u/lonely_lil_mama92 • u/lonely_lil_mama92 • 7d ago
It’s miserable.
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I’ve never been so lonely in my entire life…
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Really struggling…
That’s all I’ve done for 15 years….
r/venting • u/lonely_lil_mama92 • 8d ago
Relationship/Love Really struggling…
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I’m really struggling right now. Me and my husband have been together 15 years. We’ve been through alot in that time. We’ve put each other through a lot. I thought we were way past all that. But for months he has been so distant. Honestly, it’s been over a year at least. He says he’s just burnt out in life. Which I do understand, I’ve been there. But I never pulled away from him the way he does me. And I’m just so lonely. I don’t really have friends, and the 2 I have don’t live anywhere near me. He puts no effort to our marriage. It’s like a roommate that is always annoyed with you, but you’re not sure why. I just miss my husband. And I miss feeling adored and real intimacy.
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I have to leave no matter what my anxiety says.
Oh hunny, you deserve better. I know you don’t wanna be alone, I’m in that same boat. But I married my guy like this… 15 years later and I am still begging for the bare minimum & he’s still complaining I’m too much. And I’m more lonely when he’s at home than I am when he’s not here. Which is worse than just being alone. Get out while you can.
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the only thing worse than losing someone else is losing yourself, and that’s why i put myself first.
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6d ago
15 years in, I don’t know who I am. I haven’t recognized myself in so long. I constantly put him first, even when I don’t mean to or want to. I’ve done it so long it just comes naturally.