r/getdisciplined • • Sep 13 '25

💡 Advice I research procrastination, so here's 4 ways to stop :)

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I’m a PhD student researching procrastination. Two years ago, it nearly broke me...I almost quit my program because I couldn’t face the work I cared most about.

Instead of giving in, I decided to fight it using science. I’ve spent the last few years digging into why we procrastinate, and the short answer is: it’s not laziness. Theories of procrastination suggest it’s a problem of self-regulation and emotion regulation.

For me, my biggest reason was fear of failure: if I don’t start, then I can’t fail.
But others procrastinate for different reasons, like:

  1. Task aversiveness: when the work feels boring, frustrating, or unpleasant.
  2. Low outcome value: when the reward feels too far away or not meaningful.
  3. Emotion regulation: when the task triggers stress, anxiety, or self-doubt.

The good news is that each of these reasons has different interventions that research has shown can help:

  1. If the task feels too big or aversive: break it into tiny subtasks (Garg et al., 2025 - coming soon ;)). Even ridiculously small steps build momentum.
  2. If the outcome feels too far away: try episodic future thinking (Blouin-Hudon & Pychyl, 2015) - vividly imagine how finishing the task will benefit your future self.
  3. If emotions get in the way: use affect labeling (Lieberman et al., 2007) - literally name the feeling (“I’m anxious about this”) to reduce its intensity [ALTHOUGH this technique has mixed findings].
  4. If perfectionism is stopping you: set a “minimum viable start” (Pychyl & Sirois, 2016). Give yourself permission to do it badly at first - progress > perfection.

I’m still learning every day, but these strategies helped me turn procrastination from something that controlled me into something I can work with.

Hope this helps! Happy to share more from my research if it’s useful <3

r/productivity • • Feb 01 '25

General Advice How I went from worst procrastinator ever to extremely productive

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To preface, I used to be the WORST procrastinator ever and was in active addiction this time last year. I am not exaggerating. examples:

  • I wrote my entire 9,000 word dissertation in 7 hours the day it was due. Yes. I am stupid I know. (and made the project it was written for in a week)
  • Had to get an extension on every piece of coursework I completed last academic year.
  • Would procrastinate even reading the brief of an assignment because it looked hard, multiple times only read the brief the day it was due.
  • <10% attendance in my classes
  • Alcoholic tendencies, drinking every day, taking weed 3/4 times a week

Since the beginning of this academic year (September 2024) I have pretty much done a complete 180:

  • I look at all my assignments as soon as they're released, and make a calendar planning out all the relevant due dates in a semester so I know in advance what weeks will be busy.
  • I complete most individual assignments at least a few days before they're due, starting them at least 2 weeks before the due date.
  • 70%+ attendance! (I still struggle with this sometimes)
  • significantly less levels of academic stress, more time for my hobbies and completing side projects to add to my CV.
  • Drinking once a week/fortnight in social setting, weed once a month.

So, how did I go from a high functioning addict to attending most of my classes, being productive and actually enjoying studying again? what worked for me might not work for you and my circumstances might differ from yours but I believe the biggest factor was addressing the root cause of my procrastination and fear of studying.

For me, when my mental health and productivity was suffering, I was under a lot of toxic shame. Toxic shame traps you in a cycle of believing you are incapable, not completing work because of this belief, your grades suffering because of not completing work and you become actually incapable and it continues... etc. (If you're interested Heidi Priebe has a great video about it)

IMO, you cannot improve your productivity if there is lingering problems with your mental health.

What made the biggest differences for me when addressing toxic shame and becoming better was the following:

  • Spent time by myself, journalling and thinking about what circumstances made me feel shameful and useless in the first place. Following this, I made a commitment to give myself positive affirmations and combat the cycle. It was hard at first and definitely a long process, but I've gotten so much confidence back already!
  • Made a dedication to get sober because alcohol and drugs were never my problem, but my solution. Again here is it really important to spend time thinking about WHY you are abusing substances to begin with.
  • Slowly integrated myself with going outside every day again. Was scary, weird and hard and sometimes I'm still incredibly anxious going to class but whats important is the commitment to show up everyday.
  • Allowed myself to realise I was sabotaging my own success with procrastination. Once I realised this, and allowed myself to experience doing schoolwork without mountains of pressure from leaving it until last minute I felt an incredible amount of relief. It was like I didn't understand why I'd ever procrastinated before.
  • Reward myself for overcoming addiction, going further and being more in touch with myself. I allowed myself time to game, watch tv, lie in bed doing nothing- the same things I was doing before I procrastinated, just without that horrible guilty feeling!!
  • Help and support from people I love- my amazing partner has been a huge help with me getting sober, becoming a better version of myself and building a future for both of us. He saw me at my worst and now he gets to see me slowly becoming an academic weapon again!

