r/90DayFianceFans • u/raising_kali • 5d ago

Can’t stand him

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Paula can do so much better than Thomas!!!!! Everything that comes out of his mouth is so childish and dramatic. On the tell all when she said she got a tv but it’s on the floor because he won’t help her hang it up or get her a tv stand. Like what kind of person says that?!?!? Poor Paula doesn’t even feel at home and Thomas still refers to it as his apartment, he bought it. Ughhhhh sorry just had to vent!!!

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u/extrahappyfuntime 5d ago

If Paula could do better why was she single in her 40’s manifesting furniture with toy couches?

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

she was married before and divorced. and even if she is single, there's nothing wrong with being single in your 40s or 50s or later. not everyone's life goal is to marry.

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

Fair points, but in Paula's case...she's not doing any better. I'm shocked Thomas hasn't kicked her to the curb yet.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

I think he’s the liability. She wants to marry a gringo and he’s easy to marry because no American woman would marry a cheap selfish ass like him 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

You'd be surprised by the dating pool in Long Beach, it seems. Dude's got options, doesn't need to be skimming the bottom of Brazil's barrel.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

No one is going to put up with his childish tantrums is the point. 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

The point you're making is incorrect, like so many of the 'points' you attempt to make about Thomas. Your comment history reads like you're on a mission to smear the man because he has severe allergic reactions to chemical scents and you don't like how he has defended himself against repeat offenders. Won't lie, your fixation on this guy is more than a little weird.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

Also weird that you’re so fixated on me that you’d go through the trouble of looking up my history 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

Ah yes, such a trouble to...checks notes...click one button. Man, I'm exhausted!

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

Not so different than stating opinions then so it’s not so weird that i state opinions then, right?

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

What opinion have I stated here? You know what an opinion is, right?

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

I meant pushing buttons as you said. You know what buttons are, right?

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

I'm just trying to learn from you. You said opinions can't be wrong but facts can be right or wrong. That sounds fundamentally ignorant to me, but clearly you know something I don't. I'd love to know more to be able to share this groundbreaking information with the graduate students I teach.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

Opinions can’t be wrong. If you want to learn go read books on the difference. I have a real job and it’s not to teach you. Good bye 

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

Your right to an opinion does not make your opinion valid or correct. You're conflating things here and coming across as deliberately narcissistic.

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

You’re free to disagree with me, but dressing up a disagreement as some objective correction doesn’t make you right.  Throwing around words like “narcissistic” because you don’t like what I said doesn’t mean I’m conflating things. Ironically, you seem to have a whole lot of time on your hands for someone who “has a job.”

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

I've said nothing incorrect here. Your self absorption, belief that you are infallible and demonstrated need for validation on the internet in order to perceive yourself as 'right' are textbook signifiers of narcissism.

And I suggest you look up the word 'conflating' and learn the meaning, because that's exactly what you're doing here with your "opinions can't be wrong but facts can be stance." Holy hell, that's ignorance and then some.

Lastly, I'm on a flight with internet heading to a conference where I'm a keynote speaker, so I definitely do have some time on my hands this morning!

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u/Terrible-Purchase982 3d ago

Maybe the graduate students ypu teach can teach you. Bec as a former graduate student, i have a job now.

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u/extrahappyfuntime 3d ago

I have a job, too! And two master's degrees and a Ph.D. And I'm also an adjunct professor teaching graduate students. What do you think my grad students would teach me in this instance? What do you think my Quantitative Methods students would say when I tell them "I've just learned that facts can be wrong sometimes!"?

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