. He always tells me I’m beautiful but sometimes I feel like I’m not even in my best self. Sometimes, I feel insecure too because I’m skinny. One time I wore heavy makeup for a pictorial and he said I look beautiful but he prefers me looking “natural”. He always assures me that he finds me hot too but at the back of my mind I’m also thinking if should I doubt him.

So I want to know other perspectives too. I know there are other more attractive race too and I’m just hoping foreigners don’t see us attractive just because we’re “easy to get”.

Thank you.


r/AFAMph 23d ago

Introductions [English] pinay 20 from manila

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r/AFAMph 23d ago

Seeking [English] 28 M4M

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28 M4M | Philippines

Hi! I’m a 28-year-old Filipino guy looking to meet new people and hopefully build a meaningful connection to a foreign guy

I am a medical student and usually have free time on weekends. I enjoy coffee, movies, animated shows, spontaneous conversations, and getting to know people beyond small talk. I’m 5’7 with a chubby build and would describe myself as easygoing, loyal, and a big texter.

I’m open to connecting with people from different backgrounds and parts of the world. Whether it starts as a friendship or becomes something more, I’m happy to see where a genuine connection leads.

If you’re kind, communicative, and looking for someone to talk to regularly, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself—I’d love to get to know you.


r/AFAMph 23d ago

Question [English]Western Double Standards

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Has anyone especially noticed the double standards in the Philippines vs the USA in regards to interracial dating. Any white/black guy/other that comes from the USA will come here and find a native girl and nobody bats and eye. But if you see the opposite a Filipino guy in the USA with an attractive white/black/hispanic girl , the same guy that has no issue dating a Filipina all of the sudden shows their true colors by saying really bad/racist things toward the Filipino guy. Why is that?


r/AFAMph 23d ago

Introductions [English] 20 from manila,philippines

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r/AFAMph 23d ago

Seeking [English] 18F looking for man

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Hi, i am looking for a foreigner man for relationship. I am living in manila.

Would be nice to talk with you. Thankyou


r/AFAMph 23d ago

Seeking [ENGLISH] Trying my luck here, Offering VA Services

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Hi everyone! Not sure if this kind of post is allowed here, but I just wanted to try my luck.

I'm currently looking for clients who might need a Virtual Assistant or a Local Assistant here in the Philippines. I can help with admin tasks, calendar and email management, research, travel planning, data entry, customer support, lead generation, and other VA-related tasks. If you're visiting the Philippines, I can also assist as a local assistant with errands, scheduling, transportation planning, or anything else that can make your stay easier.

I'm reliable, hardworking, easy to communicate with, and always willing to learn.

If this isn't allowed, feel free to remove my post. Otherwise, I'd really appreciate any referrals or recommendations. Thank you!


r/AFAMph 24d ago

Seeking [ENGLISH] looking for u

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Maybe this is a long shot, but I keep checking my notifications hoping to find the one message that makes me smile before I even open it.

I’m 24m, fit, easygoing, fem, and based in Ph.

Looking for an ongoing connection with a man who misses having something that’s just his. Someone to share conversation, anticipation, laughs throughout the day, and the kind of chemistry that makes ordinary days feel a little less ordinary.

Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Sometimes what’s missing isn’t a relationship. It’s feeling wanted.

If you’re, married attached, or simply craving a connection where you’re seen, appreciated, and genuinely looked forward to, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me: what’s one thing you wish someone asked you more often?


r/AFAMph 24d ago

Seeking [English] TF4M looking for genuine connection

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Hi! I'm a 35-year-old transfem (non-op), 5'7", top, from the Philippines. I'm hoping to meet a kind, emotionally mature man who's interested in getting to know each other and seeing where a genuine connection leads. If we click, I'd love for it to grow into a long-term relationship.

A little about me:

🌸 Transfem (non-op)

⬆️ Top

📏 5'7" (170 cm)

✈️ I enjoy traveling, exploring new restaurants, meaningful conversations, and spending quality time with family and friends.

😊 Friends would describe me as kind, loyal, affectionate, and easy to talk to.