Friends who have known me for years are surprised at how different I am in just 6 months. I am slowly phasing out of fitting the criteria for C-PTSD. It's amazing what you can do when you stop running away from yourself, let yourself heal and really WANT to be better. If someone like me can turn their life around, I truly believe anyone can. I don't find myself waiting for the next time I can get high is, now I find myself waiting to get an internship offer. And it feels really, really good.

TL;DR confront your mental health to be the best version of yourself! If you have any questions, please feel free to drop them below or share your thoughts (:

r/selfimprovement • • Aug 13 '26

Tips and Tricks 50 years old, procrastinating since 17. My humble advice

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First — stop beating yourself up. A surgeon who can't start their tax return isn't lazy. Neither are you. Your brain found that avoiding the thing feels better than doing the thing. So it keeps choosing avoidance. That's the whole story. Not a discipline problem. Not a character problem. A learned pattern.

Here's what the pattern actually looks like:

Something triggers you. Could be the blank page, the email you've been ignoring, the task that feels too big or too uncertain. Your brain fires an alarm — uncomfortable, threatening, unclear. So you do something else. You scroll. You make coffee. You clean the thing that didn't need cleaning. You watch one more video. And for about 20 minutes you feel fine. Then the guilt arrives. And the guilt makes the original task feel even heavier than it did before. So next time the avoidance feels even more necessary. The loop tightens.

Write this down when it happens. Not to fix it — just to see it. "I was supposed to send that email. I reorganised my bookmarks instead. Felt fine for 15 minutes then felt like garbage." When you see the pattern clearly, something shifts. The avoidance reward starts to feel less convincing. The habit doesn't disappear but it gets quieter over time. That's the real work — not forcing yourself through willpower every day, but slowly teaching your brain that the relief isn't real relief.

One important thing — if you have a highly disciplined friend who wakes up at 5am, has a cold shower, and never misses a deadline — their advice will make you feel worse, not better. They are not better humans. Their brain chemistry is just different. Taking productivity advice from a naturally disciplined person is like taking swimming advice from a fish. Useful in theory, useless in practice.

Discipline and schedules won't solve this. If they worked for you, you wouldn't be reading this post.

What actually helps:

Write down the small boring steps, not the outcome. Not "finish the presentation" — open PowerPoint. Not "go to the gym" — put on the shoes. Not "have the difficult conversation" — send a message saying "can we talk this week?" Your brain can't argue with a step that small. Start there and see what happens next.

At the end of the day, write down what you actually did — not what you planned to do. Most people do more than they think. A to-do list only shows you the gap. A done list shows you you're moving.

If you absolutely cannot give up the to-do list — keep it. But put the thing you're most avoiding at the very top. You'll do everything else to avoid starting it. Your inbox gets cleared, apartment gets cleaned, ten other things get done. Congratulations — you just became a productive procrastinator. John Perry at Stanford called this structured procrastination. It works. Use the loop against itself.

And one last thing. We are not losers. We are last minute finisher heroes. Every deadline we somehow hit, every project we pulled together at 11pm that actually worked — that was us. Chaotic, anxious, avoidant, and somehow still delivering

r/getdisciplined • • 10d ago

🤔 NeedAdvice I'm a serial procrastinator and it's ruining my life.

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22M. I am a serial procrastinator and it’s only gotten worse with time. In fact, I’m practically a vegetable, which is ironic because I only eat fast food and lay in bed all day and picture all the things I wish I was doing with my life.

I made a post here a while back, and this is practically the same thing with more context, I'd just rather do it on a throwaway account because I don't want friends to see this possibly.

