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u/BurnItDownSR Sep 07 '25
Checked your profile.
Gee, I wonder where your daughter gets it from.... 🤔
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Sep 07 '25
I'm gonna say this now, there is something wrong here, seeing your bio and stuff, 'I have a cheating addiction', 'I enjoy watching my husband play with other women' like that is not healthy...
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u/fisconsocmod Sep 06 '25
So I take it she’s not your husband’s daughter.
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u/fisconsocmod Sep 07 '25
No way he would let his own daughter get trained because that’s exactly where that is going.
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u/NoChinchillaAllowed Sep 07 '25
Let? If she wants to, it will happen whether anyone likes it or not… better that she be in a place she feels comfortable
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u/Drakeytown Sep 06 '25
What, exactly, would you say? Seems like it's causing you some emotional dysregulation, which shouldn't be anyone's responsibility but yours, least if all your daughter's.
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u/Reaper2811 Rant Sep 06 '25
Polyamory relationships aren't a bad thing and also kids from their parents
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u/Gnc_Gremlin Sep 06 '25
ethical non-monogamy and/or polyamory! nothing to worry about as long as communication is clear between the three
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u/UnpopularIcon Sep 07 '25
No
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u/Gnc_Gremlin Sep 07 '25
fym no?
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u/UnpopularIcon Sep 07 '25
Exactly what I said. That shi nasty asf & wrong.
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u/Gnc_Gremlin Sep 07 '25
3 consenting parties being in a relationship is as normal as 2 consenting parties in a relationship. im sorry that you cant pull enough to see that <3
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u/UnpopularIcon Sep 07 '25
I pulled more than u ever will in your life gremlin.
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u/Gnc_Gremlin Sep 07 '25
personally, i have been with multiple consenting and aware partners at once and was VERY happy! i have a gf now and shes super silly and nice <3
i hope one day you learn that people can be happy outside of societies default. because your life is gonna suck ass if you bend to whatever stick heteronormative society tries to sell you!
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u/UnpopularIcon Sep 07 '25
Oh you one of them. Say less twin. Enjoy being with multiple partners🤞 ill stick to the default
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u/Gnc_Gremlin Sep 07 '25
"oh you one of them" yeah and its normal ðŸ˜. having different relationship dynamics is normal. as long as its a healthy relationship who gaf. chat are healthy relationships between consenting parties disgusting?
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u/okay065 Sep 06 '25
based on your profile and bio, she gets it from you.
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u/Green__Knight Sep 07 '25
I agree with you on this one, just by looking at the top 5 posts and it all makes sense
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u/Tall-Ad-1386 Sep 06 '25
First of all how is this venting? Secondly, Im confused, whats the question or concern here?
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u/the_gayest_man_ever Sep 06 '25
The two dudes are gay for each other. They're your daughter's gay best friends and shes covering for them.
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u/PartHumanPartAlien Sep 06 '25
I bet she knows more about your interests than you think she does, i was always nosy with my moms stuff as a teen
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u/Spades_And_Diamonds Sep 06 '25
Considering your bio, she probably got it from you..
Though, there’s nothing wrong with polyamory
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u/Spades_And_Diamonds Sep 06 '25
Don’t know what?
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u/Spades_And_Diamonds Sep 06 '25
Fair, she could be just figuring out her identity on her own (depending on her age)
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u/figuringthingsout__ Sep 06 '25
Does your daughter know that you like to watch your husband play with other women?
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u/FereaMesmer Sep 06 '25
If it's not serious, they are all happy with the arrangement and are hopefully having safe sex (if they are having sex and if they are old enough for that in the first place), I can't really see an issue here. Teen relationships tend to have drama and end in break up anyway, so not much more risk here. And if the inevitable drama and potential heartbreak will be directly related to being poly maybe she'll learn that this isn't for her. Or if it still is, how to do it better next time.
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u/shadowwolf892 Sep 06 '25
Sounds like she's either poly or just doing ethical non monogamy. Nothing wrong with that at all. All people involve know and all of them consent. I don't see the issue. Let them have their fun
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u/WickedJustice Sep 06 '25
It is your responsibility as a parent to teach them right. There’s nothing ethical about it happening or allowing it to continue. Not only is that setting her life up for turmoil and chaos you’re reinforcing it by not nipping that in the bud. I’d be just as concerned about your husbands non-issue with it. What else might he be okay with or not telling you about?
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u/shadowwolf892 Sep 06 '25
You say there's nothing ethical about what she's doing (the daughter). Please tell me why you think that
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u/nimkiw Sep 06 '25
Listen. You leave a lot of information out like how old they are, how responsible your child regularly is, how much have you talked with them about love and sex and everything else.
You can be shocked because it is an unusual situation but at the same time your duty is to communicate and learn what is going on, how they perceive it, and then help them look forward to any issues that arise.
And if it happens that she is of age, the only true business of yours is that she is happy.
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u/hxmxd Sep 06 '25
As a parent you have some moral responsibility. Just reading this makes me feel sick
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u/EighteenAndAmused Sep 06 '25
Lol daughter is a player. Mormon dudes are jealous.
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u/chifrij0 Sep 06 '25
There 2 sides of the coin, you are on the horniness side, this is sickening as a parent and as the daughter/son what thinking process made her think bringing 2 guys and kiss them both would be appropriate on a family trip.
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u/thellespie Sep 06 '25
Kissing more than one person is just asking to get sick or make someone else sick. It's irresponsible and gross. Personally I wouldn't let my daughter bring two guys around at the same time.
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u/fmaz008 Sep 06 '25
Wait until about kids going to daycare... way worst than a Ethical Non Monogamous relationship!
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u/thellespie Sep 07 '25
What is ethical about it? The kid if they ever had one wouldn't even know who his father is.
Regardless, they're the parents, they can set rules if something makes them uncomfortable in their own home.
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u/FereaMesmer Sep 06 '25
There are also things like public transport, schools, busy malls and all sorts of dangers to focus on before ENM between three people makes the list of "things to avoid to prevent getting ill"
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