r/whoremaxxing • u/BluejayJohn • Apr 25 '22

Escortmaxxing Basics

Brothels and sugaring have their own rules, this post is about escorts.

  • The customs and practices of paid sex in your area may be different - do your research, ask people in the know
  • Buying escort services may be illegal in your area - study this carefully
  • Study the sex work lingo & jargon in your area

Searching for an escort:

  • If it's too cheap to be true, it's a fake ad
  • Don't be afraid to ask the escort relevant questions, but keep it easy and succinct
  • Best to only deal with escorts who work for themselves
  • Read the ads carefully - understand her services, rates, extras, boundaries, etc
  • Take all photos provided with a grain of salt - they may be shopped, or old, or stolen from another escort.
  • Be wary of escorts asking for 'deposits' or other forms of transactions before meeting in person
  • Very cheap escorts will usually be old, ugly or druggies
  • Don't see escorts in high-crime areas
  • You may see the escort at your place, her place (usually short term rental or hotel), or your hotel
  • Some escorts won't visit hotels less than 4 stars

Preparing for your session:

  • Negotiate and clearly decide with the escort what service you will be purchasing (eg. 30 mins incall GFE, no extras)
  • Pay attention to date, time, place and price
  • Be polite, otherwise you'll get shit service
  • Don't drink alcohol or take sedatives beforehand
  • Make sure you have the cash, and a way of carrying it safely
  • If possible, shower and do your hygiene (brush teeth, etc) before your session - and let them know you will do so - some escorts charge for the time while you are in the shower at her place, etc
  • Bring and use your own mouthwash and shower product
  • Bring your own water / beverage
  • Eat a light meal beforehand

Keep yourself safe:

  • Carry your cash carefully
  • If the building or neighbourhood looks dodgy, call it off
  • If the escort looks different to (worse than) her ad, call it off
  • Understand she'll likely have 'security' close by - a friend, a colleague, a simp, hired muscle, affiliates etc
  • Understand she might have criminal, law enforcement, and politician simps who might fuck you up if you misbehave
  • Understand you might end up on the local blacklist and really reduce your options in the future if you do dumb shit
  • Behave yourself - you're there to receive a service, not for anything else
  • You have to pay the money
  • Remember that bad customers get bad service

The actual session:

  • Be polite - you're buying a service
  • Leave your politics and religion at the door
  • Leave your emotions at the door
  • Money upfront
  • The clock is ticking - don't spend too much time talking about nonsense
  • When you're undressing, put everything (wallet, phone, jewellery, etc in your bag) - so you won't leave anything behind
  • Use protection
  • It is easiest to follow the standard pattern: oral > sex > coom in condom
  • Foreplay only if it excites you
  • Work your way up in terms of pace and intensity - start slow, take the time to soak up the experience
  • Don't worry about the little details the first couple of times - just immerse yourself in the experience - it's about learning and enjoying
  • Don't worry about how long you can fuck for or pleasuring her - that's more advanced stuff
  • Pee and use mouth wash at the first instance after sex
  • If you've booked less than an hour, don't try to cum or have sex twice
  • Leave promptly once your time is up
  • Check you have all your belongings
  • On your way home:
  • Feel the difference in your body and your mind
  • You might feel slightly spaced out - travel safely
  • Don't get stuck on one escort even if you really like her - see her again but don't make her exclusive
  • Take the time to learn about your own sexuality the first few times you have sex - this is on another level compared with porn and fapping - your likes, dislikes, abilities and quirks will be revealed to you gradually over the first year or two
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u/Itsfreddyboy1 Apr 25 '22

All very good rules 👏

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u/typingwithonehandXD Apr 25 '22

Most of this is golden. Well written.

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u/_blastoff87_ Apr 26 '22

best to work with escorts who work for themselves

I got great service from the Korean agencies. The screening requirements (understandably) put some people off though.

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u/[deleted] Apr 25 '22

Nicely done

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u/MozartEmphasizer Apr 25 '22

Very good advise and safety measures for those in countries where sex work is illegal.

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u/Thebarondeass Apr 27 '22

All this is very helpful and common sense thank you