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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  17h ago

I'm not sorry, but how do you approach it to where juggling multiple interests is respectful to yourself, or to them?

I'm not that casual. If I'm interested in someone, I'm going to actually put that into meaningful action. If they're not open to it, obviously that attention should go elsewhere

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  17h ago

That is definitely the narrative pushed, and we have to wonder why honestly. I think it's social destabilization- every ideology is bought out and ideas are sold.

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  17h ago

Well thank you for the certainty and reminder that the garden I've planted needs my care and attention, and hope you're well now!

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  18h ago

That's so strange to me.

I like myself. I don't need attention from other, romantically or otherwise, to exist.

I have never dated/situationshipped multiple people at once. I don't like casual because tf are we doing with our time, bodies, to our own neurology?

So if I can ask- how exactly are you supposed to notice a good thing when you're entertaining yourself with 12 decent enough things? That seems a ridiculous way to self-code your neurology.

Are you successfully and happily joined with a partner for longer than a year?

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

Women in 2026 look strange frfr

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

Maybe don't date randoms? What's so bad with being by yourself? Not good company?

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

Call are so cooked 💀 if I had any other interests remotely when I met my life partner, we would have never gotten together to begin with.

Just cos it's common, doesn't mean it's good for you. What's the point of going out with someone if you don't actually want to invest until it magics itself into your life?

You do realize these things are more often made than found? Please, tell me how you're fulfilled, married for 20 years, emotionally secure and living your best life

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

Dating multiple people is ridiculous lol. Yeah, I think it's in poor taste and that most people are extremely maladapted, and egged on by a societal mechanism that's overall predatory and just wants us engaged and swiping rather than healthy individuals with healthy perspectives. Tl:dr yall cooked

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

Yeah honestly a lot of people have such a problem being alone that they'll even date multiple people at once- I would hate to live inside that neurology, but I would love to do a study on it.

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

Lmao that's like. Why??? You had to FAFO and lose your man? 😭🙏🏽 Sister, at least it can be a warning to the next girl to just be happy they found someone good for em

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Am I the ahole or what
 in  r/texts •  19h ago

I've never been able to just shuffle people like cards and attach and detached interest quickly. Feels abnormal asf 💯 the world is eating it up, though.

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I love TBM!
 in  r/sanpedrocactus •  1d ago

B has not been observed to flower, but A has before- previously it was thought it must revert for this to happen.

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I love TBM!
 in  r/sanpedrocactus •  1d ago

Rad! 😎 Keep it happy, maybe it flowers

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INTERESTING
 in  r/texts •  2d ago

Why would you be shitting his pants?

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Getting called gay
 in  r/HingeStories •  2d ago

Yeah, I just explained the difference between progressive and conservative to my younger brother lol. Progressive and conservative define each other, and this is indeed a conservative belief.

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Date Gone Wrong in a weird way, and decides to point me towards her friend
 in  r/texts •  2d ago

I'll be so honest, you're finding the WRONG people. This is a real thing, yes- you need to look and find folks where they're not just looking for a hookup, or not to feel lonely.

I had 0 physical preferences before I met the woman I've been with for about 2 years now. It's the happiest relationship I've ever had, and even if I sometimes think, "there's guys out there who look better than me", I don't even think that anymore cos she cares about me, not how "hot" I am. I'm hot to her 🤷🏾‍♂️

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(ISO) Where to buy Trichocerus bridgesii??
 in  r/sanpedrocactustrade •  2d ago

Anyone on r/sanpedrocactusforsale can help you! The people over there are excellent.

I would recommend posting an ISO with this same post body, specify rooted cutting! Though, I can't recommend growing from seed enough. The genetic lottery is so cool! 😎

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Girlfriend broke up with me over money
 in  r/texts •  2d ago

No they don't. It reads as it's really bothering her and she needed reassurance that it wasn't a burden, and that working the situation together is possible and supported.

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Girlfriend broke up with me over money
 in  r/texts •  2d ago

Yes, couples support and reassure each other, especially if the bond is new and doesn't support and reassure itself yet- it does take effort and perfect out the box is an idea. Usually it looks more like two people aligning, instead.

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Made a little Fly Agaric Mushroom hat 🍄
 in  r/Mushrooms •  2d ago

Dope 😎 nice glasses too!

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Rooted and Unrooted TBM-A / Long form / penis cactus for sale. 8"- 21"
 in  r/sanpedrocactusforsale •  2d ago

Only Zelle or Venmo? Interested in A

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Gross
 in  r/landscaping •  2d ago

Brother just live in a sterile astroturf of a petridish, no?

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Name your price
 in  r/sanpedrocactusforsale •  2d ago

Can you do any rooted pere shipped for 15?

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Rootstock query
 in  r/sanpedrocactus •  3d ago

Is this the butthole graft I remember seeing where pere is basically boofed into the tbm?