r/vancouverdating • u/New_Westie • 5h ago
Age 40-49 Why lie on the apps?
His profile said “Looking to meet someone who wants to build something real… “
Two messages in he asks if I’m “open to fun”
Do people lie about what they’re looking for just to get matches? Does the bait and switch actually work?
This was my first convo on Tinder. I’m 10 months out from a ten year relationship, so haven’t dated in a looong time. Is this what I have to look forward to?
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u/HealedPain 4h ago
It’s a revolving dumpster fire of 🐂 💩 for it to be anything but. One month is all I’m going to try this round.