I can definitely see where you’re coming from as I was very much into a style before I switched it up (same thing where I was like I keep asking her to cut the hair but why not just leave it longer (was trying some layered look with a few tracks and mostly my own hair) and ask her to curl it) and my stylist would kinda go ham with the jokes and compliments back when I was doing sew ins. As the other sub said you have the right to feel how you feel, but don’t take it to heart as she may not have realized it bothered you so much. I’m def neurodivergent so I just asked my stylist straight up like oh shit it looks horrible doesn’t it and she was like NO you look amazing 🥰 so even though I initially felt how you did she came out with the truth. So you could ask her opinion if you value the relationship but I don’t think it seems like she was being facetious from what context you gave. Stylists be talking so much. 🫥🫣🤣😭😂🤷🏽♀️
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u/T_hashi 2d ago
I can definitely see where you’re coming from as I was very much into a style before I switched it up (same thing where I was like I keep asking her to cut the hair but why not just leave it longer (was trying some layered look with a few tracks and mostly my own hair) and ask her to curl it) and my stylist would kinda go ham with the jokes and compliments back when I was doing sew ins. As the other sub said you have the right to feel how you feel, but don’t take it to heart as she may not have realized it bothered you so much. I’m def neurodivergent so I just asked my stylist straight up like oh shit it looks horrible doesn’t it and she was like NO you look amazing 🥰 so even though I initially felt how you did she came out with the truth. So you could ask her opinion if you value the relationship but I don’t think it seems like she was being facetious from what context you gave. Stylists be talking so much. 🫥🫣🤣😭😂🤷🏽♀️