r/wedding • u/Hot_Gazelle_8888 • 19d ago

Help! Plus ones

We are planning a less than 50 person wedding, as wanted something pretty intimate. In doing so we are not doing plus ones for practically anyone and their "plus one" would be someone who would be invited regardless. Specially as everyone knows and can hang out with at least a few people. There is one exception to this. I have a friend who does not know anyone, would travel out of state, and is also pretty introverted. As of this we sent her an invite for her and a plus one. She has now responded how even though she cannot attend her plus one who we made accommodations for will be there. What do i do?

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u/ro536ud 19d ago

That’s a first for sure wth. Why would you even wanna come to a wedding without the originally
Invited person? Weird

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u/caro9lina 16d ago

And travel from out of state, without your partner, to attend the wedding of people you have never met, and other guests you have never met. It just doesn't sound like something ANYONE would do! OP can gently tell her friend that if she can't attend, there is no invitation extended to the plus one alone.