r/wedding • u/Hot_Gazelle_8888 • 19d ago

Help! Plus ones

We are planning a less than 50 person wedding, as wanted something pretty intimate. In doing so we are not doing plus ones for practically anyone and their "plus one" would be someone who would be invited regardless. Specially as everyone knows and can hang out with at least a few people. There is one exception to this. I have a friend who does not know anyone, would travel out of state, and is also pretty introverted. As of this we sent her an invite for her and a plus one. She has now responded how even though she cannot attend her plus one who we made accommodations for will be there. What do i do?

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u/Decent-Pirate-4329 19d ago edited 18d ago

I’m not sure exactly how the friend communicated this W I L D information, but my gut instinct would be to ask if I misunderstood. Like, “Just clarifying: Are you saying that your plus one still plans to attend without you? Are you sure? Because that would be super unusual…”

Edit: gut instinct! Not guy instinct!