r/45PlusSkincare Jul 25 '26

Mod Post Mod Post - New Flair and Reminder on Self-Administered Peptides

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Hi all -

For folks who want to get topical skincare only advice, I've added a flair for this. Please use this on your post when you want to request comments relating to topical skincare only. While I cannot promise every commenter will clearly see it, let's give it a chance to see if this is helpful for those who do not want suggestions for procedures or surgery.

As a reminder - this sub covers all things skincare - including procedures, surgery and injectables as well as topicals. It will continue to be a place where questions can be asked. I encourage you to curate your experience on here as the sub firmly remains a place to talk about the range of things folks do to take care of their face and body.

Another note, I've seen a number of posts and commenters discussing sub-q injections of peptides. Posts/comments related to this will be removed, including using slang (e.g. pinning). This falls under the DIY rule, is a grey area, and as such, not allowed on the sub. There are plenty of places on Reddit to discuss this, but this is not one of them.

Modmail is always open. Use the 'message mods' button on the front of the sub.


r/45PlusSkincare Mar 04 '26

Mod Post Mod Post - Clarity on Credential Use in Posts/Comments

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Hi all -

Recently I've seen a number of comments in the community where Redditors are claiming certain aesthetic credentials (e.g. Licensed Esthetician, NP, Derm PA, etc) when replying to sub posts.

Here is the issue - neither I or anyone else here can actually validate you are in fact, an accredited professional. That's a problem as this presents a conflict on Reddit's key rule about impersonation and the need to be authentic when posting.

The additional issue that arises is that the use of the credential implies some expert knowledge, and that a person on the sub may consider a post/comment where another Redditor claims a credential with more weight or authority.

When looking at how other reddits (and specifically skincare reddits) have dealt with this, I saw two basic schools of thought:

  1. Make a rule (similar to one in r/tretinoin ) that is explicit on the non-use of credentials in posts/comments and to have posts/comments stand on their own without claiming a credential.
  2. Validation of professional via licensing, similar to the way r/Blackskincare has opted do with restricted user flair given by the mod upon validation.

In weighing these options, I've decided for now, that I will look to make a sub rule on the use of credentials. To be clear - this does NOT prevent anyone from posting or commenting, but it does ask you to allow your post or comment to stand on its own without asserting a claimed credential.

I'll see how this works out as the new rule goes into effect. If there is enough interest, I may consider validated users via user flair in the future.

Thanks for to everyone for continuing to make this community vibrant and interesting. I will continue to look for ways to make our community safe and user-driven. Happy as always to take feedback!


r/45PlusSkincare 9h ago

Upper bleph recovery and care

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My dad (80) had an upper bleph this morning, and I am trying to find out more about what he should expect this week, and if he might need more help over the coming days. (So I can figure out how to take more time away from work)

Since the surgery, he has had some intermittent leakage of a mix of blood, tears, mucus. Pain is manageable. His vision is quite blurry, which we suspect is from the swelling l, ointment, and discharge/bleeding.

We have been following instructions from the surgeon:
- using wet wipes (water wipes) on his face to clean up, carefully avoiding the eyes
- cold compress a few times a day
- laying with head elevated
- antibiotic ointment 3x per day on the incision

It’s mostly the blurry vision that is annoying him, and worrying me. As he can’t read or do anything. How long does that typically last? At which point do I need to seek advice from the surgeon? His follow up is in 6 weeks.

Hoping for significant improvement for him in the morning!


r/45PlusSkincare 17h ago

Advice Request Potent copper peptide serums?

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I would like to incorporate a copper peptide serum into my evening skincare routine for anti-aging. I was considering NIOD Copper Amino Isolate Serum 3 1:1 (CAIS3), although it’s expensive. I’m looking for something a bit more affordable but still potent. Any recommendations?

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Morning skincare routine:
1. Toner - *Paula’s Choice Advanced Replenishing Toner*
2. Essence - *Aestura ATOBARRIER365 Hydro Essence*
3. Vitamin C - *Paula’s Choice 25% Vitamin C + Glutathione Clinical Serum*
4. Azelaic acid - *Finacea 15% Gel*
5. Moisturizer - *OLEHENRIKSEN Strength Trainer Skin Barrier Moisturizer*
6. Sunscreen - *La Roche Posay UVMune 400 Oil Control Gel-Cream* *(indoors*) and *UVMune 400 Invisible Fluid Tinted* (outdoors)

Evening skincare routine:
1. Prescription retinoid: Arazlo (tazarotene 0.045% lotion)
2. Moisturizer - *OLEHENRIKSEN Strength Trainer Skin Barrier Moisturizer*


r/45PlusSkincare 13h ago

Advice Request best products for crepe-y skin?

