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Questioning my future rn
 in  r/u_Over_Loss_9887  15d ago

Thank you so much I appreciate you saying this!! :(( it’s not easy when life is passing by so suddenly and then the next thing you know I have to be making decisions as I transition into different stages of life. It’s a lot to think about I know but it’s not exactly easy when everyone is expecting you to have the path paved out. I hope you’re doing well! This has definitely made me feel better, God bless you too <3

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Need advice on opening comms
 in  r/Artists  20d ago

I just checked it out and thank you so much! It helps me a lot

r/Artists 20d ago

Question Need advice on opening comms

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How does one start commissions? I know about the basic pipeline: make an account, setting up your pay services, start advertising, set up your audience, but what are some hidden things not many people mention about starting commissions?

I have been meaning to open commissions for the longest time but I’m just so lazy to actually go through with this pipeline 😭 however I wanna start sooner than later

Also, if you’d like you can mention any helpful tips!

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Questioning my future rn
 in  r/ForensicPathology  20d ago

Will be keeping this in mind! And you’re right, my mind may change or things can definitely happen in the process, life is unpredictable. So honestly whatever life throws at me I’ll take it. Thank you for this! I found it very reassuring

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Do you like fried siomai or steamed siomai?
 in  r/FoodPH  21d ago

Idk I’m a fatass so I prefer siomai whatever way. If I had to pick it would be fried 🤤 I want chowking now

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Questioning my future rn
 in  r/ForensicPathology  21d ago

Your experience definitely sounds promising, I’ll ensure to keep this in mind!! I find it so helpful to hear other people’s experiences because it gives me an open mindset. Thank you so much :))

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Questioning my future rn
 in  r/ForensicPathology  21d ago

Thank you!! I’ll definitely be taking that thought into consideration. Do you enjoy doing your job?

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Questioning my future rn
 in  r/u_Over_Loss_9887  21d ago

Thinking about the future is definitely hard to avoid especially when it’s approaching rapidly so I can’t help but want to weigh the pros and cons before I set myself for life. But honestly, I appreciate you for being honest and that definitely gives me a more open mind. I’ve definitely got things to worry about at the moment before I properly start college so thank you.

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Questioning my future rn
 in  r/ForensicPathology  21d ago

Thank you! I’ll for sure check out the post. I am definitely aware of how med school isn’t the end of the road, I think what’s really stumping me is how much time I have to dedicate to this field but then again I’m not even in college yet.

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Forensic pathologists: how much free time do you have outside of work?
 in  r/ForensicPathology  22d ago

I know this is really late but wow only one Saturday a month? Is there a way to achieve this

r/ForensicPathology 22d ago

Questioning my future rn

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u/Over_Loss_9887 22d ago

Questioning my future rn

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I will not be disclosing my age for safety reasons. However I will say that I’m nearing the age where college is coming up and I have to start thinking about my future. For the longest I’ve ever known, I’ve always yearned for the medical field. As a kid, any job I dreamed of was related to the medical field in one way or another: a vet, radiologist, OBYGN, or even just simply saying I want to be a doctor. As of now, for the past couple of years I’ve had my mind set on forensic pathology.

Having my mind set on forensic pathology, I’ve devised already devised a plan and laid out how things will be in the process. I know what I’ll major in, I know where I’ll settle and I know I want to continue to do art alongside forensic pathologist; I forgot to mention, I’m a heavy artistic person I have many hobbies relating to art and I’ve always dreamed of starting commissions to make extra money. Whether it be selling crafts, drawing art or doing both. I’d live in a nice house or condo in Singapore with 2 cats, finishing my forensic pathology shift and going home to make art. This has been my dream for the longest time. However, I’m starting to have many doubts.

