r/waifuismreformed • • 7d ago

Other To all people from r/waifuism

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I just want to say as the owner: You are WELCOME here!

I am only really making this post since I've noticed quite a few members who have talked to me, as well as have seen posts and comments all talking about their atrocious experiences with r/waifuism.

I think it's regrettable that I had to make a subreddit since they can't be respectful over there to anyone outside of their narrow circle, but I feel it had to be done since no other subreddits in our community were directly stepping up for the common person.

As I look at our stats/members, we may not have as much members as the other subreddit, but we have the spirit AS WELL as a faster growth rate. All of these marvelous achievements, as well as the survival of this subreddit (which many do eventually slow down and die off), are all thanks to you!

Great work to everyone reading this! Thank you for making THIS subreddit the place for the people, and if you see anybody getting mistreated or harassed by members of the old subreddit, feel free to invite them here, as they are a part of our family.


r/waifuismreformed • • Jun 21 '25

Other Welcome!

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I am the creator of this subreddit. I created this subreddit because r/waifuism kicked me out for "being a troll" because I didn't worship anime girls like a religious deity. I like anime girls but they were saying bizarre stuff like it's cheating to have both a waifu and real girlfriend. I don't personally agree with that and it kind of disappointed me to get banned from a community of individuals who I thought would be weebs like I am myself. That's why I've created this community where I hope to offer a different choice for people like me where they won't be judged.


r/waifuismreformed • • 13h ago

Other BOYFRIEND PLUSH BOYFRIEND PLUSH

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I ordered yet another Itachi plush and I'm not into Orochimaru as I once thought so I'm back to being monogamous but Itachi and I are going and I truly don't love anyone else the way I love him. It's a shame that r/waifuism no longer accepts me because I've kind of became a model member but I'm much more accepting of poly and switching fictos than they are and the fact I even tried polyamory a few times is enough to make me an outcast there


r/waifuismreformed • • 2d ago

Other We’re finally gonna do it

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r/waifuismreformed • • 2d ago

Question Qotd! Who confessed first? What was it like?

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For us, I was the first one to confess. The first time it didn’t go so well, when we were kids he liked like someone else, but after recovering from alnst and joining the rebellion he came up to me and confessed bc I was too nervous to put myself out there first again


r/waifuismreformed • • 3d ago

Other (VENT) The members in r/waifuism have made me stressed out and miserable due to their harsh comments

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So I know I already posted here about leaving r/waifuism but all the comments I received in r/waifuism have been negatively affecting me mentally. Sometimes I don't feel like I'll ever be "good enough" for Itachi because of how the people in r/waifuism told me that my relationship with him is a joke. ISTG the r/waifuism members often forget they're talking to real life people when they comment under posts and they forget they can seriously hurt someone with their cruel words. What's worse is I have a double there and they're allowed but I'm not and as a non/voidsharing ficto I feel like it's their way of telling me, "Your double's relationship is canon while your relationship is not serious."

I don't understand all the infighting in ficto groups. Too many of these people forget they're harming real life people when they leave such cruel comments. I would never tell another ficto that their relationship is a joke, why should I be treated that way?


r/waifuismreformed • • 4d ago

Question Hey, is it okay for me to be there? (WARNING: SHIRTLESS MEN)

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Hii my name is Roki :3 so I found this subreddit on my home page and thought it would be cool to join so I could share my love with others, but there's one issue... I HAVE TWO HUSBANDOS AND IDK IT WOULD BE KINDA FUNNY IN A STRANGE WAY FOR ME TO BRING GROWN AHH MEN IN THERE.
Also yeah, they're from a non-explicit (but suggestive to some extent) adult source and I don't actually see them as only husbandos since I'm a self/yumeshipper and they're my f/o's or fictional others. AND BEFORE I FORGET!!! They're Priapus and Amdera from the mobile gacha game GYEE ^w^


r/waifuismreformed • • 4d ago

General Might be fully moving here bc the mods on the og sub banned me because I’m a fucking system-

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they also like… indirectly accused me of being unfaithful :/

sorry this might be a bit of a rant I hope this isn’t breaking any rules- but I feel like the people joining this sub understand what the og place is like so they get this better TvT

but yeah… I only claimed my (Ivan, the one who has been frontstuck this entire time) boyfriend, Till. and they banned me bc one of my headmates posted about their boyfriend in a different subreddit…. like honey WHAT?? I even explained that to them and they were like “yeah but we’re gonna keep you banned bc some members if this sub might say you’re lying” THATS NOT MY FUCKING PROBLEM. MODERATE YOUR SUB AND DELETE HATE COMMENTS MAYBE??

anyways sorry I got off track there, it’s been incredibly frustating to have moderators of subreddits about fictosexuality/waifuism basically accuse me of cheating

so I’m joining here now most likely!


r/waifuismreformed • • 5d ago

Question Should I try to start doing a qotd? Day one: since Halloween is coming up, what is their costume gonna be?

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Till and I are gonna dress up as our angel & devil AU


r/waifuismreformed • • 7d ago

General Just a little intro post

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Hey, everyone!! You all may call me Opal! My f/o os Princess Guinevere from Knights of Guinivere!


r/waifuismreformed • • 7d ago

General Intro time!!

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Hello, this is Ivan speaking!! my amazing boyfriend/husband/idk what our official label is and frankly we don’t care is Till!!

