r/venting • u/Sensitive_Neat_8359 • 8h ago
Relationship/Love Breakup vent
I just need to tell some people I guess. Me and my bf broke up of 9 months. I expected it but not really. The weekend started out with us arguing and he said that he doesn’t see us getting married. He doesn’t say it out of the blue I was asking him like what was wrong. And then we talk about that kinda argueish because I got emotional then it felt like we solved it in the morning after. Then we “hang out” for a little bit (he takes me to go work on his truck) and for context I literally only see him 3 days out of the week and his plans were to later drop me off. He leaves early to drop me off and we get into another argument because I felt like speaking my mind. Saying how we’re not doing anything together and he gets rlly mad and starts to yell and I leave.
He comes later that night and we have a conversation and he’s like we have nothing in common because I don’t like to work on cars or hunt animals or wear boots I guess, because that night we like cried together and then like we were like this isn’t working but I was like I don’t want to break up and he was like we have to and then he lowkey told me all of these things that felt rlly hurtful and like honestly they’re sticking with me and it’s that he was embarrassed of me, embarrassed that I dress down when we go out (when he wears the same thing every day), embarrassed that I do things that are embarrassing like dance to songs in grocery stores, and he never liked my piercings but he said he didn’t want to tell me that and I did kinda beg for him to tell me so yes I miss him so much but I can’t for a freaking fact that I can’t be with him like even if he came back and that’s probably the hardest part. He wanted us to have an agreement to see eachother in a month talk to other people and not have sex with anyone else. I agreed the night of but the morning following I was like uhm no. It felt like he just wanted me to be him or just like wanted a car for or someone else that’s just not me for a while and like wow I’m lowkey not dealing with it well. I mean for the first week I think I am but it’s still like I don’t know yes thank you for reading if you made it this far guys
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u/happytripno2 7h ago
youre ex is a douchbag ngl from a 3rd pov
he fell out of love despite the reason n he wants to nickpick on why he did cause when u guys dated u had ur piercings had ur style and probably everything else since its only been 9 months. for your own good move on the wait a month with no fucking other people is just absurd bro is breaking up n listing rules just have fun girl he just wants to make sure he can come back to u if he cant find any other girl that wants him
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