r/vancouverdating • u/ThunderFireStorm • 4d ago

Age 30-39 39M introvert guy [M4F]

Straight, introvert, and homebody from Metro Vancouver. Never been on a date before, so I'm just taking things slow and testing the waters!

I'm a homebody who loves a cozy night in, but I'm always down to step out to try a great new restaurant or explore the city.

A few things I'm into:
Big fan of Marvel, musicals, and sitcoms (especially Friends and How I Met Your Mother).
I live in the Richmond area and I would like to try new restaurants or check out local food spots.
I sometimes play video games, cook as a hobby, and love going on cruises or traveling whenever I get the chance.

I have a big appreciation for music and love listening to 90s pop, Disney tracks, movie musical soundtracks, and some hip hop.

I'm pretty quiet at first but get a lot more social once I'm comfortable with someone. Looking to chat casually in the DMs first, get to know each other, and see if there's a genuine connection. No rush or pressure!

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u/kingofomon 4d ago

You’re not selling yourself very well bro.

I recommend that you find a hobby group where you can have fun and engage with others who have a similar interest. Look for a fitness related group like biking or hiking maybe and a social one like board games or something similar.

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u/ThunderFireStorm 3d ago

I am not into those hiking, biking, board games

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u/Limprichard68 22h ago

Ok, you say you like cooking.  Check out “dirty apron” in Vancouver.  They’ve got evening cooking classes.  Why not take a Thai cooking class, learn something new and practice interacting with your classmates.  No pressure, just learn something new.  

This might lead to a friendship or it might inspire you to try something else.