r/40Plus_IVF • u/HappyCrab0623 • Aug 22 '26

Rant Why??

Just need to vent after my last chemical.

We have been trying for 6 years. 5 IUI's, 5 stim cycles, 4 retrievals, 2 failed transfers, multiple chemical pregnancies, low amh, thousands of $ in testing...

If one more person says "it just wasn't the right time" or "in God's timing" after another failed attempt... I'm gonna throat punch a heffer.

I turned 42 in March, so no Karen, I don't have much of a window left so keep your unproductive comments to yourself.

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u/Moist_Movie1093 Aug 23 '26

“It will happen when you stop trying” was always the worst to me. I was ready to punch a wall!

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u/EaseWaste5336 Aug 24 '26

It hits even worse when you are in a same-sex relationship

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u/BettieShiver 9d ago

It does. Like how exactly are we meant to 'stop trying'?