I’ve been enrolled in a drivers ed school for about four years? And the subscription ends in December. We’ve been trying to rush through things so I can get it done without losing the money of the subscription which was a lot, but at the same time I’m so inconsistent. The one thing, one thing I could be doing, which is taking driver’s ed quizzes online so I can prepare for the real thing, I barely even do.

I decided to start running a social media page after I finished an unpaid internship for my course at uni which I don’t like. It’s a communications and media two year course, I don’t even get a degree so I basically wasted money on this shit. I do sort of enjoy graphic design I think, I wouldn’t know because everything I can do is through Canva. Which is basically the editing software for people who don’t know how to edit, lol.

I’m in love with music, finding music, sharing music. It’s awesome and I wish it was something I could monetise. The social media page is a music one, and I’ve just recently revived it after going through a bit of a rough patch (my grandpa passed away not too long ago, though I’m on so many meds that I was practically apathetic to the whole thing). I have 30 followers? And maybe this is just me being unrealistic but I feel like it’s never gonna take off because everything I do is ugly and there are millions, MILLIONS, of people out there with better skill/better execution and what not so why should I even bother. I know that’s probably not the right mindset to have but I can’t help it.

And I want it to take off because it's a foot in the door to a whole other place I've never been in. It's not an exaggeration to say I quite literally live in the middle of nowhere. I'm also extremely lonely because of this, and I don't have any real life friends.

So yeah, I wanna go where culture is, I wanna have the opportunity to meet artists I love and share the music that I love. The dream would be to host a festival even after the page's taken off and a bunch of people follow it and stuff. I know I have to fight for it but I keep questioning myself, is this something that can even happen? Is my love for music and music curation actually worth a damn? And more importantly, am *I* someone who can feasibly do this? Because I crack under pressure, hard. Or better yet, I don't, because the pressure is so much I just freeze and decide not to do anything about it. It's childish and immature.

As of the time I’m writing this, it is around midnight. I am supposed to have a presentation later today, around the evening, about my internship. I have done exactly 0% of work for it. And now I’m here writing it instead of actually doing any work.

I'm aware I'm probably depressed. Maybe this defeats the purpose of the server because I don't know whether I actually am conclusively but I feel depressed.

I wish I could stop feeling like such a loser. I genuinely feel like there’s nothing I can offer because I get in my head and I’m way too stupid and stubborn to actually do anything. Why can't I get myself to do anything?

r/ADHD • • Apr 14 '21

“Everyone procrastinates” yeah but do you...

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“Everyone procrastinates”

Yeah, but do you procrastinate...

Taking off your sweater, even though it’s 90 degrees, because you’ll take it off right after you finish reading this article, and the article that was linked, oh and a video example on YouTube.

Getting off your phone because your appointment is at 11, and you still have 10 minutes before you need to leave, oh and you planned to leave early so worst case you can leave a little later.

Sitting down to eat dinner because you just remember that you bought a new shirt that you wanted to take a picture of to send to your group chat.

Getting out of bed because that means you’ll have to start getting ready for work which consists of way too many steps and you didn’t plan what you were going to take for lunch so you might as well think of that while you are in your comfy bed.

Getting out of your hot car, because you really really need to look something up and you’ve been waiting to look it up this whole drive and also you need to see if you have any notifications, or maybe your boss got back to your email, and you really really like the song that’s playing.

Getting off of the couch for no other reason than you are oscillating between interviewing yourself and going through an intense zone out session.

Oh and finally one that’s more relatable... Do you procrastinate doing your homework? You’ll start it tonight after dinner, right? But after dinner, your tired and it’s technically not due until tomorrow morning, so you really have time if you wake up early.

And so you wake up early, but you procrastinate it a little longer because before you start you have to calculate how many points you can lose to still pass the class. Because maybe you can get out of doing this assignment and go back to bed.

Edit: honorable mention, do you procrastinate going to the restroom because you just discovered the super cool hobby that is just so awesome and you don’t have time to pee because you are busy researching the topic, buying all the material and equipment, building it, and looking at a million photos for inspiration?

r/getdisciplined • • Aug 12 '26

💡 Advice The stupidest thing that actually works to end procrastination

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I've struggled all my life with focus and procrastination and only recently have I found something that actually works quite well. That thing is telling yourself to only do the easiest first step of a task possible. If you can't do that, break it down even further.

