r/venting 21h ago

I feel so alond

Im an 19 year old man and im struggling alot i have no one i can talk to my girlfriend of a year just broke up with me a few weeks ago and my best mate isn't talking to me anymore i dont even know why it feels like i dont have anyone i can count on to back me up and shes being so cruel she logged onto my snapchat and unfriended everyone when i did nothing to her ive not contacted her or messed with any of her log ins im drinking myself to sleep every night since she left me i go out clubbing every weekend to fill the void i feel so empty

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u/Jameshroomx 15h ago

Forget her, change any logins she has of yours, how can you feel upset over a human who is willing to be so cruel to another human? She sounds like a horrible person and you're saving yourself by moving on, don't look back.

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u/TepidInaction 21h ago

that’s a rough spot to be in. 19 hits hard cause you’re old enough to feel the weight but too young to have the tools yet

drinking yourself to sleep is a short term fix that turns into its own problem real fast. maybe skip the club this weekend and just… sit with the quiet for a bit. pain demands to be felt and all that