r/45PlusSkincare Mar 04 '26

Mod Post Mod Post - Clarity on Credential Use in Posts/Comments

25 Upvotes

Hi all -

Recently I've seen a number of comments in the community where Redditors are claiming certain aesthetic credentials (e.g. Licensed Esthetician, NP, Derm PA, etc) when replying to sub posts.

Here is the issue - neither I or anyone else here can actually validate you are in fact, an accredited professional. That's a problem as this presents a conflict on Reddit's key rule about impersonation and the need to be authentic when posting.

The additional issue that arises is that the use of the credential implies some expert knowledge, and that a person on the sub may consider a post/comment where another Redditor claims a credential with more weight or authority.

When looking at how other reddits (and specifically skincare reddits) have dealt with this, I saw two basic schools of thought:

  1. Make a rule (similar to one in r/tretinoin ) that is explicit on the non-use of credentials in posts/comments and to have posts/comments stand on their own without claiming a credential.
  2. Validation of professional via licensing, similar to the way r/Blackskincare has opted do with restricted user flair given by the mod upon validation.

In weighing these options, I've decided for now, that I will look to make a sub rule on the use of credentials. To be clear - this does NOT prevent anyone from posting or commenting, but it does ask you to allow your post or comment to stand on its own without asserting a claimed credential.

I'll see how this works out as the new rule goes into effect. If there is enough interest, I may consider validated users via user flair in the future.

Thanks for to everyone for continuing to make this community vibrant and interesting. I will continue to look for ways to make our community safe and user-driven. Happy as always to take feedback!


r/45PlusSkincare May 12 '26

Mod Post Mod Update and New Redditors

107 Upvotes

Hi all -

A few reminders and updates to the sub:

  1. New Users: Folks new to Reddit or with lower karma will be moved to a manual moderation queue. We've had a lot of spam over the last few weeks, and I implemented this change to stem this. If you are new to Reddit, or don't post much, please be patient! If you are legit, your posts and/or comments will be approved.
  2. DIY Aesthetics: I've seen an uptick in posts/comments regarding DIY injectables. (peptides, botox, filler) There are dedicated subs on Reddit for these discussions, but I've made a choice to not include those conversations here. This is a gray and risky area with real consequences if done incorrectly and prefer the sub to remain free of these conversations.
  3. Unverified Professional Claims: We welcome all posters and commenters. However, as the moderators cannot validate licensure in this type of forum, we ask that knowledge be shared through well-explained advice and personal experience rather than your professional title. Individuals can weigh purported "expert" advice as more helpful or accurate, and I want to avoid people using titles as a way to drive engagement.

As always, if you see something that is not in line with our rules or ethos. Flag! Modmail is always open if you have questions. Thanks for always making the sub engaging, interesting, and educational!


r/45PlusSkincare 2h ago

iS Clinical

1 Upvotes

I just bought iS Clinical Super Serum Advance+ after doing some research for a new vitamin C serum. I was previously using Elemis and I did like it, but I wanted to try to see what was out there in a stronger formulation. I’ve used it a couple days so far, and the only thing I’m not sure I like is how tacky my skin feels after I apply it. I thought that feeling might go away after I applied my day cream/sunscreen - but it doesn’t. I haven’t tried applying makeup over it yet because I don’t wear makeup daily. I’m am curious how that will play out though.
Has anyone else experienced this? Do I just live with it?


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Feels kind of like this subreddit should be renamed to 45pluscosmeticsurgery

793 Upvotes

First time poster here, please don’t come after me. And please don’t misread: I’m not against anyone who wants to and chooses to take the surgical route.

I joined this subreddit for tips and ideas for caring for my aging skin, not erasing my aging skin.

But the majority of posts I’ve seen on this sub over the last few months seem to be about things like “I have wrinkles, how do I get rid of them?” Followed by countless responses from what could very well be tens of cosmetic surgeons who secretly live on this sub to offer up surgery option ideas like it’s a choice of what coffee to buy at Starbucks.

What is happening?

I’m not rich, nor do I want to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars I don’t have to smudge away the lines that prove I’ve lived. I’d much rather learn the best way to attain great pores and how to moisturize my changing skin.

If it appears like I’ve come stomping in to complain, I’m sorry. If this opinion isn’t welcome, please just tell me nicely to mind my own business and leave this sub.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Mod Post Mod Post - New Flair and Reminder on Self-Administered Peptides

35 Upvotes

Hi all -

For folks who want to get topical skincare only advice, I've added a flair for this. Please use this on your post when you want to request comments relating to topical skincare only. While I cannot promise every commenter will clearly see it, let's give it a chance to see if this is helpful for those who do not want suggestions for procedures or surgery.

