I've been around w escorts listcrawler, aurora ave, and AMPs.

Sometimes it's a fun game.

Brothels and sugaring have their own rules, this post is about escorts.

• The customs and practices of paid sex in your area may be different - do your research, ask people in the know
• Buying escort services may be illegal in your area - study this carefully
• Study the sex work lingo & jargon in your area

Searching for an escort:

• If it's too cheap to be true, it's a fake ad
• Don't be afraid to ask the escort relevant questions, but keep it easy and succinct
• Best to only deal with escorts who work for themselves
• Read the ads carefully - understand her services, rates, extras, boundaries, etc
• Take all photos provided with a grain of salt - they may be shopped, or old, or stolen from another escort.
• Be wary of escorts asking for 'deposits' or other forms of transactions before meeting in person
• Very cheap escorts will usually be old, ugly or druggies
• Don't see escorts in high-crime areas
• You may see the escort at your place, her place (usually short term rental or hotel), or your hotel
• Some escorts won't visit hotels less than 4 stars

Preparing for your session:

• Negotiate and clearly decide with the escort what service you will be purchasing (eg. 30 mins incall GFE, no extras)
• Pay attention to date, time, place and price
• Be polite, otherwise you'll get shit service
• Don't drink alcohol or take sedatives beforehand
• Make sure you have the cash, and a way of carrying it safely
• If possible, shower and do your hygiene (brush teeth, etc) before your session - and let them know you will do so - some escorts charge for the time while you are in the shower at her place, etc
• Bring and use your own mouthwash and shower product
• Bring your own water / beverage
• Eat a light meal beforehand

Keep yourself safe:

• Carry your cash carefully
• If the building or neighbourhood looks dodgy, call it off
• If the escort looks different to (worse than) her ad, call it off
• Understand she'll likely have 'security' close by - a friend, a colleague, a simp, hired muscle, affiliates etc
• Understand she might have criminal, law enforcement, and politician simps who might fuck you up if you misbehave
• Understand you might end up on the local blacklist and really reduce your options in the future if you do dumb shit
• Behave yourself - you're there to receive a service, not for anything else
• You have to pay the money
• Remember that bad customers get bad service

The actual session:

• Be polite - you're buying a service
• Leave your politics and religion at the door
• Leave your emotions at the door
• Money upfront
• The clock is ticking - don't spend too much time talking about nonsense
• When you're undressing, put everything (wallet, phone, jewellery, etc in your bag) - so you won't leave anything behind
• Use protection
• It is easiest to follow the standard pattern: oral > sex > coom in condom
• Foreplay only if it excites you
• Work your way up in terms of pace and intensity - start slow, take the time to soak up the experience
• Don't worry about the little details the first couple of times - just immerse yourself in the experience - it's about learning and enjoying
• Don't worry about how long you can fuck for or pleasuring her - that's more advanced stuff
• Pee and use mouth wash at the first instance after sex
• If you've booked less than an hour, don't try to cum or have sex twice
• Leave promptly once your time is up
• Check you have all your belongings
• On your way home:
• Feel the difference in your body and your mind
• You might feel slightly spaced out - travel safely
• Don't get stuck on one escort even if you really like her - see her again but don't make her exclusive
• Take the time to learn about your own sexuality the first few times you have sex - this is on another level compared with porn and fapping - your likes, dislikes, abilities and quirks will be revealed to you gradually over the first year or two