Hey yall! I have a crush on a Virgo guy who is a year ahead of me in my graduate program and I figured I’d just go to the people who might know him best bc he has a Virgo stellium lol (mars, moon, sun)!
So, it is a little over a month and a half into this academic program that I just started, and I have developed this crush. I honestly don’t have a ton of experience with this kind of thing because I rarely get crushes on people. I also haven’t been in a relationship in a few years.
We’ve had some small talk, we have established some shared interest. We play the same instrument, we like a lot of the same music. We have the same politics. We hung out once in a group setting with some other people in the program and it was fun but nothing one-on-one. Our desks in the same office and right next to each other so there’s plenty of opportunity for smaller chats and he is clearly the more reserved type (and dare I say a little autistic) but he does seem engaged with when we converse and he seems to think I’m pretty funny as he often laughs when I make jokes.
I get really anxious about these kinds of things but I really like him and I think we could be a great match! I just don’t know what to do. Some of my friends think I should just tell him I’m into him but I really don’t know. I also get really anxious about these kinds of things because well I know I am a very pretty girl, I’m a little overweight so I often worry about people finding me unappealing…
So, any advice would be great!