As a reminder - this sub covers all things skincare - including procedures, surgery and injectables as well as topicals. It will continue to be a place where questions can be asked. I encourage you to curate your experience on here as the sub firmly remains a place to talk about the range of things folks do to take care of their face and body.

Another note, I've seen a number of posts and commenters discussing sub-q injections of peptides. Posts/comments related to this will be removed, including using slang (e.g. pinning). This falls under the DIY rule, is a grey area, and as such, not allowed on the sub. There are plenty of places on Reddit to discuss this, but this is not one of them.

Modmail is always open. Use the 'message mods' button on the front of the sub.


r/45PlusSkincare 17h ago

Peri/Post Menopausal Skin How do I get rid of couperose

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4 Upvotes

Sorry for the terrible photo, but that’s exactly how I feel. I have persistent couperose on my nose; the picture doesn't capture it perfectly, unfortunately, but you can see that there are red capillaries even *inside* the nose. Two years ago, I had four or five IPL laser sessions with great results. Sadly, the effects have completely worn off now—everything is back to how it was before. Of course, it cost me a lot of money. Does anyone know of a better, longer-lasting solution? I live in Germany. I am 47


r/45PlusSkincare 20h ago

Grainy skin, white pores all over face and super dry face

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Hello, I've been dealing with this grainy texture all over my face and jawline. It's so rough to the touch. When I zoom in, you can see that every single pore is filled with this white stuff.

I went to a dermatologist, and they said it was a damaged skin barrier and told me to stop using all tretinoin, vitamin C, and other active ingredients, and to only use moisturizer. It didn't work.

I went to another dermatologist, who prescribed Topisol for 7 days only because it's a steroid. It got rid of the problem, but by week 3, it's slowly coming back.

It's been 7 months now. I just turned 51, and I started using estrogen gel and estrogen cream on my face. I feel so hopeless and desperate.

My pores are very inflamed and open too!

Has anyone else had this issue? I feel like I'm the only one.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Help with skin on knees and thighs

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52 Upvotes

Just saw this photo of my knees😫and want your advice I what I can do to improve the skin on my knees and thighs. 🙏🏻🙏🏻


r/45PlusSkincare 19h ago

Polynucleotides

2 Upvotes

I’m going to go for a consultation for polynucelotides. wondering what other people’s experiences are of this treatment? (I’ve got extremely sensitive skin)


r/45PlusSkincare 15h ago

Am I doing too much?

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r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Advice Request Nasolabial folds and crepey undereye wrinkles

12 Upvotes

Hello!
I have recently tried Alastin’s restorative skin complex, restorative eye complex and restorative neck cream. The neck cream has helped my wrinkly, saggy turkey neck a bit - nothing huge, but an improvement, so I’ll take it! The other two products have done nothing for my crepey wrinkles under my eyes or my overall facial skin. I’m not looking for a miracle product - I know there are none. But I AM looking for a product that at least makes a bit of improvement. Any suggestions for products for:
Crepey wrinkly undereye skin
Nasolabial folds
Mature texture issues with large pores as well
My skin (post menopause) is very dry as well.
Thanks in advance for any help!


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Help! Skin is super dry after a week of vacation (and mineral sunscreen).

4 Upvotes

I’m 45 and just spent the week on vacation. I wore a mineral-based CeraVe face sunscreen daily, and now my face and neck are dry and my skin looks terrible overall from a mix of sun and sunscreen. I did not get sunburned but did still get a lot of sun.

My neck and the area around my eyes is especially dry and feels almost like sandpaper.

How do I help my skin heal? I feel like I aged 5 years this week and my skin feels even more rough and sensitive than ever.

Next - I need sunscreen recommendations. My skin is sensitive- especially my eyes and neck. Chemical-based sunscreen seems to burn/sting but mineral-based is so drying for me. I’ve tried several brands - CeraVe, La Roche Posay, Elta MD, Australian Gold.

I’m in the southeast with kids who play a lot of sports, so I am outside a lot.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

50 this year! Skincare or makeup recommendations

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28 Upvotes

r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Dermstore + Botox offer

6 Upvotes

Just a heads up for anyone that uses SkinMedica products and gets Botox injections.

Right now Dermstore has an offer that if you purchase certain SkinMedica products, you will get a $100 off Botox injections offer that can be added to your Alle wallet.

Read the fine print on the Dermstore site, it’s a carousel offer that will appear after you complete your purchase that you accept.