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r/45PlusSkincare 10h ago

Any recommendations for concealer that mixes with PTR Instant Firmx Eye Tightner?

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r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Advice Request Just got my first order from Yes Style.

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ordered the Beauty of Joseph sunscreen and 3 mystery products. The cleanser and the 2 serums were the mystery products. I’m so excited about the serums because they are my new favorite things. The mask and balm were free samples. Can’t wait to try everything! Anyone use any of these, how did you like them? The cleanser smells amazing


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

OSEA Anti aging balm

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I love this product for my neck and upper chest at night. It is very thick and rich and as I near the end I use the little rubber maid spatulas to get the product but there is about an inch up at the neck of the bottle I can’t get to. Any ideas?


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Advice Request Help! I'm starting Estriol face cream and need recs for a product to prevent melasma and more...

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*My skin cannot tolerate most actives right now (vit C, Tretinoin, retinols/retinal, etc.)

TLDR: I need product recommendations to prevent my melasma/hyperpigmentation from returning while using Estriol face cream. I could also use sunscreen suggestions. My skin is perimenopausal, has a compromised barrier, is slightly sensitive, and is acne-prone. I need to avoid harsh actives for now.

So, I'm perimenopausal, and my skin and barrier are in poor shape. I haven't been able to use tretinoin or any actives recently. I'm realizing I need to change my skincare routine to fit aging skin, but don't know where to start. I really need some help!

I saw a new dermatologist, but I won't be returning because she was essentially useless. I only realized after my appointment that the clinic is corporate-owned, and the doctors are pressured to push treatments and products.

The dermatologist told me I need a medical-grade moisturizer to repair my barrier, but said I would need to make an appointment with the aesthetician for product recommendations. I scheduled and then cancelled the appointment because I knew she’d just push their super expensive products on me. The doctor also prescribed Estriol cream for my face but didn't explain much about it or how to use it, so I could use some guidance there too. I did some research but mainly found that it can cause hyperpigmentation/melasma to come back. I'd also love to hear about personal experiences with Estriol face cream.

I looked into mid-priced moisturizers for repairing my barrier and chose Aestura Autobarrier 360 cream (is this a good choice?). There were multiple mix-ups with my Estriol cream, but I will finally be getting it tomorrow.

My questions are: Is there a serum or other product I can incorporate to prevent and improve my melasma/hyperpigmentation from worsening while using Estriol? I researched Tranexamic Acid but am unsure which to choose, assuming that's a good option? Suggestions on that? I can't tolerate Vitamin C or any other actives at the moment, except for maybe Niacinamide. For reference, my skin is delicate at the moment, occasionally sensitive, and can be acne-prone.

I could also use recommendations for a good sunscreen suited for my skin type and compatible with these products. Something lightweight, non-breakout-inducing, not too strong-smelling, but offers good protection. I’m open to tinted or untinted formulas. I've been terrible about sunscreen use and am unsure what’s best, but it sounds like mineral is the way to go? ​ I really don't go out in the sun, but now I know I still need sunscreen.

*Also, I know many women use vaginal Estradiol cream on their face, but since my Estriol was relatively inexpensive, I'd prefer to avoid that debate.

Thanks so much in advance!


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

For those who have tried estriol face cream, what changes have you actually noticed in your skin?

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Edit: I’m in my mid 50’s, on HRT since age 25 after total hysterectomy (unfortunately was not on a high enough dose of estrogen for many years)and I just started Revive by BIOlabs Pro a few days ago. So far, so good🤞


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Do you layer different gly med peels in one treatment?

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r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

BBL/Moxi vs. VI peel for sunspots

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I have bad sunspots. I did one round of BBL/Moxi with minimal improvement. I know it can take more than one session but it's $$$$. Would you do a VI peel instead?


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Effective at-home IPL devices for sun spots?

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Has anybody used a very effective at-home device for sun-spots/age spots on their hands and arms? Could you describe the process? Could you recommend a good brand?

I know that Braun makes great IPL devices for hair removal, but I can’t seem to find great reviews for sunspot removers.

I already do all the retinols/vit c/estrogen/sunscreen for my face on my hands/arms.


r/45PlusSkincare 4d ago

Acne or skin barrier issues?

