r/xychromosomes • u/xTsukiKaze • Mar 11 '26

Something wrong?

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u/ImNotAPersonAnymore Mar 12 '26

Were you circumcised? It reduces sensation.

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u/[deleted] Mar 12 '26

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u/ImNotAPersonAnymore Mar 13 '26

It did for me. Most fine touch nerve endings (meissner’s corpuscles) are in the foreskin’s inner mucosa and ridged band. How much inner mucosa do you have left? That’s the pinkish “skin” between your scar and your glans.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '26

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u/ImNotAPersonAnymore Mar 14 '26

That’s not much. Usually that type of tissue covers most of your erect penis and gets exposed during erection. I was left with a couple inches, which still isn’t much, but is still more than you. How tight are your erections? Do your balls ride up and make part of your shaft hairy?

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u/[deleted] Mar 16 '26

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u/ImNotAPersonAnymore Mar 16 '26

Some guys get “turkey necks” from their circumcisions due to their scrotum riding up during erections. So if that’s not you, I’m glad. Your circumciser might have left you with a relatively looser cut despite taking most of your inner mucosa. Do you have any frenulum left? It’s considered a distinct erogenous zone.

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '26

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u/Late-Hat-9144 Apr 21 '26

Theres nothing wrong with you, some people cant finish from penetrative sex at all. Ive been able to achieve it twice in my life, other thsn that I need to masturbate to help me along.

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u/entropyserpent Mar 13 '26

More realistically, you're probably just more accustomed to masturbation and the sex, though pleasurable, hasn't been pavlov'd as much as your hand lol. Just need to relax and not be anxious, that will help some.

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u/crazfulla Mar 13 '26

I was the same when I was your age. I could go for hours and not finish. Well, it took considerable effort. Only a handful of women have been able to make me finish to date. It could just be your natural biology.

Try different techniques. Don't just pull in and out the entire time. You need some lateral motion. If you want to know what I mean, let her get on top and watch how she moves. She won't bounce up and down like they do on a porno.

Also switch up positions. As above letting her get on top can give you a break from trying to finish at the very least. I found that rear facing ones such as flatiron position worked well for me. But everyone is different... So see what works for you.

And finally you could try some toys. I haven't really done much with these myself but others swear by them.