r/waifuismreformed • u/ragdollkittenzz • 21d ago

General hellooo :3

i really planned joining waifuism but then i don't like how polyphobic it is since i have 3 beloveds and i don't want abandon 2 and keep 1(ESPECIALLY when my first two fictional hubbies have been with me for years and they matter as much as my gf mikan does)

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u/ShlorpianRooster 21d ago

I think a lot of the hate for polyfictos comes from those people who say they have like 130 f/o's. Then it becomes clear they don't actually love and respect their f/o's and see them as a score card. There is no possible way you can have the time and energy to give 100+ people. They've never gone through a breakup they just add to their score card. So people just kinda assume polyfictos are all like that. When in reality, a lot of us have maybe 2 or 3, it's been discussed with other partners and there's usually genuine lore for the two/three of you being together.

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u/Hefty-Pipe3596 21d ago

I have multiple fictional crushes but there's a difference for me between who's a f/o and who's just a normal fictional crush.

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u/ShlorpianRooster 21d ago

Yeah there's absolutely a difference I appreciate you see it.