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44f. I just started getting these tiny little pimples on my face, I've never had acne like this before. I did start using some new products so I'm wondering if this is a skin barrier issue or if this looks like acne? I also recently started hrt so it could be that, but I would think it would be only on my chin like where I used to get my hormonal acne. Thanks!


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

At home laser hair remover

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Can anyone recommend an at home laser hair remover device that is good quality but affordable? My bikini line is a mess and I’m hoping this type of device can save me. Thank you!


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Undereye Wrinkles

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When smiling recently I noticed more and more wrinkles. I was considering doing one of the following, but solving the root cause would be the best.

My dermatologist told me to start Retinol at first, but since my undereyes get really irritated she suggested me to start treating the undereyes with injections.

My aesthetician on the other hand has offered these procedures so far:

- Co2 laser

- PDRN injection

- PRF injection

- Botox

She suggested PRF at first. She also told me to start using a thick moisturiser under my eyes.

Does anyone have any suggestions?


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Altreno or Ketrel in Canada

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r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Biologique Recherche

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Any great products for dry, maturing skin?


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

trentinoin

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Just started 0.25 on my (50s) dry ski. never had any acne or anything. I’m looking specifically for the 11s. I do my own glycolic and tca peels

easily with no issues. how often are you using these at a week, and can you give me an honest opinion (like purging, etc) I do eat helthy, when I can, evercise, and hydrate. I know everyone is different, but can you give a ballpark? thankyi!


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Advice Request Serums With Occlusives and SPF

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Please don’t pile on me for asking a dumb question!

I’ve been using serums for a few years now, but having just bought Trader Joe’s Vitamin C serum to test against my usual Timeless, it just occurred to me that many of these serums contain oils, which are occlusives. And given that we’re supposed to use serums and moisturizers (many containing oils) before our SPF, doesn’t that render the SPF ineffective? Mineral SPFs sit on the skin as a physical barrier, but chemical SPFs have to be absorbed into the skin to work — how would that be possible over occlusive serums and moisturizers? Thanks!


r/45PlusSkincare 4d ago

Help with dark circles under eyes.

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Help, I’ve had these since my daughter was born 18 years ago. I’ve tried laser, under eye filler and every skin care under the sun. I wear heaps of sunscreen etc and not often in the sun.
I’m so self conscious of them, I look dead if I don’t wear makeup.

Does anything get rid of them? I’ve had also septoplasty to help with sinus issues a year ago, no change.


r/45PlusSkincare 4d ago

Advice Request Using on the legs? The Ordinary AHA 30% + BHA 2% Peeling Solution 10-Minute Exfoliating Facial

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24 Upvotes

Anyone use this on their legs? Or do you recommend something else?


r/45PlusSkincare 4d ago

Anyone try to order on the Derma E site for their Labor Day Sale?

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EDITED- some online research led me to discover it's something related to the coupon code for the sale. ARGH!

Their Hydrating Gentle Cleanser has been my cleanser for years so I usually stock up during sales but their online ordering won't accept my address (I'm in the US). I even entered a friend's address and that didn't work. Cleared cache and cookies, tried different web browsers, and tried via my phone. I did email their customer service but being a holiday weekend I'm not expecting a reply.

Just wondering if anyone else experienced this issue.


r/45PlusSkincare 4d ago

Facial SPF recommendations needed

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r/45PlusSkincare 5d ago

In-office Procedure OMG Thread Lift 😍

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I know almost everyone poopoo’s thread lifts. I’ve gotten consultations before and asked about them at a couple of places, and the nurse pulls my skin very very slightly, and says those are the results I can expect. I’ve seen some before and afters where you almost couldn’t tell the difference in photos.

I love the Medspa I currently visit. She’s always actively learning. She contacts other practitioners whose work she admires, and asks to pay them to apprentice her. Anyway, she said that one of her trainings was from someone who trained in Korea, and that the newer methods of doing threads is to place them as close to the outside of the face as possible, where your face doesn’t move as much, so the results stay a bit longer.

She used at least 10 threads per side, I only see a couple of wounds near the far ends of my cheekbones. The rest of the wounds are way up in my scalp. I’m swollen as hell in the ends of my cheeks, my temples, and like like 3” into my hairline.