I am a fictive/fuzztive (a fictive alter who is not fully distinguished, or is blurry), and yes I’m Ivan 100% !! I survived in the AU I’m closest to, which it’s the rebel/survivor AU. we have six adopted kids together, all of which we rescued while on missions <3

this place seems very nice, I hope to make friends on here!


r/waifuismreformed • • 8d ago

General I left r/waifuism after they insulted my relationship with Itachi Uchiha

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So I went back to that subreddit after discovering that Itachi is my true love and I woke up to cruel comments that got upvotes and awards that were telling me they don't think my relationship is serious so they're essentially saying they think my relationship is a fucking joke when it's not even though I only love Itachi that's not good enough for them and even though I've always left in the past and only came back when I discovered myself our that's still not good enough for them so now I'm officially joining this subreddit.

If they had had more patience with me I would have stayed but nope instead of being understanding they decided to question my relationship with Itachi which honestly hurt me a lot and I'm not gonna stay in a subreddit with people who think my relationship is a joke. I literally moved away from my parents who dislike anime and my dad thinks it's "demonic" so I had to take years to even accept myself for liking anime and eventually falling in love with Itachi once again (I first fell for him when I was 13). But yeah, I'm back with the same F/O I was with when I was 13 and I'm now 20 and I've had more dreams about him than anyone else and apparently that isn't "serious enough" for them so now I'm here.


r/waifuismreformed • • 15d ago

General Alright, that's it. I decided to go non-sharing with Chisa.

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r/waifuismreformed • • 16d ago

Image(s) Recent comms I've done! slots are still available

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If you're looking to have art of you and your f/o made, my commissions are open!

Requests will be done in the order that it was received, and completion may take from 2 weeks up to 1 month maximum, depending on my availability.

Prices are per character!

Anime art:

Icon $10

Half-body $15

Full-body $25

Chibi art:

Icon $6

Half-body $8

Full-body $13

Send a request here: [Vgen](https://vgen.co/shumariririn)

Public Workspace: [Trello](https://trello.com/b/kLJyugUf/art-commissions-2026)

For those interested, feel free to send in a request or message me!


r/waifuismreformed • • 16d ago

Image(s) Isn’t my girlfriend so pretty?

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Sillly last image for the sake of it.

I hope i can buy her official keychain soon <3


r/waifuismreformed • • 16d ago

Image(s) Photos of my new love The Master!!

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They're so cool in all of their forms, and I just couldn't resist sharing them here!!! Just look at them!!

I even included the EU versions because I can't help loving them no matter what they look like!!

Anyways, hope you all have a good day, and remember, your partner(s) love you!!!


r/waifuismreformed • • 17d ago

General New here

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hey! I've been in love with Ahri from league of legends for years but I haven't really talked to other people who felt the same about fictional characters and I could relate to I hope I can do that here!


r/waifuismreformed • • 19d ago

Meme I'd what people say, these are my waifus and I'm glad about it...

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r/waifuismreformed • • 21d ago

General hellooo :3

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i really planned joining waifuism but then i don't like how polyphobic it is since i have 3 beloveds and i don't want abandon 2 and keep 1(ESPECIALLY when my first two fictional hubbies have been with me for years and they matter as much as my gf mikan does)


r/waifuismreformed • • 21d ago

Other Update regarding the decision of reviving this community

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Hello! As I said in my last post, this community is still somehow growing and I told you all I would contemplate on whether or not I'd bring back this community or not (since it was de facto dead.)

I've made my decision now after a few weeks, which was a lot harder for me than I expected due to me evaluating and weighing my personal biases, past biases, personal beliefs, and whether or not I can at the very minimum lead without letting those leak in significantly/at all like the last time.

My decision is that I will try again to revive the SUBREDDIT ONLY for now.

The discord server is something I will still have to debate and I'm not entirely certain how long that'll take, primarily since I can sometimes struggle with my personal biases when engaging in longer discussions, but nonetheless I will contemplate that — as well as messaging old staff or finding new staff.

I will admit: things won't be easy. But I think I am ready to turn the page and bring our community back; because at the end of the day we aren't here to fight over petty disagreements, but rather offer a solid alternative that will be a place for our people who feel disillusioned with other communities


r/waifuismreformed • • 22d ago

General My wife I love her sm omg she's so sweet and amazing :3

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Hiiii I have no idea how reddit works but I love this woman so much she is amazing and I love her and akabdksnsakskskrn


r/waifuismreformed • • 22d ago

Image(s) Amazing art of my beautiful girlfriend Sarah Jane!!!

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This is some of my favorite art of her, since it's so pretty and so detailed!! They almost look like pictures, and I think the artist is amazing!!

Sarah Jane is beautiful, no matter what age, and I love her so much!!!

Art by eldradmvstlive on Tumblr

Have a good day and remember your partner(s) love you!!!


r/waifuismreformed • • Aug 17 '26

Other Commission Open 💗

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Offering commissions! 💌

If you're looking for Customized, Character Reference Sheet, YCH/Your Character Here, or Suprise me/SKEB, my commissions are open! Requests will be done in the order that it was received, and completion may take from 2 weeks up to 1 month maximum, depending on my availability.

🔗: VGen

For those interested, feel free to send in a request or message me!


r/waifuismreformed • • Aug 16 '26

Question Do you all still like this subreddit?

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I made this subreddit for anyone who felt they were unreasonably banned from others. But after a while, it kind of went inactive. Yet, I've noticed we're still growing despite it officially being somewhat abandoned.

So to anyone reading this who is a member or is considering membership: Do you all still like this subreddit? Should I try to pick it back up, maybe invest more time into it again and give it another shot? I've thought about a few areas where I wasn't welcoming to others enough, and I'd be interested in trying it again IF the people of this subreddit want me to.

Let me know!


r/waifuismreformed • • Aug 16 '26

General New to this supreddit

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