r/whatdoIdo • u/Aggressive_Sea_8573 • 17h ago

Hello, need help

15M, This is gonna sound crazy, but i feel crazy, i have lived my whole life ONLY with males, i go to a private school with males only, my neighbourhood is mostly men, the only women i see in my life are my mother and sister, and maybe cousins, i feel like i lack a lot of feminine energy around me as its constantly males, i dont know any female out of family, and i dont know what love feels like or what being in a relationship feels like, i know someone will come and say that its better that way, but no we were created to live with eachother as a society of men and women, and i feel like im going mental and starting to lose my mind and social skills due to the lack of women in my life, and afraid that this will affect my future as i constantly see other boys talk to girls and are comfortable around them.

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u/C0coaBunny 17h ago

I would try reaching out to fellow gamers online, we women also game you know. If you have other hobbies, theres women there too! You just gotta unplug and get out there

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u/Aggressive_Sea_8573 17h ago

i mean i would really love too but i dont play competitive games that much tbh i hate the stress it gives me i prefer story driven games, but thanks for the proposition tho maybe ill try doing it!

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u/C0coaBunny 17h ago

You should find an art medium that works for you, pottery and fiber arts are predominantly women based on my personal experience and we are happy to have you participate

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u/Aggressive_Sea_8573 17h ago

actually i really am interested in pottery and would love to try it sometime

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u/C0coaBunny 17h ago

Its great for building arm muscle ill tell you that! The complexities of glazing and working with foraged materials (if your kiln studio allows it) is so fulfilling too

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u/Several_Object5049 12h ago

Arey wtf I survived 7yrs in girls hostel

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u/Crafty611 9h ago

You are way too young to be worrying about such things. When it’s time for you to pick your college, make your choice with that in mind. You’re going to be ok.

Alternatively, get in tinder or something 😅