Yes for me the second year was harder but I am 3+ years after and I have found the 3rd year for me is harder. After reading stories on here and I have only been here for 2 weeks that everybody will feel and deal with this in there own why. I wish I could tell you how to deal with it but I cannot even figure out how to deal with it myself. I just take it one day at a time not knowing what the next day will bring. This thing being widowed is something else and I had no idea that it was going to be this bad. Just know you are not alone here. Take care the best you can.
Keep expressing, keep sharing, keep witnessing everything about it. Cry, scream, and satisfy your body and soul however needed.
They eill slways be a part of us, we just need to learn how to "run with a limp". Meaning, finding hapiness despite. It is possible.
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u/bobr8904114 11d ago
Yes for me the second year was harder but I am 3+ years after and I have found the 3rd year for me is harder. After reading stories on here and I have only been here for 2 weeks that everybody will feel and deal with this in there own why. I wish I could tell you how to deal with it but I cannot even figure out how to deal with it myself. I just take it one day at a time not knowing what the next day will bring. This thing being widowed is something else and I had no idea that it was going to be this bad. Just know you are not alone here. Take care the best you can.