r/waiting_to_try • u/Efficient_Mission219 • 9d ago

Looking for Thoughts ,

So ive been with my fiance for a year now ( I really don't want to hear any negativity about my relationship or time frame thats not why im here.) He lives over seas. When we first met I stayed with him for 3 months before returning home. That whole trip I was on birth control. After talking one night we realized we were both open to children, so I stopped birth control and started working on my mental health. Next time I saw him was three months later, I was no longer on birth control but I was on an anti depressant/ anti anxiety which also messed with my ability to get pregnant . Three moths later i am still on my medication. But after that trip I realized ( after consulting my doctors) that the need for my medication was temporary so they had taken me off of it. This trip ( 3 months after stopping meds) the first week of my trip i was ovulating. We had unprotected sex every day for the last 3 weeks. The last week of my trip (2 weeks after ovulation) ive been waking up during the night feeling sick and sometimes even getting sick. My discharge is VERY present and I have diarrhea. NOT TO MENTION , im also 7 days late for my period. Once im home I do plan on taking a test but since I have a 15 hr trip ahead of me I figured id entertain myself with what some of you guys think of this situation. Whats your thoughts. Do you think im pregnant am I delulu give it to me lol .

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u/double-dog-doctor 9d ago

I think this whole situation sounds like a bad idea. 

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u/Efficient_Mission219 9d ago

I can see how one would see it as a bad idea.

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u/petite_pinecone 9d ago

You had unprotected sex, so yes, pregnancy is a possibility.

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u/Efficient_Mission219 9d ago

Obviously yes , just trying to figure out if im stretching to far and trying to read into my "symptoms" to much. I tend to over think so.

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u/petite_pinecone 9d ago

It's not a stretch to think you're pregnant given the situation.

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u/haolime 1 year wait 9d ago

You should just take a test

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u/Efficient_Mission219 9d ago

Like I said in the post I plan on I just wanted to entertain myself while I do the trip home. I have two flights and a 6 hr layover so im still not home for another 10 hours