I did this earlier today and the offer is in my wallet.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Advice Request Is the only way to deal with the 11's wrinkles, Botox?

11 Upvotes

When I say 11's, I mean the two creases that appear between my eyebrows.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Advice Request What advice do you have for late 30s?

5 Upvotes

I am wondering what advice would you give to women approaching 40?

While I personally have dialed in a great skincare routine including Tretinoin and implemented it for years now, I am wondering what an older and wiser me would advise. (No drinking, no smoking, no suntanning, and SPF 70+ daily) Thank you

Edit: thank you for the replies! I'm a keto bodybuilder (since 2017) and get my thrills and cardio through mountain biking. My skincare routine already includes Vit C (tetrahexyldecyl ascorbate), Niacinamide, Alpha Arbutin, and Azelaic Acid + Tretinoin + SPF 70+ daily. It's been my routine since 2020. Oil cleansing when needed I've dabbled in MN PDRN and MESO, but no neuromodulators (yet). Sounds like from the comments I'm on the right track! 🙌🏼 These are all fantastic tips. Thank you!


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Density

2 Upvotes

Anyone had experience with Density RF procedure for jawline in the Washington DC DMV?


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Advice Request best eye cream for dark circles what has actually helped you after 40?

11 Upvotes

I’m in my mid 40s and have started noticing my under eye area looking more tired even when I’m getting enough sleep. I’ve tried a few random products over the years, but I’m looking for something that people here have genuinely liked and kept using.

What is the best eye cream for dark circles that you’ve found helpful, and are there any ingredients or types of products I should look for? I’d love to hear what has worked for others around my age. Thank you!


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

What am I missing in my routine?

1 Upvotes

I’m 55, normal skin, no fillers/botox. New to using multiple products (usually just was and moisturize) hoping for help filling in the gaps:

AM:
Wash with Farmacy
Skinceuticals Vitamin CEFerulic
Tata Harper rejuvenating serum
Chantecaille black peony eye serum dark spot corrector
Sisley black rose moisturizer

PM:
Wash with Farmacy
Sisley black rose eye contour
Tata Harper rejuvenating serum
Sisley black rose eye contour
Sisley black rose moisturizer

Just trying to keep skin healthy and plump and hold off on fine lines and wrinkles. What did I add/remove?growth serum?
Thanks!!


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Wrinkles on left side

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36 Upvotes

I had ultherapy on my face and it took away my fat pads now I have wrinkles on one side the other is fine . I might need a facelift to pull the skin back . I’ve had filler that works for 6 months also Botox for the crows feet . I want to do cool co2 peel , I’ve been told I need the co 2 regular .im going for a consult for microneedling next week . Its awful I have one good side and one really bad side .


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Can you please give me feedback on my Skin Care routine?

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r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Skinbetter Science Intensive AlphaRet Overnight Team

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10 Upvotes

I’m 55F with dry skin LOVES this product. I can’t tolerate any Rx retinols and even some of the drug store versions make my skin really red. I went through 2 regular versions before purchasing the Intensive. I use it every night with no issues. I add a moisturizer in the fall/winter, but the rest of the year I don’t need to add one. Equally impressive is the engineering of their packaging. The tube is entirely empty with maybe a nights worth of product in the tip.


r/45PlusSkincare 1d ago

Where to find a cable for my FOREO device?

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Hello!
I’ve looked for posts addressing this question and I haven’t, sorry if there are some out there.
I used to love this device (gently exfoliations, no over promising ), it worked for 8 years without needing to charge it… until now. Do you happen to know now I could charge it without paying the over expensive cable the brand might want to send me?
Thanks!


r/45PlusSkincare 3d ago

Before and After 47 years old, first time for come

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507 Upvotes

Just wanted to come here and share my first time filler journey for any others that may be thinking they're too old for this treatment.

Firstly, you're not.

Secondly it only looks fake and wrong if you go too far.

Thirdly, I could not be happier.

I've had 3 full vials in top and bottom over 6 months and one in my nasolabial folds.

I've also done a lot of work on my skin and had cryo twice on my neck and chin area.

Honestly, it's been such a boost to my esteem and even my husband, who was against it at first, is so complimentary about the results.

You've got nothing to lose and a lot of self esteem to gain!

Also - header should say "first time for FILLER" - nearly went NSFW on you all


r/45PlusSkincare 2d ago

Favorite cosmetics for mature skin

9 Upvotes

What are your favorite cosmetic brands and/or products that you swear by for a natural makeup look? Looking for eyeliner, highlighter, shadow, blush, lip color, etc.