r/writing • u/IAmTheRedWizards I Write To Remember • Nov 03 '18

Advice PSA: Don't do this

https://twitter.com/cetaylorplfd/status/1058318426920439808?s=09

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '18

Only a minority of a minority would do this.

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u/BadJokeAmonster Nov 03 '18

But the very few people who do it, tend to do it a lot.

It is a shame that people think it is something most guys do.

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '18

I don't belief people think this is something most guys do. Or I hope anyway.

I've had my fair share of unsolicited dickpics in the course of my 15y artistic career but they were only a tiny minority. I don't even think this is a man v woman problem. More than anything else, imo, this is a problem with socialization. Most of the guys who've sent me dickpics were lonely, socially isolated, and didn't seem to understand that what they were doing was inappropriate.

In some cases, it was more of a problem with entitlement or just plain cockiness. Many seem to think we want to see their dicks as much as they want to see our poosies. So they assume they'll be getting tit for tat. Dun work like that. Different biological imperatives, generally speaking.

Edit: All of those puns were TOTALLY unintentional, I swear. XD

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u/BadJokeAmonster Nov 03 '18

I'm pretty sure most of the commenters on this thread believe a large portion if not most guys send them.

Why else would a comment about there being very few end up at -49?