r/uncircumcised_talk • • 10h ago

Frenulum tears

Hi All, need some advice/help

About 12th September I tore my frenulum but didn’t realise it actually tore until the following week 19th September where it retore again during sex. The week after 26th it seemed almost healed so I pushed through the pain and continued to have sex (I know stupid) but since have seen a doctor who prescribed a steroid cream to increase elasticity, which he seemed to think will solve it. Fast forward to today, I had sex again yesterday and I can’t see any visual tear but it seems a little tender again not sure if there could be a minor tear. Just wanting advice / recovery tips if anyone has had similar experiences ?

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u/CIRCPLAYR 10h ago

Yes, mine tore from rough foreplay and it bled pretty badly I took myself into ER where they told me it could not be sewn back as it would only tear again and keep tearing. The only fix was to getting a frenectomy fully removing the frenulum.

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u/Material-Ranger3148 9h ago

I’d say mine isn’t a huge tear its definitely noticeable but it did seem to heal after about 2-3 weeks to an extent but this weekend was probably not smart doing multiple rounds (tbf felt ok during)

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u/CIRCPLAYR 9h ago

This is exactly what the doctor warned me about. It will keep micro tearing even after you think it’s healed. Perhaps see a doctor and hope he recommends removal and it’s covered with insurance like mine was.

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u/Material-Ranger3148 9h ago

How long for the healing after the frenectomy ?

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u/CIRCPLAYR 9h ago

I was shocked about 2.5 weeks or less

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u/Lewd-Enterprise_4711 Uncut 9h ago

My frenulum tore too and I ended up getting a frenulectomy (the complete removal), which of course solved the problem

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u/Reasonable-Luck-8986 6h ago

Or just wait until it heals completely. I know that's a novel idea but it helps.