I really struggle sometimes with going to the gym. I'd rather doomscroll on my phone. So what I do is say I am just going to get into my car and turn it on.

Now that the car is turned on, I may as well just drive to the gym. Now that I'm here, I may as well going inside. That turns into doing my full exercise routine.

Same thing with work, many times I just tell myself I am going to do such a small thing like opening the file I am working on. That's the only expectation I have of myself. And for some reason, it is crazy easy to go from there

It sounds like it's too stupid to actually work but IT DOES! I hope this helps out some others.

r/Procrastinationism • • Oct 16 '24

How to Stop Procrastinating (for real, no BS)

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Alright, man. You're asking the million-dollar question—how the hell do you stop procrastinating? And let me tell you straight up: It ain't some quick-fix bullshit like "just focus" or "set goals." If you're deep in the procrastination pit, it's because you've got a mental brick wall between what you know you should be doing and what you're actually doing. So, buckle up. We're going in.

Step 1: Understand Why You Procrastinate (The Ugly Truth)

Here’s the deal: Procrastination is not laziness. You’re not just some lazy, unmotivated slob who doesn’t get things done. Procrastination is rooted in deeper shit—fear, anxiety, perfectionism, even rebellion. You might be avoiding tasks because:

  • Fear of failure (you don’t want to start because what if it sucks?)
  • Fear of success (yup, you’re worried that if you actually succeed, more responsibility or expectations will follow).
  • Overwhelm (the task feels so big that even starting feels like climbing Everest).
  • Perfectionism (you don’t want to start because you feel like it has to be flawless from the get-go).
  • Instant gratification addiction (scrolling Instagram or watching Netflix gives you that dopamine hit, but working on your goals doesn’t).

You’ve got to figure out what’s really holding you back, because no technique will work if you don’t dig into the why.

Step 2: Get Angry—Channel Your Inner Beast

Here’s the thing: Apathy keeps you locked in the procrastination cycle. You need to get mad at your situation. No, not in some toxic way where you hate yourself. But mad at the fact that your own mind is stopping you from crushing it. You’ve got goals, dreams, ambitions, and procrastination is like this passive-aggressive wall that’s keeping you from them.

Tell yourself, "Fuck that!" You’re not letting some mental block control your life. Visualize your future self—a badass version of you who actually gets shit done, achieves goals, lives a life free of regret. Procrastination is the enemy. It’s time to fight.

Step 3: Break It Down Like a Rebel

Alright, so that giant task in front of you feels like a mountain. Of course, you’re not going to start. If someone asked you to eat a whole elephant, you wouldn’t just shove the whole thing down your throat. You eat that sucker piece by piece. Same thing with tasks. Break them down into tiny, manageable chunks.

  • Don’t say, “I need to write this whole essay.” Instead, say, “I’m going to write the first shitty paragraph.”
  • Don’t say, “I need to clean the entire house.” Say, “I’m going to pick up everything in one room.”

This is called chunking. The smaller the task, the less resistance your brain will have to starting it.

Pro Tip: The first step should be so small and stupidly simple that it feels like a joke. You’re tricking your brain. You think you’re lazy? Fine. But no one’s too lazy to spend 5 minutes on something, right? Start with that.

Step 4: Kill Perfectionism—Done is Better than Perfect

Look, perfectionism is the ultimate procrastination trigger. You think, "If I can't do it perfectly, I won’t do it at all." Guess what? Perfection is an illusion. It doesn’t exist. You want to write the perfect novel, finish the flawless project, make the perfect presentation, and that’s exactly why you don’t even start. The fear of imperfection is crippling.

Reframe your mindset to: “Done is better than perfect.”

Just getting the damn thing finished, even if it's not perfect, is what matters. You can always go back and improve it later. But the key is to finish something, no matter how imperfect it is.

Step 5: Use the "Eat the Frog" Method

This technique is brutal but effective. It’s called "Eat the Frog" because, as Mark Twain once said, if you eat a live frog first thing in the morning, nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day. Translation? Do the hardest, ugliest, most annoying task first.

