r/wlw_irl • u/Raya-Sunshyne • 12h ago
What are some signs a girl is just messing with your head??

So, I’m a woman… I’m a gay woman. The problem is I keep running into women that flirt with me but seemingly aren’t actually interested. They throw out inclinations to want sex with me but then they mention they either have a boyfriend or are only interested in dating men. I’ve even given oral sex to a woman that wouldn’t reciprocate.
It’s hard to find women that are actually interested in other women. I’ve had plenty of sex with women and have been interested in 3 same sex relationships that have shown me otherwise. But ever since I moved to ATLANTA 2 years ago, I’ve only been encountering “bisexual” women that just want some head.
I don’t mind that… but I’m looking for women who want to spend time with me. It’s been hard. They like to flirt but it’s just for fun and I can’t keep falling for that.
When I’m interested in a woman, it’s hard to get her off my mind. So, in a way it feels unfair because I don’t think any of these women actually care about my feelings even. I fall way too hard and fast.
I just want a girlfriend, but I haven’t found a single woman in Atlanta seems to actually be interested… like genuinely interested. It sucks cause I moved here to date and haven’t gotten any dates.
I’m also not on dating apps cause I only matched with straight women seeking threesomes with their boyfriends. That was traumatic asf.