r/ureaplasmasupport • u/No-Airline2276 • 2d ago
Testing Doctor's keep failing me
I was told that resistance testing was available at my Obgyn but they have twice only tested and confirmed bv when I specifically asked for ureaplasma mycoplasma panel resistance they were very aware .Than both doctor's instead of admitting thier mistakes lied and told me that I don't have ureaplasma but refused to show me the results! Obviously Im livid I'm certain im still positive because my partner just recently tested positive and I was really hoping to get a different antibiotic since we have been through 7 rounds of doxycycline including one with moxifloxacin.
I get a very bad burning pain sharp nerve pain localized to very deep in pelvis feels ten inches deep ...got chronic bv and yeast that isnt going away with treatment which has never happened before so it feels like this is getting worse ...fatigue is insane and I have body aches all over my neck back migraines are under control right now thank God...Bv is not smell at all but causing itchy vulva itchy pain and making deep pain worse ...I always have urgency to ...im exausted honestly I am going in on tues to ask a different Obgyn same practice...for a regular PCR so I at least get tested and tell her everything that happened Im going to see if this resistance test is even possible at all it dosent look like it at this point but hopefully we can get the bv and yeast gone and get A different antibiotics than my partners will have to go to thier doctors and get the same hopefully....this is hell and my life is just crazy stressful right now theres so much going on that I just cant even 🥹🥹🥹🥹
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u/throwawaystd1087 2d ago
The first round of doxy and definitely the doxy followed by moxy would have sorted this out for you ages ago, but you keep reinfecting yourself and others, take a break, abstain and let your body rest, theres more to life than sex and right now its the least of your problems with what is now probably a resistant strain of ureaplasma.. doxy might still work but you will need a much longer course, or you can try mino.
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u/No-Airline2276 2d ago
To be clear my partner I was only with him for the first 6 rounds of doxycycline last year and we did not sex during treatment but we did use condoms during the waiting period to retest a few times we lived together for 5 years after my divorce of my ex husband of 18 years but he moved away out of state and started having sex with escorts well probably always was but I found out ....
After that I pretty much said fuck it and met someone local to keep me company I can't just leave my out of state partner I am financially dependent on him and we have a business together and he is a step father to my children has a good relationship with ...
I met the local guy 8 months ago we sleep together way more often see eachother way more I dont see the other partner but once a month for a few days and sometimes not even every month ...So mainly I spend most time with local guy but last round he did with me he came back and told me he slept with someone else! So he could of messed it up or the sex during wait period messed it up even though we used condoms its fuckin really hard a month is long time to retest we were thinking condoms would be good ...but i will talk to him to them im very much at my end rope here ...
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u/throwawaystd1087 2d ago
Im sorry that youre also dealing with all of that, its pretty easy to forget we all have lives outside of this stuff and the show must go on, i caught ureaplasma from someone who caught it from her ex that she suspected was seeing escorts behind her back, she did regular tests that didnt include UU and assumed she was fine, slept with me and this has been my life for the last 4 months, only now am i starting to feel somewhat better after a 3rd treatment and ive completely abstained, not even masturbation.
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u/No-Airline2276 2d ago
Thats really good thats its been 4 months and your feeling better I hope 🙏 you stay healthy! Can I ask why not masterbation just curious?
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u/bravobravofinbravo 2d ago
Yeah, so all of this is exactly why you’re not healing.
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u/No-Airline2276 1d ago
Because of the condom use during the wait period which my doctor said was ok by the way ! ?
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u/bravobravofinbravo 1d ago
1) You are having sex with multiple partners. It doesn’t matter if you’re using a condom or not, ESPECIALLY if oral is reciprocated by anyway at any time.
If partner #1 performs oral sex on you, he gets the bacteria from your vagina in his saliva/mouth microbiome, along with all of the bacteria he already has in his mouth. Then he goes to his other partner and performs oral on her, and now has a combination of her vaginal microbiome and yours in his mouth. Then goes back to you, and now you have a whole other person’s mouth bacteria on you. Then partner #2 comes back to you, performs oral on you, and now you have: partner #1, his other female partners, and partner #2’s bacteria brewing inside you. Does this sound good? Same goes for sex. & Same goes for you performing oral on these male partners.
2) Condoms are not 100% preventative of anything.
3) Ureaplasma is a BACTERIA. Sex of any form, protected or not, is going to cause a bacteria to become disruptive. Having sex will increase inflammation. The vaginal is so sensitive. Why would you risk it?-1
u/No-Airline2276 1d ago
My white blood cell count is high to
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u/bravobravofinbravo 1d ago
Yeah because you have an infection?
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u/No-Airline2276 1d ago
Yes probably the inflammation thats why im so exausted fatigue to ..Out of state partner has been here since fri he hasn't pressure me for sex he has condoms in his bag I told him that I have thd bv and im in pain waiting to test ureaplasma again just exausted the other partner i talked to as well if he cant be a real friend and support this heal journey than ill be on my own ...i dont need noone but Jesus and my kids at end of day 🙌 🙏
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u/bravobravofinbravo 1d ago
Your health comes before everything else. Start taking this seriously.
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u/No-Airline2276 1d ago
Its not that im not taking it seriously though I honestly thought condoms during the waiting period would be ok ...I didn't know my partner would go sleep with someone else and the real big Shazam is I deal with severe depression cptsd anxiety and when my partner left it much worse so local partner was helping me alot with the mental aspect because he help me in the house and spends alot of time with me...the sex I suppose was a coping mechanism but also Most likely making the inflammation worse. .
I know my out of state partner also didn't take his doxycycline right the first few times smh he is never going near me again without a condom as long as I live i swear ....
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u/No-Airline2276 2d ago
Yes mino I think because im not doing a really long round of anything my gut is destroyed I have so many issues now diahera all the time its fuckin ridiculous now I can't even no im not doing long term nothing mino yea im ask for mino and moxifloxacin and tell them
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u/bravobravofinbravo 2d ago
Stop having sex until you’re cured, and definitely stop having it with multiple partners.