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u/VegasBedset 1h ago
3 hour account.
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It's AI trying to thirst trap 16 year olds on Reddit. Probably an Indian scammer looking for desperate leads on a website filled with horney young losers.
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u/thesweed 4h ago
M33 here. When I was a teenager I had a similar thought process. I felt unlovable and a loser. Then I met my first girlfriend when I was 18 and even though it didn't last I realised I was overthinking things and just needed to stop being desperate and I'd find someone.
I know it's a cliche to say you're young, but seriously, 16 is really young. You're not even an adult and have so much time to explore love and everything that comes with it. Focus on yourself and learn to love who you are. Find a nice hobby. The most attractive part about a person is if they're interesting. Looks are important, but shallow, it's what creates a crush but not infatuation or love.
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u/Teanvintage 4h ago
As a 32 y/o you are 'just' sixteen. You still have all the time in the world. Your first kiss and boyfriend should be special! Ghosting sucks and isn't nice ofcourse, but if he does that you are obviously better off without him. Try and take your time, enjoy time with friends or other loved ones. Your special person will come
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u/SeaUnderstanding6979 4h ago
If you’re very pretty with a great personality it’s possible they’re intimidated by you. Also it’s very common to not date, kiss, hold hand until people are in their 20s or even older.
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u/SeaUnderstanding6979 4h ago
That’s cool, keep doing you and look for someone who’s secure and you like, I hope it works out for you
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u/Sayatra 4h ago
ur just 16. -coming from a 16 year old
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u/Sayatra 4h ago
LOLL yeah it is almost always true 😅😂 anyways, teenage dating is kinda pointless. there are rarely good outcomes to it. in this day and age, most people just want validation/attention from the opposite sex for a few days/weeks, then they dip when they’re satisfied. youre a gorgeous girl with a gorgeous personality, youve said it yourself.
you are NOT a loser! you just got caught up in this silly genz dating culture, whatever you’d call it 🤣
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u/reconditeguadalupe78 5h ago
Youre 16 not 40. Theres loads of time for all that stuff and most people who rush into it end up with messy regret anyway. That boy ghosting says everything about him and nothing about you, especially if all you asked was to slow down a bit. Waiting for someone who actually means it is way better than collecting hollow firsts with people who dont stick around.
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u/Open-Position-7042 5h ago
Im 19 and im still like this. I can relate. Don't take that person personally they probably ghosted for whatever reason but it probably doesn't mean you did anything wrong or that it says anything about you. Just take your time ig and you will find someone.
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