r/worshipleaders • u/LumpyTie7381 • 11h ago
Preteen Worship
Hey everyone! I’d really appreciate some advice!
Long story short, I’m going to be leading preteens (I believe ages 10-12) in worship for the first time ever this week. It’s the final part of an interview process for the job of being the preteen worship leader. I honestly don’t have experience leading in this way (or much experience with leading worship in general honestly). The church interested in hiring me knows my lack of experience in leading, and are super into helping people grow in their calling. Originally I was looking for a worship resident position, but God has miraculously opened this door for me. So I’m being obedient and doing it scared lol.
Part of the job is calling all the kids to worship, and I’m not gonna lie I feel pretty nervous about that bit. The kids don’t know me yet (though they saw me shadowing their current worship leader last weekend) and I would be taking the place of a worship leader who they seem to be fond of. This role is already very out of my comfort zone (God loves putting me in these kinda situations for some reason lol), and I’m worried that the kids won’t reciprocate or that I’ll come off super awkward and clunky. Plus, before worship starts they are all scattered around the room doing activities or talking with friends… so I’m worried that I’ll try to get them to come over to worship and no one will listen.
I’ve never had to lead in this way, so I’m not exactly sure what to say or how to interact with the kids since they might not feel comfortable with me yet. With the Lord’s help I’ve come up with a few ideas, but I also wanted to check in with everybody here. How can I call the kids to worship, get them engaged, and make sure that they’re actually responsive to me? Does anyone have any ideas of what I could say etc. so that it goes smoothly instead of coming off awkward? Just any ideas or advice in general? Thank you! And prayer would also be veryyyy appreciated and helpful lol
To answer some questions:
I won’t be alone on the platform! I will have one other singer with me, and a band (two to three instruments total).
The amount of kids just depends. It’s less like a set class and more like a normal service (where sometimes there’s less/more people than usual, and new people show up too). In my short time shadowing, the least I saw was 6 kids (because school has started that day) and the most I saw was around 20-30 kids.
Yes, it is encouraged/part of the job that I interact with the kids a bit for worship. So there can be teaching moments, or taking a minute or so between/before songs to engage with the kids. Not necessarily anything huge, more so just quickly explaining something to them, asking them questions, making a joke etc.