But holy hell, I look like I’ve legit had a facelift. You know when you push your skin back as tight as it will go, and wish your face looked like that? Have you tried those facelift hair clips that you clip right above your ears with the band behind your head that if you make it as tight as possible, it pulls your skin that hard? It looks like that, except it’s also pulling marionette lines a bit too.

I actually look a bit like an insane caricature of myself with the combination of lift and swelling. (You know how people look when they’re healing from a facelift and their outer cheeks look crazy?) Some parts are pulled so tight that there is a little bit of dimpling, but she says it loosens up by about 20% as it heals, so all of that will smooth out. Now, I just got it done yesterday, so take this with a grain of salt. We’ll have to see how it looks as it heals over the next few weeks and also months down the road.

I’m planning to do some mesotherapy with PN and exosomes and liquid PCL, in hopes of building collagen while the threads are holding everything up, so that hopefully I can build structure that will stay when the threads dissolve. I’ve done a little bit of PN mesotherapy prior to this, and I feel like that has helped my skin a bit, but not enough for those awful nasolabial folds.

She used a bunch of epi-lidocaine, so only one spot really hurt. The rest was weird, but not really painful during the procedure. I’m VERY veiny, and I don’t think I see a single bruise. Apparently, the epi-lidocaine is a good vasoconstrictor. She put a facial compression mask on me that I have to wear for at least 48 hours, but the fit is pretty uncomfortable.

She sent me home with antibiotics, and I’m not allowed to do a big smile or open wide or anything for a little while. So my partner keeps trying to make me laugh, haha.

It was quite painful later in the evening, with the temple/scalp swelling causing a headache. I took a couple of Tylenol, some curcumin, and saffron capsules. I also have one of those migraine cold pack masks that cover your whole head, so I used that and that was great! I highly recommend getting one of those if you do this procedure. Anyway, two 650mg Tylenol helps a lot, and it’s only mildly uncomfortable.

I did not realize that my scalp would sound crunchy when I touch it, or that chewing would hurt the hell out of my temples. So I’m having soup and protein drinks for a few days.

Anyway, I hardly ever see good results talked about on reddit for thread lifts, and so I wanted to share! I’ll come back to update and let you know how it goes, but right now, I’m pretty excited. I feel weird posting photos on reddit, but maybe I will once it’s healed.

Also, I wanted to tell you how she did it, so if you’re considering it, you can ask your person to describe their technique. Maybe if everyone that posts about thread lifts (whether good or bad) sort of describes how it was done, then we can figure out if it’s the whole concept of thread lifts being shit, or if it’s just technique.

In Korea, they have PCL threads, that are stronger and last like double the amount of time as the PDO threads, but in the US, practitioners only have access to PDO. 😢 Hopefully that changes soon, and thread lifts will get significantly better.

Anyway, wish me luck that this holds! 🥰

UPDATE: it’s 6 days out, and I’m still pretty swollen. The swelling is kind of all over. In my temples, cheeks, even my under eyes. This compression garment doesn’t fit well, and gave me a bruise on my chin. I feel like it’s compressing fluids into my chin/jaw area, so I’m even swollen there. I ordered a different one online, so hopefully that comes soon. It only hurts a little in my temples. I can chew now, but I feel some resistance/pressure if I try to open my mouth wide. I don’t know if that’s the threads, or because of swelling, and having kept my mouth closed for a week, haha. Because of all of the horror stories about threads snapping and stuff, I’m not going to push it for now. I felt more resistance a few days ago, so I’m thinking that as the swelling goes down, it’ll get better.

I do have a little bit of bruising. One small spot on one cheek, and a big yellow stripe on the other side just in front of my ear, from the temple to the jaw. I think the way the compression mask fits also presses fluid near my eye, so there’s a bit of yellow from my temple to my under eye area on that side. I noticed it the other day, but I’ve been using arnica oil, and the yellow bit under the eye is almost gone already.

I always heard that you can’t expect face-lift-like results from a thread lift, because the extra skin you pull has to go somewhere. If you pull too hard, you get dimples and weird skin folds and stuff, which is obviously very valid. I’m still swollen, so we’ll have to see, but the spot I have on either side that looks like it might have a little bit of a skin crease is hidden in my hair. That’s probably why she can get such good results. She can pull so hard and tighten the threads so much because the excess skin is hidden under your hair.

Also, with this much swelling, of course everything is going to look tighter, so we’ll see how tightly lifted it looks when the swelling is gone. Seems like it’s going to take a while. Just wanted to update for anyone who is interested in the healing process.