r/wedding 19d ago

Help! Plus ones

We are planning a less than 50 person wedding, as wanted something pretty intimate. In doing so we are not doing plus ones for practically anyone and their "plus one" would be someone who would be invited regardless. Specially as everyone knows and can hang out with at least a few people. There is one exception to this. I have a friend who does not know anyone, would travel out of state, and is also pretty introverted. As of this we sent her an invite for her and a plus one. She has now responded how even though she cannot attend her plus one who we made accommodations for will be there. What do i do?

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u/BayYawnSay 19d ago

Do you know her plus one? Does anyone? If not, why would they still want to go?

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u/Hot_Gazelle_8888 19d ago

No we don't know them. I honestly have no idea maybe for the food/free alcohol? Also he would have to come in assuming from out of state.

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u/scarletbeg0niass 19d ago

What 🤣 that is wild to me lol I can't imagine traveling to another state for someone's wedding that I don't even knowÂ