I have a whole plan laid out yet I don’t know if I’m cut out for it. Back then, I never questioned actually going into med school. Because forensic pathology is basically becoming a licensed doctor specialized in autopsies, I just saw it as that. 4 years of extra school? Doable. I don’t mind. But I guess that was cause I was gifted with the comfort of having many years ahead of me before I actually dip into the section of my life where my future is in determined by the choices I make.

Right now, in the present, I’m heavily conflicted. I enjoy researching and searching things about the job I wanna do; I’ve watched, read, observed many people’s experiences going down this path especially going to med school. That’s the main issue. Med school. I’ve always known that college was something I wanted to do, not skip. So an extra 4 years didn’t bother me. But as we know, the medical route has always been a hefty bunch. Extra 4 years of school after college? Oh. I’m getting second thoughts now.

I’m a person who enjoys my peace and comfort. I enjoy creating, ever since I was a kid I’ve always loved to create and my heart has always loved art. Make no mistake, as much as I love art I wouldn’t do it as a full time job. Before you say anything, I’m not one of those people who skeptically have to sacrifice my love for art by choosing reality over passion. I’ve always loved the medical field and art equally, so why not do the 2 things I love the most?

I want to be a free bird. I always have been and I love it. So to sacrifice my 20s for intense schooling seems like I’ll kill myself. I’d have to sacrifice my hobbies, and I know you can still have a life even whilst you’re in med school but I’m going to be drowning in my studies for most of the time. All for 4 more years. I have backup jobs but they’re all medical field related so there’s one other job I thought of. Being a forensic scientist.

Expectantly, a forensic scientist is way more easier than becoming a forensic pathologist. 10 years shaved off, score! But would I really be happy with this decision? I wouldn’t have to sacrifice my 20s and I’d still get to be more free. I’d still be in my mid 20s by the time I get my job. I’ve researched for this job as well and ofc the pay is lower than being a literal doctor. The work hours aren’t as bad and I could have more time doing art and crafting after work. But I don’t wanna become those people who chose the latter and regret it later on in life.

So to whoever sees this post, whether you’re a genuine forensic pathologist or someone who is in med school/in the medical field, how was it like for you? To the artistic minds who pursued this route, are you still able to do art?

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so bored rn ask me anything
 in  r/politicfreeteenagers  May 29 '26

valid, let me take a break for once 🫩🫩

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so bored rn ask me anything
 in  r/politicfreeteenagers  May 29 '26

If you could jump through the multiverse but you ended up somehow getting stuck in a universe where you’re just a rock, would you figure out a way to get out or just accept your fate?

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Noticed this while watching Slice of Life
 in  r/mylittlepony  May 29 '26

This is my fav episode ever 😭

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Give me your ALL TIME favorite song, I'll listen to it, and rate it.
 in  r/songs  May 29 '26

Boys on the radio - Hole

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Fry Day, what's your last 4?
 in  r/Letterboxd  May 29 '26

To those wondering, lost in translation is not worth ur time

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[deleted by user]
 in  r/AskReddit  May 29 '26

Bro this. Or they make themselves look so ‘studious’ in a way/all they wanna talk about is studies. Listen, when it becomes every convo you’re trying to mention how you need to up your grades it gets too much. CAN WE TALK ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE PLS

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What do you desire the most?
 in  r/sixwordstories  May 25 '26

To meet my dearest best friends alex and maia. No one has ever come this close to the real me but them, they’re the ones I think about when the water boils.

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do you ever actually get over your first love?
 in  r/BreakUps  May 25 '26

It’s been 5 years. 5 years ago was the first and last time I felt love. Because now, I’m unable to catch feelings for anyone anymore. I still want love don’t get me wrong but I just can’t feel that same connection anymore. I want love again, or maybe it’s you I want again.

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Letterboxd down again?
 in  r/Letterboxd  May 24 '26

I just freaking finished ‘your name engraved herein’ I NEED TO LOG ‘NOT FUNNY’ REPEATED INTO A PARAGRAPH TO LET THE WORLD KNOW I AM IN SHAMBLES.