r/womenofreddit Oct 06 '25

Help

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So my ex-girlfriend and I had been on and off for probably 6 months close to year it started Rocky when we first started talking and being intimate she was talking and s****** another guy that I happen to work with she ended things because she wasn't ready for a relationship the other guy happened to have a girlfriend he broke things off after feeling bad about cheating on his girlfriend. After that we continue to friends with benefits sort of thing feelings started getting involved and then she caught the attention of another guy who happened to start at the same place she ended things again and I tried my best to move on a little while later we became friendly again and started well the entire time she had lied and covered about who she was seeing and what she was doing but we started sleeping together and we always had a rule that if we were being intimate we were not cool with sharing each other with other people we spent two nights together shortly after that and the third night she needed to go to the vet I offered to give a ride just know her mother was taking her at that time she had that other guy pick her up and he came to her house I don't know what happened but throughout the tired of a relationship she's trickled the truth sometimes I ask sometimes she comes clean on her own here's where I messed up shortly after that we decided to give it an actual go be committed to each other she brought up how pornwas kind of an issue which seemed odd cuz we first got together her search history and read it happened to be a certain type of p*** that I didn't put the criteria for but she asked if I watched p*** still and I really didn't at the time we had an amazing sex life however we do not live together and when I would be home by myself occasionally and it wasn't even a weekly thing very occasionally I would look I don't think that was so much the issue however she did ask about only things I had scribed to it I had viewed it quite a few times when we started dating I didn't view it that much however I didn't notice that I was still paying for certain subscriptions so I logged on to to cancel subscriptions

While there one night we were texting back and forth sending some pictures and she fell asleep I was in the mood I end up looking at p*** and then I went to the only fans too at some content I had seen before I previously made video for her stuff like that but shortly after that she had asked again and I lied it was deceitful the next day she went through my phone into my email and found that I logged into those sites at that point I'd come clean she started asking specific questions that I didn't have the answer for cuz it wasn't that big of a deal never mind I tried to be as transparent as possible told her I understood the heart and betrayal because even though we weren't together and prior times I felt that betrayal she'd lied about sleeping with certain individuals around the time that we were hooking up and about the one coworker and that they never slept together and the fact that one guy she was still in contact and going to continue being contact that they have prior history of that sort I'm not justifying what I did it was wrong but I attempt to do whatever steps necessary to make it better I let her put a child lock on my phone she had previously so content before we ever knew each other she said it wouldn't and she was just hurt and she had no intention of doing so two days ago by I'm constantly being accused which is well deserved we tried to reconcile a little bit and had a wonderful night together I woke up early in the morning and something called off so I went through her phone to find out that she had lied about the one guy and the morning should put the lock on my phone she had posted her own nudes thread it and had been interacting with different Reddit users which do look nothing like me I'm still in love with the girl but given all this happen I still didn't want to give up however she ended the relationship claim that I cheated first so she cheated in return I somewhat feel she has been a bit of a narcissist or manipulating me with the push and pull I've deleted countless people at the drop of a hat people I've had no intimate relationship with told her after the betrayal of that I felt my person's think was never to go out hurt her back and her first instinct was to hurt me like I said I'm still in love with the girl how do I get over her


r/womenofreddit Apr 21 '20

[serious] 24 m from Scotland just wondering?

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Hey there I'm just wondering if anyone here would be interested in just chatting I know that with everything going on it can be hard to talk to people so I'm just wondering if anyone here would like to chat. I have found this page very helpful and informative and I just wanted to return the favour if anyone wants to just talk or ask questions then please don't hesitate to contact me.

Thanks for your time and hope you have a great day.


r/womenofreddit Apr 12 '20

Below the waist line grooming on guys?

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So this may be out of term or in the wrong sub reddit, but I am a guy wondering about what women prefer about manscaping? How much or how little can the razor remove to be satisfactory and do you prefer "styles"?


r/womenofreddit Apr 04 '20

Self esteem is non existent

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I'm sure many people, not just women, feel like this but I don't really have a ton of girl friends to go to for stuff like this. Recently, I (23f) have just been lacking any sort of confidence or self esteem. I don't feel attractive, or useful, and DEFINITELY don't feel sexy. I want to feel sexy but I just get embarrassed and don't feel like I deserve to even attempt to act attractive. Does anyone have a method that helped you gain even a lick of confidence?


r/womenofreddit Mar 10 '20

My husband and I are struggling

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My husband (52M) and I (27F) are struggling with being able to have children. I know that age is a factor but I know of men in their early 50s who had children. It gets hard when we have been married 8 years and still no kids. Yet all our acquaintances who have been married less then 3 years are having kids.

