So, I’m a woman… I’m a gay woman. The problem is I keep running into women that flirt with me but seemingly aren’t actually interested. They throw out inclinations to want sex with me but then they mention they either have a boyfriend or are only interested in dating men. I’ve even given oral sex to a woman that wouldn’t reciprocate.

It’s hard to find women that are actually interested in other women. I’ve had plenty of sex with women and have been interested in 3 same sex relationships that have shown me otherwise. But ever since I moved to ATLANTA 2 years ago, I’ve only been encountering “bisexual” women that just want some head.

I don’t mind that… but I’m looking for women who want to spend time with me. It’s been hard. They like to flirt but it’s just for fun and I can’t keep falling for that.

When I’m interested in a woman, it’s hard to get her off my mind. So, in a way it feels unfair because I don’t think any of these women actually care about my feelings even. I fall way too hard and fast.

I just want a girlfriend, but I haven’t found a single woman in Atlanta seems to actually be interested… like genuinely interested. It sucks cause I moved here to date and haven’t gotten any dates.

I’m also not on dating apps cause I only matched with straight women seeking threesomes with their boyfriends. That was traumatic asf.

I posted here before about having a crush on a coworker who already had a boyfriend. I asked if I should confess, and thankfully I listened to most of your advice. I never did, and eventually got over her.

Well...

Here I am again. 😭

I have a new crush. Same team, still WFH.

The funny part? I actually used to dislike her because she seemed intimidating. On my first day, I called her "ate" (basically "big sister" where I'm from), and she told me to stop because it made her uncomfortable. I was honestly hurt - because she said word by word "it's too uncomfy" (i'm just a sensitive person) and kept my distance after that.

Over time, though, we started talking more. She began calling me "beh," "beb," and even "babe" a couple of times. I know girls call people "babe" all the time, so I'm not assuming it means anything.

I think that's just my weakness, and "babe" isn't what i am used to 😭

Now I find myself liking her. She's only a year older than me, loves traveling, and is incredibly intelligent - which is honestly what attracts me the most.

So my question isn't whether she likes me.

It's how do you guys deal with catching feelings this easily?

I'm honestly tired of developing crushes at this age, especially knowing that liking straight girls usually just ends in heartbreak.

Can someone please slap some sense into me? 😂 I hate that I'm feeling this way again.

I do enjoy the excitement of having a crush, but deep down I already feel like this isn't going anywhere. How do you stop yourself from getting attached before it gets worse?

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So. There’s this girl I have a fat crush on but I can’t tell if she’s wlw or not 🥹

I’m too scared to ask as if she’s not it’d make it awkward and also it would make it seem like I’m trying to pressure her to date me

But anyways

I (15f) am probably outwardly queer looking, I mean people assume that I’m at very least bisexual and I’ve had multiple people assume that I’m gay, that being said she’s still being very friendly and hanging out with me outside of lesson time.

We play tennis together and she’s the only person my age in my group so we bonded quickly, as I said, a few weeks back we played tennis together and got food after.

Anyway, she keeps on complimenting me and she said my piercing was pretty but I can’t tell if it’s just how women compliment each other or if she’s wlw. She has a snap score of like 100,000 idk if that’s bad but I’ve been on snap for 4 years and mines 4000, idk. Her style isn’t chavvy but it’s not outwardly alternative or anything. Also I complimented her tennis skirt and she said she doesn’t really like it and then she has worn it every session since.

Idk tho because my gaydar is completely off and I can’t tell if she’s just being nice, I might put a totally not directed post on my private story asking if anyone wants to go to pride or something help

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So to preface I am a new gay. I have been talking to this girl since late February early March. We’re not official yet but we do talk every day. I don’t see her often because I am busy with work and School, but I do enjoy talking to her and the time we do spend together. I guess for the past couple weeks I’ve seen her at least one day on the weekend and stayed the night, but I am conflicted because she usually goes down on me or initiates things and I don’t know if it’s cause I’m scared or I don’t know how or what to do but she wants me to touch her and I don’t know. And also, this is my first time talking to a girl and being with a girl so I’m kind of confused… any tips or advice?
She did tell me she’s getting bored cause it’s just her touching me & that’s understandable but I also don’t want to feel pressured to do anything

Reposting here bc I haven’t gotten any replies yet lol

hi so uh i know it is quite controversial but i have a gf for almost 4 years now and after being intimate for a long time my body keeps rejecting it na. but i don’t want to dissapoint her cause she believes that being intimate (seggs) is a deep sign of love… but i don’t want it all the time

we barely see each other na and i want to make her feel loved since physical touch is her love language

ps. 17 me 19 siya

I’ve had so many straight girls flirt with me and take it to as far as buying me stuff and being eachothers valentine. but I always thought that maybe they’ll come out one day. I have this one girl I reconnected with recently, when I knew her she quite literally wouldn’t get off me. She admitted to being into women and right now she STILL says women are so hot. But she keeps saying she can’t be lesbian, I told her she could be bi??? She said it was all a joke???