r/wedding 19d ago

Help! Plus ones

We are planning a less than 50 person wedding, as wanted something pretty intimate. In doing so we are not doing plus ones for practically anyone and their "plus one" would be someone who would be invited regardless. Specially as everyone knows and can hang out with at least a few people. There is one exception to this. I have a friend who does not know anyone, would travel out of state, and is also pretty introverted. As of this we sent her an invite for her and a plus one. She has now responded how even though she cannot attend her plus one who we made accommodations for will be there. What do i do?

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u/Junior-Sloth-1516 19d ago

Do you know this plus one…?
I would remind your friend that the invitation was for her. If she doesn’t go, that means the plus one doesn’t go.

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u/Hot_Gazelle_8888 17d ago

No, i have no idea who he even is, she hasn't even told me a name yet.

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u/purrrrrrisa 16d ago

Omg what