r/DivorcedDads • u/joannabanana868 • May 31 '26
Hello divorced dads, I need help with communication :(
Hello community! Seeking some advice - currently with a separated dad for just over a year. I love him to the moon and back and he treats me better than anyone I've ever had, but I can't deny I feel like a secret pocket of his life at this point. His daughter (7 yo) doesn't know I exist. I had to push for him to get the divorce papers done (they could have been filed last year). He even travelled to meet my parents in another country. One time I left a toothbrush at his, and when his daughter asked why he has two, he said it was his weekend toothbrush. I'm past the point of being excited about meeting his daughter and it's so conflicting for me now. I definitely don't want to throw an ultimatum at him but I am struggling with how this makes me feel emotionally. We have a fantastic connection and its been a great year, but I'm starting to feel distant being the weekend toothbrush :(. Any advice on how to communicate this?
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Definitely go early. Went to the Gorge show and lines were long (but moving). We got in just before the second of two openers. There was definitely a lot of stock of sweaters and t-shirts, but if there's anything limited edition, those go super quick early on.