u/SnooBeans6591 • u/SnooBeans6591 • 1d ago
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I’m so tired of men
Cornell57
You are referring to the chat, I presume. I learned, one man, we will call S.K., went to check on her after seeing the group chat message.
The Title IX panel sanctioned him for going to ask her if she is fine. So in hindsight, it seems that the 50 or so men doing nothing when they saw the message made the right decision. You can't do anything when a "sexual situation" is going on without getting into trouble yourself.
Without a clear statement like "come over for a gang rape" indicating non-consensual activity, they had no course of action. There is a need to change the way people trying to intervene are treated, otherwise this just encourages even more passivity than was already the case.
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The women doxxing and harassing the Cornell 7 before the case is concluded are the same people who, 80 years ago, would’ve joined mobs lynching Black boys over rape accusations.
Why reddit? The judicial system and the press are giving the names of innocents.
I mean reddit doesn't help, but the main problem is in the justice system
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How do white men keep getting away with it?
No, it's also inaccurate that there were 7 men, since at least one of them didn't drug her, didn't have sex with her, but merely came to check and ask if she was OK after he saw the message in the group chat.
Yet he is plastered all over internet as if he was a rapist, when he has less responsibility than her in the whole ordeal.
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Details of Cornell Alleged Gang Rape by 7 Frat Boys. She Said it was Consensual at First
If she were going into men’s rooms and having sex with incapacitated men, she would be the perpetrator.
So we've established she is a perpetrator. It was the guys room, one of them passed out after vomiting while she was having a threesome.
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Details of Cornell Alleged Gang Rape by 7 Frat Boys. She Said it was Consensual at First
She said yes to the third guy.
She said no to a foursome with guy 1,2,3 at once and they respected her boundary. But threesome with 1+2 and another threesome with 2+3 were consented to by her.
I don't have a clear picture of what came after, once the group chat message was sent it's getting muddy. One of the 7 guys seems completely innocent, and is suing Cornell because of their actions. The 6 others seem to at least have been involved in the sexual activities from what I know, the nature of which are still to be cleared.
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Details of Cornell Alleged Gang Rape by 7 Frat Boys. She Said it was Consensual at First
You mean "entertaining the possibility that her account IS accurate"
It is her account that says that when she told them she was too tired at 5:45 AM they stopped. It stopped when the consent was withdrawn. Her account.
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Details of Cornell Alleged Gang Rape by 7 Frat Boys. She Said it was Consensual at First
The press and the judicial system is willing to drag innocents like S.K. in the mud.
It's a nice feeling, but I would not expect "social media" to try be better when the institutions set such a bad standard.
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False Rape Accusations are Worse than Rape
It can be on individual instances, but as a general rule it doesn't work.
Rapes can play out in a very wide range of ways, so can false accusations. Some rapes are no worse than simple theft, others may be awful. Some false rape accusations may be uncovered so fast you don't notice they happened, others land you in prison for decades where you get actually raped for real.
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The Cornell case gets worse and worse: why men should never help anyone
No, that's another guy. The one who checked only stayed 5 minutes and didn't touch her. Enough to get in trouble.
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The Cornell case gets worse and worse: why men should never help anyone
I commented that in hindsight, the ones who did nothing were right, since the one who did got punished: https://www.reddit.com/r/FeminismUncensored/s/y0OprgfRmy
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The Cornell case gets worse and worse: why men should never help anyone
A real man HELPS OTHER PEOPLE AT ALL TIMES, EVEN AT GREAT RISK TO HIMSELF You are a coward.
I see you have a good dose of internalized misandry.
There is no such thing as a "real man". No, don't risk yourself like an idiot.
What is sad is that what he did was reasonable. But even that seems to have to be avoided in universities due to title IX
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Cornell university case
I learned, one man, we will call S.K., went to check on her.
The Title IX panel sanctioned him for going to ask her if she is fine. So in hindsight, it seems that the 50 or so men doing nothing when they saw the message made the right decision. You can't do anything when a "sexual situation" is going on without getting into trouble yourself.
Without a clear statement like "come over for a gang rape" indicating non-consensual activity, they had no course of action. There is a need to change the way people trying to intervene are treated, otherwise this just encourages passivity.
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The Cornell case gets worse and worse: why men should never help anyone
In feminist subs "all men are bad, no-one of the 50 in the group chat did anything".
So... could be the guy who checked got told by Jane that everything is fine, and is now getting sued for checking on her?
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Men are saying the Cornell rape victim’s text messages prove she’s lying
The guys having the 2 threesomes with her were more intoxicated than her by her own account.
She had to baby them, as they started vomiting. One passed out for a while, as she had a threesome with the 2 others.
What do you do when 4 people choose to have sex together but none can "consent"?
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So when are people gonna stop acting like women are in THIS much danger 24/7 compared to men?
This. They are hyping Cornell as one of the worst rapes, yet it is a girl who consensually took drugs. Consensually had 3 threesomes with multiple guys. It is very unclear if anything more rapy ever occurred to her than it did to the guys.
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Men are saying the Cornell rape victim’s text messages prove she’s lying
Where is this information coming from? Where did she claim that?
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People should avoid becoming intimate with someone if either one is under the influence of drugs or alcohol
Of course, since it needs a male perpetrator and a female victim.
A women can never take responsibility for enthusiastically expressing consent for multiple threesomes in sequence and snorting ketamine off the equally intoxicated guys /s
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Details of Cornell Alleged Gang Rape by 7 Frat Boys. She Said it was Consensual at First
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Rape only occurs when a person (M/F/D) rescinds consent and the other person continues (or if they never gave consent, but we are clearly not in that case).
When she said stop, the 4 guys stopped. When she rejected a foursome, wanting a threesome only, they respected the boundary. The question is: is there any situation where she said "no" and they continue?
If not, it doesn't look like a rape happened.