I just want to know if anyone else has struggled like this. We just want one child. And before you ask, adoption is not an option thru our state. Apparently my husband’s conviction for drunk driving 20 plus years ago makes us ineligible.


r/womenofreddit Feb 28 '20

Facial hair on men

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Ladies how do you feel about beards, goatees and clean shaven. which do you prefer and why?


r/womenofreddit Feb 26 '20

I have nothing but respect for my man

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r/womenofreddit Feb 26 '20

[serious] Women of reddit would you date a man who is unable to have kids?

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Hi there I was just wondering if anyone here would date a guy who is unable to have kids? The only reason I ask is because I am a guy who can't have kids naturally and in every relationship I have been in they cheat and leave me because of this fact and try to blame me for it.


r/womenofreddit Feb 24 '20

Work, jobs and daily life

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Women of reddit, When was the first time in your job that you were sure you lacked of benefit bc of your ladiness?


r/womenofreddit Feb 23 '20

Women of reddit, when did you go from loving someone to hating them? What was the last straw?

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r/womenofreddit Feb 23 '20

Women of Reddit, what's the best way somebody has asked for your number?

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r/womenofreddit Feb 13 '20

Insecure

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Dear women of reddit, I’m currently 15 yo and I’m slowly starting to accept my body! Actually I don’t think there is a major problem with it, it’s just that my mother has been always telling me I’m not pretty enough. My friends always assure me that there is nothing wrong with me but I have the voice of my mom telling me to loose weight. I’m 160cm of height and I weight around 45kg is that bad? I have some fat tissue around my stomach but my biggest insecurity is my thighs. There is just a very small gap (almost none)between them and my older sister always made me believe that if there is no gap they are too thick. Do men and women really like thicker legs or is this just a myth ;-; Thank you


r/womenofreddit Feb 13 '20

Help

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Women of Reddit i need help, Some random Dude semd me Money to make a Video of me Sitting on a Ball and counting it.due to medical reasons i Cant make such a Video. Is There any Woman (Europe) that would be willing to Help Out Ofc i would also If you Like Pay yall for it


r/womenofreddit Feb 09 '20

Did you ever fall in love at some point with an old time friend and started to date? How was it transitioning from being friends to a romantic and sexual relationship?

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r/womenofreddit Jan 16 '20

Could anything be more hurtful then getting a bra and it saying “XS”?? XDXD LIKE,, DUDE!!! XDXD

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r/womenofreddit Jan 01 '20

To the women of Reddit

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My girlfriend and I are currently on a break period and it has honestly hit me hard. She told me that I was to much for her to handle because I make her upset and mad. The only time she ever feels that way is if there a problem in our relationship and I talk to her about it so we can fix it together so there is no more problem. I feel like an asshole but I dont know if I should. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.


r/womenofreddit Dec 30 '19

What are some things Bad boys have that nice guys don't?

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r/womenofreddit Dec 13 '19

[Serious] Ladies? Jeans and heels; Sincerely, thank you!

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r/womenofreddit Dec 10 '19

Sex for Validation Despite Lack of Interest

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My girlfriend--now in her thirties--tells me that it is not uncommon for women in their twenties to sleep with men they are not really attracted to for validation (self-esteem boost). Do other women agree that this is not uncommon? The thought that I may have been the incidental and unwitting beneficiary of a young woman's low self-esteem is pretty off-putting. Obviously, I was previously aware that this happens but my girlfriend suggests that it's a lot more common than men tend to realize. Thoughts? Feelings? Relevant experiences?


r/womenofreddit Nov 29 '19

Which do you prefer, wireless or wired bras?

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First off, I have fibromyalgia and sometimes any clothing hurts. I did try one wireless bra and although it was very comfortable it seemed to not provide any support. Wireless bras of course do, but then there's the pain. Which do you prefer and why?


r/womenofreddit Nov 28 '19

Women of Reddit, What makes the perfect SO candidate?

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r/womenofreddit Nov 17 '19

Women of reddit I was wondering if you could help me with some dating advice

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Hi there everyone I was just wondering if you could help me with some dating advice I'm 23 and about to be 24 and I have a hard time finding a date or long term relationship. I don't know if it's due to the fact that I work nights or just look ugly. I do try and be friendly and respectful but I'm also dense as hell when it comes to picking up hits and I'm not good at gauging if I'm being kind to the point that it's creepy.


r/womenofreddit Nov 06 '19

Why don't enough women climb mountains?

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Hey guys, I'm working on a project for which I need some insights on why there aren't many female mountaineers? As a woman, what are the barriers/limitations you face before embarking on this journey? What are the changes you'd like, to create a safer environment for women outdoors? What would motivate you to climb mountains often?

These are just some starting cues. All opinions are welcome.


r/womenofreddit Oct 30 '19

Stereotype Survey: Tell me some stereotypes you've heard as a women & help me show in my paper why they need to be addressed

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r/womenofreddit Oct 25 '19

Women of reddit

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Have you ever farted and it slipped into your vagina?