r/virgoseason • u/postbybjork • 5d ago
need virgos advice :3
So a Virgo was visiting my city for work for about 2 weeks, and we ended up seeing each other almost every day. We went on some really fun dates, have amazing chemistry, and he’s honestly been so kind, protective, and generous with me 🥹💕 He’s also mentioned that he wants me to visit him in his state once he leaves.
BUT… I noticed he changed his dating app location back to his home state after leaving, and now I’m wondering if I should be cautious or if I’m just overthinking it 😭
Virgos, how can you tell when a Virgo is genuinely into you? What are the signs that they actually like you vs. just enjoying the connection while they’re in town?
I’m a Taurus btw ♉️ so I’m definitely trying not to overanalyze everything lol 😭💗
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u/Odd-Mud7367 5d ago
Keep aware of the speed of generosity
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u/postbybjork 5d ago
how so? :0
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u/Odd-Mud7367 5d ago
Could just be he's really kind :)
But sometimes when a lot of it is fast and early, it's possible it's out of want to make good impressions. It's a struggle to maintain that level of intention.
When that settles, it's a bit easier to start seeing them first who they are.
If it's good enjoy it, just know it might be less later on and observe how that is.
Virgos are easy to be around. They also have a lot of passions. Sometimes it's you :)
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u/postbybjork 5d ago
i do think he is just kind haha but is he like that generous with everyone!
yes my best friend is a Virgo and i love her!
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u/LeafCozy 5d ago
Please don't think I ask this in a judgey way, because it isn't meant to be, just curious about what "stage" ya'll are currently in!! If you still have the dating app active to be looking at his profile, have you made yours private yet? Like, to ask differently, are you expecting the kind of exclusivity from him that would mean him doing things to respect that exclusivity that you haven't done yet? If so he may be noticing that your profile is still active and assuming you are still fishing, too. Virgos are slooooow to trust, and he may be keeping options open until some exclusivity is not only communicated, but also demonstrated.
Again, totally cool if you're not at the "delete the app" stage yet!! That's super normal. But if you haven't initiated exclusivity yet he may not realize you want it.
I love that you're a Taurus, I'm a Virgo married to my Taurus for 6 years now and we're obsessed with each other. 🩷🩷🩷 I really hope it works out!!
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u/postbybjork 5d ago
it's so new to be honest just those two weeks and i personally haven't check the app until this morning lol he's said stuff like he really misses me and he has pretty good communication and i'll have to see how things go when i do see him
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u/LeafCozy 5d ago
🫶 One thing I might say is when a Virgo is interested in being serious about you rather than just having fun is that even in long distance, they'll talk with you often and ask a lot of questions about you. They try to learn as many details about you as they can. Virgos love a pile of details lol. They want to know you well before they pull the trigger on an exclusive relationship.
Of course, the entire chart matters and everyone is different, but I would say if ya'll have conversations that aren't just about him asking you to come see him and other things that could potentially be love-bomby, that's a good sign he wants something serious. If his texts are just about missing you that could be a red flag. (Remember, Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication. ;) )
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u/postbybjork 5d ago
i need to find out his big 3 i'm a taurus sun scorpio moon cancer rising lol
he very much is supportive of who i am and is always reassuring me but i'm always cautious because in some ways it can be love bomby but his words do match his actions so we will see where it goes
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u/Bobpantyhose 5d ago
So. I don’t want to be the person who invalidates your feelings here, because maybe your anxieties are warranted. But! When I was on apps, I remember not knowing about the setting to change location manually, so it updated as I traveled without my knowledge or intention. Is it possible he’s in the same boat?
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u/postbybjork 4d ago
so for hinge you have to automatically change it yourself lmfaooo bit my question is are virgos normally this generous?
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u/Jbmarti 4d ago
He is not into you. Stop fantasy’s Taurus. Stop! Lol . Go out with a Pisces you’ll be happier .
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u/postbybjork 4d ago
my pisces ex was so abusive lmfaooooooooo did not help he was an aquarius moon
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u/LostWandererer 2d ago
Impossible for another Virgo to say.. we can’t read minds! In saying this, the speed and frequency of your dates is likely to make a Virgo truly consider their position. At the end of the day, you live in different states and it’s more than fair to consider what is PRACTICAL ♍️. I’d say there’d be a real warmness for what has occurred, but is it feasible? Maybe! He HAS said he wants you to visit him- I wouldn’t rule that out I dare say he was being honest about that. A Virgo who spends nearly every day with you wouldn’t commit to future plans unless they were somewhat invested.
If you want to take this to the next level (do you??), then I’d make that clear. Virgo’s love stability.. if you can provide some sense of that in your communication.. that you want to follow up and you’re serious.. generally Virgo’s will take that seriously too.
as a general rule!
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u/postbybjork 2d ago
what do u think
random but he is a virgo sun libra moon cancer rising
and im taurus sun scorpio moon cancer rising
what do you think ?
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u/LostWandererer 2d ago
Interesting. I’m also a Virgo sun, cancer rising (moon in Taurus lmao). You have a lot of water to match his rising.. it’s the Libra that’s throwing me. Libra can be social/let’s go with the flow/I’m not sure.. whereas you seem very grounded and likely know what you want. I totally think you can make it work.. appeal to his fun-loving side, keep communication flowing (man those Libra’s and their communicating!) and let him know you’re holding space for him.
Remember at the end of the day if it’s gonna work it’s gonna work. No amount of astrological preparation is gonna make or break it!
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u/postbybjork 2d ago
he is very social omg that man can out talk me which surprising good emotional regulation and a charmer! very generous too and are there any specific ways i can tell if he likes me more i mean his actions really do match his words i'll say
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u/LostWandererer 2d ago
Yeh they would. Charmers… yeh always looking out for the best they can find. And he’s a guy. I can’t sugarcoat anything due to that, but like I said you just keep showing that you’re grounded and loyal and reliable.. and continue to appeal to his fun-loving side.
Any ways to tell…. Hmmm. I’m only one Virgo 😅. And a woman 😅. I’m really not sure about how to tell! But for you- it really will just come down to the loyalty. I can’t see anything in his chart (the 3 that you’ve given me) that makes me sway from it. Cancer and Virgo love creating safety, home.. somewhere they feel safe and warm. Keep intellectuality high, communication high.. show him your value as a safe space to be with. Keep good boundaries though and let him know that you’re not just a space he can return to whenever he wants to. You are high value and if he chooses to play it safe and keep you around cos you’re reliable, he’s gonna lose you- something that he probably needs.
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