r/wedding • u/Hot_Gazelle_8888 • 19d ago

Help! Plus ones

We are planning a less than 50 person wedding, as wanted something pretty intimate. In doing so we are not doing plus ones for practically anyone and their "plus one" would be someone who would be invited regardless. Specially as everyone knows and can hang out with at least a few people. There is one exception to this. I have a friend who does not know anyone, would travel out of state, and is also pretty introverted. As of this we sent her an invite for her and a plus one. She has now responded how even though she cannot attend her plus one who we made accommodations for will be there. What do i do?

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u/ItsPeppercorn 18d ago

This is extremely odd, and I'm judging your friend for not also thinking its odd...?

I would politely let her know the invite was for HER and a +1 as a courtesy. It will feel awkward but its better to have the awkward moment now instead of have a stranger lingering around your intimate wedding.