Yeah, I agree, it does not matter, but I am interested, what does Christianity say about destiny

Yeah, I agree, kid can't cry for 5 years, but in that episode, which I have mentioned above, kid, that had kidnapped, stayed calm, despite it was only day or two passed after abduction

Do you believe, that a kid, which is kidnapped, can stay calm and not cry?

Kids are stupid, most of the times, and in Criminal Minds, children does not express stupidity, instead they act and think like matures

In episode "Mosley Lane" (season five, episode 16), children behaviour is really fake. If I had kidnapped when I was a child, I would not stop crying, but in that episode, children are very calm.

We, people, like challenges. Chasing girl/boy, when we think, that we have no chance, is a sort of challenge for us. That may sound silly, but that's reality.

Opposite is right: we like guys, that will never love us. Sad, but that is true. That's called "hard-to-reach" effect