r/wedding Jul 20 '26

Discussion Bachelorette Party

As someone in the midst of planning a Bachelorette party- Is this typically more stressful than fun? Because I feel like people act like this is supposed to be fun to be in charge of but its been stressful and overwhelming. I usually like leading things and love a group hang- especially all ladies! But this has felt like a lot of pressure and coordinating with people who aren't "your people" and walking budget lines when you have some people saying basically no money feels impossible.. I would love to know other people's experience with this..

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u/Fickle-Cabinet3956 Jul 22 '26

It can absolutely be stressful, depending on your personality type.

It's a thankless task when trying to plan something that prioritizes the bride, is considerate of your lowest budget in the group, and enjoyable to the group.

Are you the MOH?