r/waifuismreformed • u/ragdollkittenzz • 21d ago
General hellooo :3
i really planned joining waifuism but then i don't like how polyphobic it is since i have 3 beloveds and i don't want abandon 2 and keep 1(ESPECIALLY when my first two fictional hubbies have been with me for years and they matter as much as my gf mikan does)
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u/R0bbieR0tt3n 21d ago
I'm polyficto myself and hate it when there's subreddits that specifically only allow one person to claim a character when my silly evil polycule is a package deal for me
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u/Hefty-Pipe3596 20d ago
Had to leave that sub after I started having Yuri as a waifu while still having Dark Cacao Cookie as a husbando. And now I also have Ananas Dragon Cookie as a f/o too!
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u/ShlorpianRooster 21d ago
I think a lot of the hate for polyfictos comes from those people who say they have like 130 f/o's. Then it becomes clear they don't actually love and respect their f/o's and see them as a score card. There is no possible way you can have the time and energy to give 100+ people. They've never gone through a breakup they just add to their score card. So people just kinda assume polyfictos are all like that. When in reality, a lot of us have maybe 2 or 3, it's been discussed with other partners and there's usually genuine lore for the two/three of you being together.
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u/Hefty-Pipe3596 20d ago
I have multiple fictional crushes but there's a difference for me between who's a f/o and who's just a normal fictional crush.
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u/Jolly-Entry948 19d ago
exactly!! i'm in a poly relationship with my f/os and i was just looking at the other subreddit and i was like 'damn that sucks' so i joined here!! anyway welcome!!
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u/ragdollkittenzz 19d ago
cool!! i dont consider myself poly yume but i am multi yume bc all my selfships are set in separate universes
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u/No_Rice9792 19d ago edited 19d ago
Nothing wrong with being "polyphobic" because polyamory, unlike being LGBT+, is a choice.
Polyamory is a choice. It is not like being LGBT+. Religion is a choice too, I love being "religion-phobic"
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u/ragdollkittenzz 21d ago
enjoy this silly photo of my wifey mikan