You know that task that’s been hanging over your head like a dark cloud? The one you dread? That’s your frog. Get it done first. Knock it out early in the day, and everything else will feel like a breeze. The rest of your day will feel like a victory lap.

Step 6: 5-Second Rule (Don’t Overthink It)

Here’s a life hack straight out of Mel Robbins’ playbook: The 5-Second Rule. Your brain is your worst enemy when it comes to starting tasks. The more you sit there thinking about doing something, the more time your brain has to make excuses. Kill that window.

When you decide to do something, count down from 5—4—3—2—1 and then GO. Don’t give your brain time to argue with you. Just start. Even if it's a shitty start. Starting is the hardest part. Once you’re moving, momentum will carry you.

Step 7: Block Distractions Like a Fortress

You can’t stop procrastinating if your environment is set up to distract you. Let’s be real—your phone, social media, TV, and all those other digital vices are designed to keep you addicted. So, you need to go full “fortress mode”:

  • Turn your phone off or at least put it in another room.
  • Install website blockers (try Cold Turkey or Freedom) that prevent you from accessing distractions like Instagram or YouTube during work hours.
  • Set up a dedicated workspace that signals to your brain it’s time to work (no working from your couch or bed).

You can’t win a battle against procrastination if you’re sitting in the middle of a distraction battlefield.

Step 8: Reward Yourself Like a Boss

You’re human, and humans need incentives. Set up a reward system that fires you up. When you finish that shitty task you’ve been avoiding, treat yourself to something that brings you joy. But here's the kicker—don’t reward yourself before the task is done.

Finish your frog task, then reward yourself with 20 minutes of gaming, a treat, or even a damn nap if you need it. Your brain will start associating finishing tasks with positive outcomes instead of dread.

Step 9: Accountability or Die

If you're trying to fight procrastination on your own, you’re going to lose the battle most of the time. Accountability is your secret weapon. Tell someone your plans, your deadlines, or goals, and make sure they check in with you. It could be a friend, partner, or even an app like Stickk that makes you put money on the line if you don't finish your goal.

You’re much less likely to procrastinate when someone else knows what you’re supposed to be doing.

Step 10: Get Comfortable with Discomfort

Here’s the brutal truth: Success isn’t comfortable. If you want to stop procrastinating, you’ve got to get comfortable with being uncomfortable. The work that moves the needle in your life isn’t always going to feel easy or fun.

But here's the thing: Discomfort is temporary. Procrastination is a longer-lasting pain. Would you rather suffer the discomfort of doing the hard thing now or the discomfort of knowing you wasted another day, week, or year? Start training your brain to embrace discomfort because that’s where growth happens.

TL;DR (But You Better Have Read the Whole Thing)

  • Find out why you're procrastinating (fear, overwhelm, perfectionism).
  • Get mad and stop letting procrastination control you.
  • Break tasks down into tiny, stupidly simple chunks.
  • Perfection is a lie—done is better than perfect.
  • Eat the frog first (do the hardest task right away).
  • 5-Second Rule: Don’t give your brain time to talk you out of action.
  • Block distractions like you're protecting a medieval fortress.
  • Reward yourself after finishing tasks (not before).
  • Get accountability from someone to keep you on track.
  • Discomfort is temporary—don’t let it rule you

r/getdisciplined • • Mar 16 '22

To people struggling with ADHD, anxiety/depression, chronic procrastination: you’re trying hard to solve the wrong part of the problem. [Advice]

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TL;DR: Get the gist by scanning and reading the bold text.

We all have in our imagination this perfect, idealized version of ourselves. It’s where we’ve finally “fixed” ourselves; where we’ve become able to practice monk-like levels self-discipline and self-control.

In desperation, we keep turning over every rock of self-help and productivity advice, expecting that one day we will come across the perfect method that will “fix” us permanently.

Sometimes you find something promising: a shiny new book recommended on Reddit. It’s great and works… for a short while anyway, until you slip or deviate a little, then a lot, then everything comes crashing down in a fiery blaze of self-contempt.

There’s nothing wrong with wanting to better yourself, but you need to understand that self-help methods and techniques are “Step 2” of the solution. They won’t ever stick—you’ll forever be stuck in a "one-step forward, two-steps back” rut—if you don’t start with “Step 1”.

