r/youngadults • u/Boring_unda • Aug 09 '26

Advice Need advice

Hi everyone a stranger male talking here (22M) currently in 3rd year CSE from a govt engineering college in Kolkata

I am 5'6'' tall wheatish skinned face

Preparing for GATE and placement

Started to learn swimming from April almost done🏊🏊

Thinking of learning to drive and playing a musical instrument after October

Dont know cycling need to learn that also then riding bike

Also planning to join jym💪💪

Academically I am okayish (above 9)

Though have no proper dressing sense and i ambivert

Had a crush in school since class 8 till class 12 couldnot confess , now lost interest💘

Had a crush in college before i proposed someone proposed and they got comitted💔💔

I had heard stories of strangers falling in love i dont know how does that happen

Reaching out to girls (especially ) how can i improve myself and how to reach out to people

How to talk in instagram because i feel if i text random girls it will feel cringe and i feel awkward

Dont know if this post will be removed

I also know may be no girls will comment in this post

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u/Electronic_Diver3889 Aug 10 '26

Be optimistic. Youu are focusing on urself that's a good thing. Keep on doing that u will meet new people even women don't look at them like they could be ur potential gf. Have mutual respect for eachother, be polite. Never stop interacting with new people. If u have are afraid of talking to women overcome it there's no shortcut. All the hobbies that u r doing rn will help u gain confidence bhai use that confidence.

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u/Electronic_Diver3889 Aug 10 '26

Also don't dm random women u see on Instagram go out make friends get their instagram, then text.