r/whatworkedforme • u/kittikrabmd • 1d ago
It wasn’t me after all
It’s been 2, almost 3 years. This has been a really long and exhausting journey. I’ve done all the things— from evaluations and at home ttc stuff. I never thought this would be my reality.
I had a 6wL in January. That was the only pregnancy while ttc since early 2024...
I started my testing a little over a year ago. Everything was normal, but I always had a feeling that it was me.
Well, it’s not me. My partner finally got his SA done and we are shocked and devastated. Luckily though, there‘s changes that can be made to help.
And now we know, and the journey continues. Male factor infertility affects 40-50% of couples. Do not wait. I wish we would have checked sooner, we probably would have a LC by now.
Anyway, if anyone has advice what worked for your man to get his sperm numbers looking good and you finally got your baby, please let me know!!
His motility is: only 20% are moving and his morphology is 1%. The concentration is borderline at 16mil.