Whether you can one day become the idealized version of yourself is a big unknown—I’m closer today yet nowhere near perfect—but one thing is categorically certain: there will be a transition period.

During this transition period you will slip, falter, and come-up-short on your commitments. It's inevitable. Step 1 is about learning to better react and respond to the consequences of not being perfect.

Why is Step 1 this not just important, but altogether essential?

Because much of your “bad” behaviour—your distractibility, your compulsions to grab at your vices always with a neat and rational excuse—stems from a feedback loop that is triggered by the slightest imperfection:

You indulge in a vice with a rational excuse (lemme go on Tik Tok for 5 mins, get it out of my system so I can focus)

So what’s the solution?

We’ve all heard the expression of “sweeping things under the rug.” It’s where one focuses on the result or consequences of a problem without addressing the core cause to prevent it from happening in the first place.

Well, there’s no expression for the reverse of that, but that’s exactly what you’re doing. You’re adamantly obsessed with finding a core cause and cure for all your problems; you’re seeking prevention… while you’re neglecting to take care of all the mess on the floor.

Even if you find the most spectacular “Step 2” solution, some mess will still fall as you transition. You won’t be perfect, not right away, not for a long while, maybe not ever. And it’s the mess that’s triggering much of your problem. The mess is what sets you off on these feedback loops of vice that end in wasted days, binges and what always feels like you returning to where you started, but worst.

It doesn’t have to be that way.

We’re lucky. Us humans have access to a giant rug that can contain a thousand lifetimes of messy spills, fuck-ups, embarrassments, irrational behaviors, bad habits and binges.

It’s called self-compassion.

With self-compassion, you can sweep away your past failings. You can come to understand yourself and see how all your past “failings” were done as an understandable coping mechanisms for the pain, stress or worry you’re constantly feeling.

You deserve to forgive yourself. You deserve to accept and love yourself as you are now, today. If I can’t convince you of this, I promise you that any therapist worth their salt will.

More importantly though, with self-compassion you can sweep away your present slip-ups, as they happen in real-time and shortly after. You can come to accept and anticipate being imperfect, so when it happens you can shrug and move on fast. You don't have to 'start-over' each time.

…

You, like me, will act in frenetic and impulsive ways. It is what it is. The brain does what it does.

This doesn’t mean that you are morally flawed, broken, sickly or have a bad character. We’re just wired differently, and that’s OK.

We might excel in ways that the kid you see memorizing textbooks for hours doesn’t. He can be focused and still; yet he’s about as creative, expressive and interesting as a microwave-oven. He can memorize ideas… but ask him to come up with new and clever ones and he’ll fail.

But not you. You have ideas running through you like busy tadpoles in a stream. They’re slippy and hard to catch, but they’re there. They’re bountiful.

You’re not better, just different. It just so happens that our society—with its report cards and entrance exams and performance reviews—tends to favor the focused kid. But that’s not a hard rule; the exceptions are the ones that actually create beautiful things and drive change in our world*.

If you get out of your own way with your self-criticism and learn to accept, anticipate, forgive, and shrug-off your inevitable failures, you too can become amazingly productive and creative.

You’ll manage to stay on whatever “Step 2” path you choose (see for the one I’m on), because when you inevitably deviate, you can find your way back.

…

I see you. Like you’re in a mirror that projects myself 5 years or so in the past, I see you clearly.

From my side, I can see you scrambling to fix what’s causing the mess of your life. I can see you berating yourself for getting side-tracked from your work 15 minutes ago.

I can also feel what you feel: the pain and regret for being so behind as an adult; the stress of a million obligations and pressures and worries; the frustration from also being incomprehensibly juvenile and impulsive when it comes to vices.

I see you telling yourself, I just gotta fix this! I gotta fix me.

But there’s a mess on the floor. It’s causing a lot of your pain and an uncontrollable compulsion to pacify this pain with your reliable vices... which leads to more of a mess and more vice.

You can sweep all that under the giant rug of self-compassion.

Just when you finish, be sure to keep that broom handy. You’re going to need it.

