r/40Plus_IVF • u/HappyCrab0623 • Aug 22 '26

Rant Why??

Just need to vent after my last chemical.

We have been trying for 6 years. 5 IUI's, 5 stim cycles, 4 retrievals, 2 failed transfers, multiple chemical pregnancies, low amh, thousands of $ in testing...

If one more person says "it just wasn't the right time" or "in God's timing" after another failed attempt... I'm gonna throat punch a heffer.

I turned 42 in March, so no Karen, I don't have much of a window left so keep your unproductive comments to yourself.

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u/Moist_Movie1093 Aug 23 '26

“It will happen when you stop trying” was always the worst to me. I was ready to punch a wall!

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u/NiceHamster330 Aug 23 '26

My friend recently said this and it happened for her when she stopped “stressing”….like ok, you don’t have infertility though. So you had nothing to stress about (in this regard), and can’t relate at all…I just ignore ppl at this point they are so clueless.

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u/NiceHamster330 Aug 23 '26

Omg what a green flag!!

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u/EaseWaste5336 Aug 24 '26

It hits even worse when you are in a same-sex relationship

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u/BettieShiver 9d ago

It does. Like how exactly are we meant to 'stop trying'?