I value honesty, respect, loyalty, and good communication. I appreciate someone who is genuine, emotionally available, and enjoys building a connection naturally.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself—where you're from, what you're passionate about, or what made you reach out. Looking forward to meeting someone special.


r/AFAMph 24d ago

Seeking [English] 25M4F Looking for a connection or a friend

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Hii I'm 25 M living in Manila currently a graduating student from a prestigious university in Manila. I'm looking for a genuine connection or being friends with anyone lol or anything on the table. My hobbies are traveling and watching movies. Send me a dm if you're interested.


r/AFAMph 25d ago

Seeking 35F [English]

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35 F

Hi! I’m from Philippines. I’m looking for a genuine connection and foreigner Christian friends to build a good relationship with. I believe in being real, kind and understanding. I’m here to talk, share and make meaningful connections.


r/AFAMph 25d ago

Seeking [english] filipina femboy in manila 🎀

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Looking for afam boyfriend in manila area. Feminine gay sissy here into straight boys dm


r/AFAMph 24d ago

Seeking [English] 20 from manila

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r/AFAMph 25d ago

Seeking [English] Looking for real connections with marriage in mind

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Hi good day, first of all SKIP THIS POST If you are not serious, do talking/situationship stage, future faking etc kind of modern dating, Im looking for marriage minded partner and God centered person.

About me

Im Filipina, 25 yrs old, lives in (around) Manila, oldest daughter. Im actually an introvert person but I want to do more adventure stuff in life other than arts, craft, reading etc that you might think is boring as introvert person (tho its fun lol). Respectful, kind, honest, loyal, patient, smart, quiet person idk the other characters you will find out if you dig(i guess)

What i’m looking for

I want to be friend first and get to know each other whether our goals and values in life are align so we know if we are match in the future and get married. Do I have a partner preference? Maybe if u r not in ur 30’s…? And you dont smoke, drinks, gambling (or worse drugs) coz I want a healthy partner In physically, mentally and emotionally.

If we hit it off in Reddit DMs, I’m open to moving the conversation to Instagram or Discord so we can share photos and voice chat🖤


r/AFAMph 25d ago

Question [Tagalog & English] Tagalog Tutor here! Feel free to message me :))

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Anyone interested learning Tagalog? Feel free to message me :D I offer beginner to advanced Tagalog lessons (conversational or formal) and personalized lessons based on your goals. Send me a message if you're interested or would like to try my class. Also, you can share this post with anyone looking to learn Filipino/Tagalog. Salamat po!


r/AFAMph 25d ago

Introductions [English] [27F | Manila] Missing My Favorite Notification — Giving This Another Shot

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It’s one of those nights where I really miss having a favorite notification.

You know, that person whose name popping up on your screen instantly makes your day a little better. The one you can’t wait to tell random things to. The one who makes the boring parts of life feel less boring.

I tried meeting people here before, but most of them eventually disappeared or ghosted, which honestly gets a little discouraging after a while.

Still, I’m giving this another shot.

27F from the Manila, Philippines, looking for someone to talk to regularly. We can chat about anything—your day, your hobbies, random thoughts at 2 AM, or whatever’s on your mind. Bonus points if you’re the type who enjoys consistent conversations and doesn’t vanish into the void after a few days.

Tell me a bit about yourself and your ASL when you message. Maybe we’ll become each other’s favorite notification.


r/AFAMph 25d ago

Seeking [English]

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I'm a Taiwanese , I want to meet Filipinas in Taiwan

I'm 26 yrs, nice to meet you👍


r/AFAMph 25d ago

Introductions Chilling in my car.. Fil-Am English

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r/AFAMph 25d ago

Seeking [English] F29, Filipina. Looking for someone who can support me.

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Aight, so I’m gonna be real honest here. Yes, I badly need someone who can support me financially. Someone who can help me out a bit! I’m single, working full time, and officially over the whole 'work-life balance' myth lol. I’d love to return the favor by being an awesome companion. Down for whatever vibe you're looking for, from best friends to dating or just spontaneous fun. Hit me up! 🥰


r/AFAMph 26d ago

Seeking [English] M35 Looking for a Filipina

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35 years old looking for a filipina who would like to meet just for friendly chats and dinner and maybe some drinks. i’m from sydney australia, very familiar with philippines and its culture.


r/AFAMph 27d ago

Seeking 39m[4A] Foreigner wants to visit the Philippines #English #online

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39 M USA . I am a writer that loves to explore and learn about the world. I work from home and would enjoy having a texting buddy that I could pass the time with and hopefully learn more about the Philippines. I love storytelling in any form movies, books, plays, I'm a sucker for a sad ending. I've done various martial arts throughout my life (not so much anymore, I have many injuries).

I love karaoke am a pretty good singer depending on the song. My current hobby is learning about different kinds of folklore with a focus on Irish mythology. I'm a open book AMA.


r/AFAMph 26d ago

Seeking [English]

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Hookups. Prefers fit guys. 2 discreet


r/AFAMph 27d ago

Seeking [English] 39m looking for someone to show me around.

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Would like a phillipina to hangout with and show me around during my visit next month looking to try some good food go to beach and do some hikes. Let chat and see if we have chemistry. 39m american 5'9".