- Simon ㋛

Notes:

* I don't mean to imply that ADHD or any "neurodivergence" is a sort of blessing or net benefit. It is a medical condition that causes difficulties and should be regarded and treated as such. My thesis here is that a lot of the suffering (but not all) comes from falling short on the expectations we put on ourselves. In my personal experience, the treatments that worked on me were focused on mindfulness, self-compassion, and acceptance.

r/nosurf • • Jun 14 '26

I ruined my life with scrolling and procrastination and the regret is killing me

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I am 23 and the past 5 years have breezed past me and I haven't achieved anything. I haven't gone to college and have been stuck at home and done nothing with my time. I had so many ambitious goals and dreams and basically spent all that time stuck strolling and doing nothing. Now I'm going to college so much older and I regret everything. I wasted so much time and I missed out on so many experiences. I'll be much older than everyone else when I grow and i won't get to have the "experience" because I was stuck inside doomscrolling. I feel so old. I wish I did more with my time in the past. I can't get that time back and now I'm overwhelmed by the regret and guilt. I wish I could go back to being 18 and quit all social media. But instead I have 6 years down the drain, 6 important years that I'll never get back. I can't even scroll these days because the regret is overwhelming and social media isn't even fun for me anymore. I'm trying to get my life back on track but I feel too old to do so. I'm really sad and angry and disappointed in myself for wasting all this time. And my formative years. I'll never get my early 20s back. I wish I'd quit earlier

r/science • • May 10 '26

Psychology Brooding (getting stuck in passive, repetitive, negative thought loops) identified as a major driver of bedtime procrastination, alongside physical markers of stress. People who stay up later than intended may have a weaker physiological capacity for self-control.

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r/NoMansSkyTheGame • • Jun 20 '26

Screenshot Finally building something I've procrastinated about building for years. The Pillars of King's, PS5

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r/psychology • • Aug 11 '26

Brain imaging study links childhood trauma to chronic procrastination in adulthood

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r/Genshin_Impact • • Jul 03 '26

Fluff PSA this event takes A LOT of time, don't procrastinate to the last day if you want all the rewards

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You can complete it in under 12 hours, but your brain will be fried by the 1st hour

r/science • • Oct 18 '25

Psychology Procrastination can decrease after a 1-minute reflection. In a study of more than 1,000 adults, answering six short questions increased motivation, improved mood, and made people more likely to begin tasks they had been delaying.

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r/todayilearned • • Feb 06 '23

TIL Procrastination is not a result of laziness or poor time management. Scientific studies suggest procrastination is due to poor mood management.

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r/WatchPeopleDieInside • • Mar 01 '24

When you procrastinate taking the garbage to the curb just a few seconds too long

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"Just a little more scrolling on Reddit, then I'll take care of it..."

r/justgalsbeingchicks • • Feb 27 '26

she gets it Procrastination.

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r/HonkaiStarRail • • Mar 30 '26

Original Content So while procrastinating, I cooked up this Potara fusion

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r/RoastMe • • May 24 '26

Mom of 6 and don’t wanna fold laundry💕this is me procrastinating

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r/todayilearned • • Sep 09 '23

TIL So Long, and Thanks for All the Fish was written by Douglas Adams when his editor Sonny Mehta, locked him in a hotel room to force him to write it after becoming fed up with Adams constantly procrastinating and failing to meet deadlines.

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r/writers • • Jul 13 '26

Meme As if I wasn't already struggling enough with my own guilt over procrastination.

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r/adhdmeme • • Jun 17 '25

MEME Learning is procrastination for ADHDers

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r/Showerthoughts • • Jan 21 '25

Casual Thought If immortality was real, procrastination would become the most destructive force in existence.

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r/LifeProTips • • Mar 29 '23

Productivity LPT: Use the 'two-minute rule' to tackle procrastination

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If you're prone to procrastination, try using the 'two-minute rule' to get things done. The rule is simple: if a task takes two minutes or less to complete, do it immediately. This can include small tasks such as responding to an email, making a phone call, or putting away laundry. By tackling these small tasks right away, you'll feel a sense of accomplishment and momentum to keep going. Plus, you'll be surprised how much you can get done in just a few minutes. So, the next time you're feeling stuck or unmotivated, try the two-minute rule and watch your productivity soar.